when i act like myself poeple tell me that im werid ( in a good way sometimes) or they call me a dork. but on the other hands the mature people in the community thinks im not being serouis or mature. i'm not sure whats wrong with me but i do fall in the subject as cold hearted, in trueth i'm not a social person and i'm to afired to be with someone, and i have hide my emotions for all my life.............they started to come out a while ago, the feeling of being alone and depress i need to get control what do i do?
2006-10-07 18:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The key is being yourself. If people don't like you move on to the next. You may be able to get someone with a false facade, but you will never keep them with that. Eventually, the real you always shows through. And, try changing the places you go or the people you try to hang out with. Many people are looked at as cold hearted because they do not advertise their every feeling, I am one of them. The people I am friends with accept that about me and they enjoy my quirks. If people don't like me, I don't care. The important thing is liking yourself.
2006-10-07 18:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate, I just ignore people and be happy with life anyway, if they cant accept you for who you are then its not worth the trouble of becoming depressed. If anything that just makes things worse because when you feel bad you take out on the people around you and that makes them like you less. I say you should just continue being yourself no matter what.
2006-10-08 01:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by blue_1534 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to your local holistic MD and getting some herbal medication. The Dr. can help you to feel less antisocial and get more control over your emotions. I don't sagest going to a none holistic MD because they will give you chemicals rather than herbs and those chemicals can cause other problems.
2006-10-08 01:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzybunny95531 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found your niche yet. don't hide your emotions that leads to a very unhappy life. just try finding some new friends. talk to some people you kid of think are unique(weird) you may find you have a lot in common and you will make very interesting friends.
2006-10-08 01:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being a Dork! i was .. and i was starting to feel like you are now.. then i met... him <3 and he 'got' me. Yes he thinks im weird, but he doesn't mind. He accepts me for me. You will find someone too! as impossible as that sounds.
2006-10-08 01:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading this book called "How to Win Friends and Influence People". You can find it on Amazon.com for about $8.00
http://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0671723650
2006-10-08 01:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by TheKid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile.
you are like me. but its not good to hold your pain in , it will hurt and it will be anger when it comes out. just be yourself if someone doesnet like it then forget them. let somone like you for who you are. dnt try to imprese people.
2006-10-08 01:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are. thats what makes you you. im very dark and reserved, always depressed, and i dont care what the world think of me. im me and if you dont like it dont look right.
2006-10-08 01:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't wear a fake face forever be youself if it wierd then so be it
2006-10-08 02:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself...otherwise you will lose touch with yourself... to thy own self be true..
2006-10-08 01:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by curious dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋