Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

My boyfriend has left me, I am 36 weeks pregnant. He left me for a drug and alcohol addiction and because he wants to party instead of grow up. I hurt very bad right now. He has made me feel defective like my love isn't any good and like nobody will want me. Is this normal? I don't even like to think about sex because it makes me sick.

2006-10-07 18:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by shane m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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I can't!

2006-10-07 18:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Tyron 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend IMed me today and didn't even know it was me. When I saw the picture I took of him in his profile, I asked him what he wanted. Well he's been telling me he's been missing me and that he's sorry for breaking up with me. I don't know what to do. He said he's only dated 1 girl since then and he thought about me all the time. He said he would of called me but he lost my number. I don't know what to do. He's admitted he still likes me. I don't want hurt again.

2006-10-07 18:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Friends

this never ending build up ,is frustrating ! Whenever my man does it he ruins the clothes. kinda think on purpose. What do you think?

2006-10-07 18:29:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 18:29:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 18:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guy marriages should be banned because it's an abomination to God and it is so wrong like divorce is. Stop guy marriages happening , it is time to make a strong stand for what is right. Divorce should be banned also to save the ordained marriage. Marriage should not be entered into lightly because the marriage commitment is a covenant that must not be broken while both spouses lives , even if they think they may have made a mistake. No one fells out from love , they fell out from commitment.You make a commitment than you honor that commitment. Marriage is a LIFETIME commitment until death. People who does not keep their lifetime commitment should be banned from ever getting remarry and go to jail for a long time to learn not to be a quiter. Well you can't take the heat than get out from the kitchen.

2006-10-07 18:28:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

some are adult breast feeding...teasing other men..etc...

2006-10-07 18:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Lita fedrick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is bothering me is that i dont enjoy the company of anyone around me. i like to b wi myslf alone instead of othres. its not that i m bad company, but i dont see people around me "my type". i feel safe alone at home by myslf. is it so difficult to meet people whose company i may enjoy? do i have a problem? some times i do feel i should have friends i could talk to and connect wi. how???

2006-10-07 18:27:21 · 8 answers · asked by JJJ 2 in Friends

Your soul is like the vastest sea
And mine a darting fish:
I lose myself within your love;
I live within your heart.

I breathe your love: it is my air,
My element, my world.
I know no other ambiance;
I have no other dream.

I know there is outside your love
A world of rocks and sand;
And I could live there, too, but oh!
How poor and thin each breath!

How rich my world, how beautiful,
Alive within your love,
Each moment filled with dancing light
Refracted through your eyes!

2006-10-07 18:26:05 · 15 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Friends

Ex: My friend gave a $60 tip to a guy that did repairs in her house.

My friend is not rich, and makes minimum wage. What's the use of being generous cause I asked her who gives you TIPS OF ANY KIND IN LIFE?

2006-10-07 18:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Friends

2006-10-07 18:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by cal 2 in Singles & Dating

i have agreed with this guy to go over his house to have wine and make it out. We both know it is just a fling. Now that i start to regret. i like him but he doesnt like me at all. And i wish my first time would be with someone whom i love and loves me in returns. how should i tell him that i am not going his place anymore?

2006-10-07 18:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by miserable 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, what is your usual routine?

2006-10-07 18:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by sassy girl 3 in Family

2006-10-07 18:21:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

MY HUSBAND OF 5 YEARS ASKED MY DAUGHTER, WHO IS 13, IF HE COULD PLAY WITH HER BOOBS. LATER THAT NIGHT HE TOUCHED HER THROUGH HER CLOTHES. BOTH SAID IT HAD NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE. I KICKED HIM OUT ANYWAY. THAT WAS 6 MONTHS AGO. WE HAVE 3 YEAR OLD TWINS AND HE ONLY SEES THEM WITH ME AND WITHOUT MY DTR. WE DIDN'T PRESS CHARGES, HER CHOICE. DID I DO THE RIGHT THING? AND WHEN WILL ALL THE TEARS(MINE) STOP. MY DTR TELLS ME TO GET OVER IT. IT'S NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL. CAN A PERSON JUST SNAP ONE DAY AND DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT. HE ALWAYS TALKED SO BAD WHEN A MOLESTER HAD BEEN CAUGHT. SO WHY DID HE DO IT. HE SAYS SHE FLIRTED WITH HIM, BUT SHE NEVER KNEW HER FATHER. MY HUSBAND RAISED HER. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 8 YEARS. SO MUCH OF HER LIFE. ANYONE BEEN HERE. MY WORLD IS CRUSHED.

2006-10-07 18:20:50 · 16 answers · asked by JILL W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is this?

2006-10-07 18:20:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 18:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half im 21 shes 20... we are very positive that our relationship will last till the end of time... i live 6 hours from where she goes to school. she has been going out the past 2 weeks on thursday and the weekend to clubs with a couple friends, when i ask her if she was dancing with other guys she says yes... now i trust her with my WHOOOOOOOOOOLE life but lately i have been feeling insecure about her thinking it is ok and says im over reacting... i told her that i feel weird about her going out and dancing with other guys. i cant sleep at night because i know she is out dancing with other guys and she dosnt seem to care that im weird about this, someone help me and let me know what i should do or what i should think.

2006-10-07 18:19:16 · 17 answers · asked by hanny man 1 in Singles & Dating

looking to order christmas gifts for my kids cant afford to make down payments but can make monthly payments something like abc distributing or something

2006-10-07 18:19:09 · 3 answers · asked by mslanette2u 1 in Family

Every time i go over there she is rude and horrible annoying. One day i was over there and she said to me are you going to wrok today and i said no i have just called in sick and she goes "why you dont look sick, whats wrong with you, maybe if you put some shoes on you wouldnt get sick". Then the other day she said to me clean up the house and i said "no its not my mess" and she said yes it is you know it is. Then last night she said, we are having BBQ for dinner and there is plenty there and i dont want to eat with her coz she always says something to put me down so i said no thanks and she said "well you're just being anti social" and then another time she called me a snob !! My boyfriend knows that i hate her and that she is annoying but he will never say anything to her and i cant. I dont know what to do. I can never do anything right by her and now i hate seeing her.

2006-10-07 18:18:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the situation:

My fiance's two sister's ( 21 and 15) are staying with us. For some reason I am bothered by them being here. My fiance says he is tierd of hearing me gripe about wanting them to leave. I feel like it's my house and I should have a say in the matter. All this going on is making my SO anxious EVERY SINGLE DAY.. It's like a never ending feeling. I wish I could just kill myself sometimes. It's getting to the point that I am thinking about leaving. Why is it so wrong that I don't want them here??? He dosen't understand that I don't want them here just because I want it just to be me and him here. If it gets to it, should I leave?

2006-10-07 18:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by bookworm1885 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 18:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a 25 yr old pedophile

please help, how do i report him

2006-10-07 18:16:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say that the guys is about 15 and has been in love with this girl for about 6 month and just recently discovered that the girl didn't like him back?

2006-10-07 18:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by minoru 2 in Singles & Dating

going into a trade as to become a gynecologist?Yeah me to then i pursued it! Oh yeah

2006-10-07 18:14:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two different relationships. One with my now, ex-boyfriend that I still love and he still loves me. We had a very good relationship but broke up because of the distance. I feel incredible when I'm with him. An amazing passion and love. He makes me feel so special...

Now with my best friend... I feel peace... This great love... I feel secure with him... He's told me he's in love with me... but I couldn't correspond to his feeling because of my ex...

Do I love them both? What's going on?

2006-10-07 18:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Singles & Dating

1. Life is tough for me for the past 5 yrs, low income 1K or less. work 7 days a wk 12 to 14 hrs a day. i'm living in SGP, suprised?
2. To me, life mostly suffering & lots of bad luck.
3. I don't want to burdan next generation.
4. If i have children, i want to give the best of everything. But i know i can't now.
5. I ask this question because under lots of pressure for relitive and friends. All asking "when have baby" when ever meet.
6. I don't want my child to suffer. Try to imagine your own life......
a. New born - you cry.
b. First day at school - you cry
c. All exams - ha ha need to explain?
d. NS for male - tough but remember & talk about for life.
e. Love affair - heart breaking at lease once.
f. Job - talanted but non seem to aware.
g. Family - who dare to say i have no family problems.
h. Sickness - high expanses, all human get it sooner or later.
i. Old age - look around U!!!
j. death - thats not the end. Just begining of next cycle.
k. many more no space....

2006-10-07 18:14:09 · 9 answers · asked by loneygun 1 in Family

ive got parent issues like everyone else. my mom moves around from guy to guy she would go from a lawyer to a mechanic to a security guard than back to a lawyer all in one week. i normally wouldnt care because we have no relationship we dont talk at all. but the one guy she happens to love is a total asshole. im 15 and we just moved in a month ago. he gets into fullout fistfights with his 16year old son and i can hear the hole thing. i avoided him but today i had friends over and they were drinking when he sobered up enough to realize that we drank his beer it caught his attention. he hit me over and over and i wasnt good at defending myself and when he came after me i froze up. now iv got bruises and the hole half of my face is bright red. and get this after all this he asks for an apology! my mom said it was a once only thing and my stepbrother said "once only thing my ***" i no this cant be normal how do i get out of this without messing up school and turning out like my stepbrother

2006-10-07 18:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by Annie B 1 in Family

ive got parent issues like everyone else. my mom moves around from guy to guy she would go from a lawyer to a mechanic to a security guard than back to a lawyer all in one week. i normally wouldnt care because we have no relationship we dont talk at all. but the one guy she happens to love is a total asshole. im 15 and we just moved in a month ago. he gets into fullout fistfights with his 16year old son and i can hear the hole thing. i avoided him but today i had friends over and they were drinking when he sobered up enough to realize that we drank his beer it caught his attention. he hit me over and over and i wasnt good at defending myself and when he came after me i froze up. now iv got bruises and the hole half of my face is bright red. and get this after all this he asks for an apology! my mom said it was a once only thing and my stepbrother said "once only thing my ***" i no this cant be normal how do i get out of this without messing up school and turning out like my stepbrother

2006-10-07 18:12:16 · 19 answers · asked by Annie B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships