ive got parent issues like everyone else. my mom moves around from guy to guy she would go from a lawyer to a mechanic to a security guard than back to a lawyer all in one week. i normally wouldnt care because we have no relationship we dont talk at all. but the one guy she happens to love is a total asshole. im 15 and we just moved in a month ago. he gets into fullout fistfights with his 16year old son and i can hear the hole thing. i avoided him but today i had friends over and they were drinking when he sobered up enough to realize that we drank his beer it caught his attention. he hit me over and over and i wasnt good at defending myself and when he came after me i froze up. now iv got bruises and the hole half of my face is bright red. and get this after all this he asks for an apology! my mom said it was a once only thing and my stepbrother said "once only thing my ***" i no this cant be normal how do i get out of this without messing up school and turning out like my stepbrother
2006-10-07 18:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by Annie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to report him. Do you have any other family members you can live with? You should probably stop typing this over and over again here as well before he sees it and goes crazier.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-07 18:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops. if your mother is so blinded by her "love" for him that she doesn't even care that he hit you, she might need some help too. Chances are that was not a one time thing. He will probably be inclined to to it again.
Call the cops or child protective services on him. If you really dont want to do that, maybe move in with your dad if he's around or even your grandparents, just to get away from this guy. Protect yourself, and put yourself first. Don't worry about hurting people's feelings. Get outa there.
2006-10-07 18:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by shortee807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy isn't even your genuine dad an there are regulations that he has damaged in various procedures i'd sue this guy if i develop into you an positioned expenses on him huge time if even hits his own kids they have mad regulations about that too i understand even as i develop into youthful i did a lie an were given beat undesirable so i guess that's why i do not lie now yet they did no longer have the regulations like that that they do now whats you genuine dad like are you able to stay with him or see in case you could stay with someone allow you to understand'll get the college performed . i understand going to a sparkling college is not elementary i left homestead at 15 an did college from homestead an worked . an stayed with my dad off an on tell someone attempt ed to teach me in for a run away 2 years after the information
2016-12-04 09:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is clean yourself up. Then pick up the phone and call the police. You should try to find a close relative to go and live with. If you don't have one then you should go to a home. I know that doesn't sound good, but it is better that being in a home where there are fights always going on and your mother just letting her boyfriend beat on you. Leave!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 18:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Dg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, that's a horrible story. As a mother, it makes me sad that your mother isn't protecting you from this piece of crap boyfriend. If you can't report them (which you should consider, for the abuse) try to keep your distance. Don't drink, even a little. Focus your attention on your school work and taking care of yourself and keep your distance from that maniac. That guy may feel sorry that he hit you, but if he gets angry again, you can expect that he will hit you again. I strongly recommend that you call the police, but if you feel that you can't, find other family members who will support you, and stay away from him as much as possible.
2006-10-07 18:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to the police, NOW. In your condition, you have the prove of physical abuse. Do you have any family that you can stay with? Do you even know who your father is? You need to get away from this @$$hole, AND your mother. Since she hardly deserves the 'title'. Please stay away from the beer. You definitely need a positive role model. You are correct. Your home life has no resemblance to normal.
2006-10-07 18:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops. This type of behavior is not a one time deal.
This sh*t only gets worse as time goes by.
You need someone that can help you and the law is all there is that can at this point.
2006-10-07 18:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annie,
Make a police report ... perhaps your mother makes bad choices .. perhaps she can tolerate his crap ... Your fifteen and don't have to put up with the abuse.
Make him accountable for his actions!
PS.... stay away from the beer till your older.
If you love your mom and respect your self ... do whats right .... be the young adult and put the cops to work tonight !
2006-10-07 18:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have asked this same question 5 times. Isn't that against the terms of service on yahoo answers?
2006-10-07 18:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to protect yourself from that ******... after all, he isn't your real dad and even if he is your real dad, he still doesn't have the right to treat you like that.. call police.. and have him arrested.. your step brother needs help.. he can also attest that..
your mom, i know you're not in good terms w/ her.. she is still your mother... please also understand that your mom needs somebody to be with and its just that she falls for the wrong guy... this needs counsel too..
hope i answered your question
2006-10-07 18:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋