My ex boyfriend IMed me today and didn't even know it was me. When I saw the picture I took of him in his profile, I asked him what he wanted. Well he's been telling me he's been missing me and that he's sorry for breaking up with me. I don't know what to do. He said he's only dated 1 girl since then and he thought about me all the time. He said he would of called me but he lost my number. I don't know what to do. He's admitted he still likes me. I don't want hurt again.
2006-10-07 18:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he sounds sincere when he says it on the phone. he brought up stuff that happened before he broke up with me.
idk
2006-10-07 18:38:37 · update #1
Alright. Now I can type more. Before I couldn't because I was trying to type it and talk to him.
I understand why he broke up with me, do I believe it? I don't know. He's been in and out of foster homes. Well his real dad started getting sick and wanted to spend time with him. Well also everytime he gets close to his foster parents, he always seemed to loose him. He says the way I would look at him made him feel special and that he was getting to close and he didn't want hurt in the end.
He's saying he still likes me and he wants another chance. But I don't know. That was back in January when I met him and dated him. I've changed in the matter of 9 months.
I don't know how my mom will take it either. When he broke up with me, she wasn't really that happy. I'll talk to her about it whenever I talk to her next.
Yeah I still have feelings for him, a little. When I saw that picture I took of him, I remembered all the stuff we did. I don't know...I'm so confused.
2006-10-07 19:30:44 · update #2
I guess I should explain it a little bit more. We started dating in January. We didn't last long because of his dad. He also admitted it that he got scared, because he could tell that I cared about him and he didn't want hurt. That sounds corny coming from a guy. But when he was with me, he knew he wasn't getting nothing and he still knows it. He tried and I told him to stop or I'll take his *** home. He stopped but he dumped me right after. Which is making me second guess this. Because I refused his offer.
I don't know. Like I told him, I'll talk to him as friends. I don't trust you and probably won't for awhile.
I'm not dumb. I've been through this situation before with guys. It's just, he opened up to me and shared stuff about his life and I know it was true because his foster parents were right there backing him up. It's just confusing. Because I still do like him and I thought about him and I've even drove by his house a couple times, not meaning to.
I don't know....
2006-10-07 20:02:18 · update #3
u like him na
he too does
give him a chance
u can give him one more chance please do
2006-10-07 18:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by kuks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds totally idiotic. First you say that he IMd you and didn't even know it was you. That's sad....was he drunk or drinking when he IMd you? I'm guessing it was an accident. Then you also said he lost your number.....a guy doesn't lose his girl's number unless he doesn't want to be with the girl. He's probably looking for a booty call or wants something uncommitted with you while he dates other girls on the side. Stay away from him and find someone better because this guy sounds like a big time loser and jerk!
2006-10-08 02:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Asia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lost your number? that sounds a little shady... and why after all this time does he want to get together? ditch him... better yet give him a taste of his own medicine; when you have him where you want him "lose his number"
2006-10-08 01:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bonits41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think he said that in all sincerity or is he just a player trying to break your heart again.
good luck
2006-10-08 01:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love him go back to him but if not f*ck him and leave him
2006-10-08 01:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ride Or Die Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance pls.
2006-10-08 01:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Shammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋