Is it normal to call your daughter a *****?

Question

my mom called me that

I think she needs to chill, i never did anything

I mean she should be happy she has me, hmm I wonder if she would regret it if I was dead. I'm not like other kids who piss and moan if they don't get that shirt they wanted. When she asks if I need anything at the store I always say no. Plus other things. I might sound mean now but sorry, it's just frusturating.

She also grabs my arm really hard and twsits it and once in a while slaps my face or something. And she wonders why I'm messed up..

Answer 1

u r sweet girl u r not bitchh i think ur mother loves u and never hate u she just nervous from u and said it without any meaning to say it
u must forgive ur mother because whatever she say to u she is ur mother

Answer 2

No, but it's normal for parents to get mad at their kids sometimes, especially when they're teenagers.

It doesn't mean she hates you, especially if this is the first time she's said it. It means she's very frustrated with the relationship between the two of you, and probably is upset about some other things in her life that have nothing to do with you as well.

As you get older, you get closer and closer to being an adult equal to your parents. If she called you a *****, that means that she recognizes that to some degree. You should look at why she was so angry at you, and if you were doing anything unreasonable too.

Honestly, it's not the end of the world if she calls you a ***** once in the middle of a fight. She'll probably regret it a lot, and feel bad about it later. Don't hold it against her too much. Try to see where she's coming from, and if there's something that the both of you can do to improve your relationship.

Answer 3

It's pretty mean for a mother to call her daughter a *****. Even if you did nothing to make your mother angry, if I were you, I would talk to her, when your both calm. Ask your mother why she called you that, and ask her if she has any idea how much she hurt you. I'm a mother, and I'm certainly not perfect. When my daughter tells me that I have hurt her feelings, I feel awful and I take into consideration whether or not I was wrong, and what I could do better next time. Don't let this be something that keeps you two apart.

Answer 4

Being called a ***** is not nice to hear from anyone let alone by your mother how ever, unfortulenly, it is said and heard way too much. Maybe this will help, your mom is just a human with feelings and emotions and sometimes that can get away from her just like the rest of us. have you ever called some one that? and most likely felt like s%^* after you said it, its a wash but if this is something that bothers you way too much, you should sit her down (when the timing is right) and let her know how you feel about that.

Answer 5

No, it's not. Says alot about how you were raised, and how you are raising your daughter. Children learn by example. And it is totally NOT acceptable. Maybe you need to lay down some rules before she shows up in school with an atittude and starts shooting people. Sorry, but if I ever said that word in my house growing up, my mother would have slapped me silly. And then my father would have taken a belt to me. Now, that's child abuse. That's the bottom line nowadays: kids have no healthy respect or fear of their parents or any authority because they are condenscending and weak, and instead of disciplining their children they coddle them. So they can go to school and shoot each other instead of learning how to respect and get along with others. Because they can always blame it on their parents how screwed up they are, instead of their parents taking responsibility for their own children and total lack of parenting skills. Sorry. That's my opinion. Agree or disagree; it's up to you. Somebody has to start taking responsibility for their offspring and stop blaming everybody else for their lack of parenting skills. No, it's not normal to call your daughter a *****. Says alot about your mothering.

Answer 6

Hi I think that word is used to refer to a female of the mamallian family that is having or has had offspring. I think its inappropriate to use it to refer to you. Why your mother wants to insult you is anyone's guess.

I suggest you watch and listen carefully to your mother. She sounds like a woman who you should NEVER take after. Learn from her. If she does something think that perhaps you should do the opposite. For example make up your mind never to use insulting language towards your own children.

Answer 7

My pal has a daughter said as Eve and that i have a cousin said as Adam. they're well-known names, yet once you've a boy and a lady and said as them Adam and Eve, i'd locate that somewhat stupid.. I dont understand truly....

Answer 8

My mom never called me a *****. But then, I wouldn't have called her names either. It unfortunatly depends on your relationship and what kind of person your mother is. Not everyones mom is good at it!

Answer 9

raising children is one of the hardest jobs there is! I am sure your mom did not mean that, she is either angry or hurt, tell her it hurt you and I am sure she will appologize soon for that one. Sorry hon, hope it don't happen much, she must be under a lot of stress!

Answer 10

My mom never called my sister that. At least not to her face. And they fought a lot. Sorry...