With us men, its more about your personality then your actually physical appearance.
Case in point, when I was fat and getting rejected all the time, it seemed like every guy I saw with the type of girl I liked was some skinny mofo. So, I gave up a lot of stuff that I like eating, and in about a half-year, I became skinny. Still kept getting rejected. Then it seemed like every girl was into the bigger guys (the teddy bears so to speak) and that I was a puny little twig, and thats what I saw (and also how I projected myself). Now I am half way between, and am struggling to have more confidence, and the more progress I make, the more I notice women checking me out. So, really, its all about confidence in your self.
Keep your chin up, have fun no matter what, and you will be ok.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-07 20:33:09
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answered by Anonymous
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yes there are women out here who like big men. i dont like skinny guys to be honest. i like a man who is not only sweet but also can be my big thick teddy bear. so i think there is nothing wrong with meat on your bones. the world is blind to big people but they are just as good a a skinny person i hope that answer your question. good luck on finding your match
2006-10-07 18:46:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Lots of girls are into big guys. Just don't be too physically choosy.
Not many are into guys who refer to themselves as mofos, though.
Lose that, and you'll be in luck.
2006-10-07 18:42:12
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answered by ? 5
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See the movie "Hitch." The big guy in that movie is SO hot, to me at least. There is something about him that makes me go squish. But it could be his personality. Women can easily overlook size if you have a good attitude. Check your words, not your scale.
2006-10-07 19:00:16
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answered by Ade 6
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i've got in no way dated a huge guy till these days. i've got continuously been interested in very in fantastic condition adult men. Now that i'm relationship a huge guy, i understand that I had constrained myself unnecessarily. i like him. he's who he's, in spite of his length. all and sundry ought to be truthful. in the event that they don't seem to be attracted, they are in simple terms not attracted... adult men try this, too, although, and are each and every so often even cruel. i've got seen a guy giggle interior the face of a woman that became bigger than what he enjoyed, and became not a exceedingly obese female yet purely somewhat obese. extra perfect for human beings to easily say "i'm not fascinated" and allow it bypass at that.
2016-11-27 00:13:14
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answered by ? 4
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Go you. I'm fat and happy too, and my wife is proof that there are women out there who like the heavyset men... we're built for comfort, not for speed.
2006-10-07 18:43:39
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answered by Anonymous
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im sure some do..i dont wana a skinny guy, i need a man that can handle all my goods.
2006-10-07 18:41:01
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answered by Christina 2
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there somebody for everyone hang in there your day will come don't give up
2006-10-07 18:42:46
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answered by Anonymous
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