Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

Where are all of the family men? Who set good examples for thier children? Who love and honor thier wives? Who pray with thier families? Where are they? What is with men these days?

2006-10-07 17:36:36 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her brother had a party tonight and invited us several weeks ago. I told her that i didn't want to go but she wanted to. That was fine by me but she told me she would only stay for a little while and then be home. She left at 6pm and it's now midnight. Oh, and her brothers best friend was invited to and he was going without a date. Should i trust her on this one or should i be concerned and question her when she gets home?

2006-10-07 17:35:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i use to go with this boi and we broke up over rumors, eventually we started back talkin but never started to go back out. I asked him if he loved me and only me he said yes. a couple dayz later i went to his myspace page and on of his "top friends" has him as her background and has pic of him sayin my baby/my boo. i asked him who she was he said his physco ex girlfriend. then i go to his other pics on myspace and he has a pic of her on there...and none of me. I was going through his phone one day and read his text messages all from gurls i asked him who those gurl where and he said his ex's. he says he loves all of us but im the one he wants to be with but yet he still hasnt asked me back out and we 'just friends' right now. One day me him his best friend and my best friend all went out...they both said we might as well go back out but we havent....give me some advise and let me kno what i should do?

2006-10-07 17:35:11 · 20 answers · asked by trufolife04 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known a guy for about three years and have worked with him for about two. I have serious feeling for him and I have a feeling he has them for me as well by his actions. The only problem is our job for bids us from having a relationship. I need help on telling him my feelings and not getting us both into trouble or fired.

2006-10-07 17:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by atagurl101 2 in Singles & Dating

This question may be answered better by men. I have been with my fiancee for a very long time and I am very sexually attracted to him. Whenever he is near me, his "body" responds. I am very adventrous and may just drag him off to the bathroom in the grocery store. Or initiate it going down the highway. I thought that everything was fine until he said that I was too demanding. This hurt my feelings. I do not understand, he is all over me. He says that he should initiate it sometime. I am so confused, our love life is fantastic. We are very active. I am trying to understand what he wants. Men help me out here.Please let me know what he is talking about? He says that he do not want to be less active. I am truelly confused! Right now he has called me four times to come to bed...Should I just start turning my back//

2006-10-07 17:33:47 · 32 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

im soo afraid im not good enough?
he's cute, smart and alot of girls like him?

2006-10-07 17:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by sweet18apparatus 4 in Singles & Dating

// I need to send this mail in correct form.Please correct it for me. It is easy .Copy >correct >and peste.
Thanks for your comments.
I know, I am not good in photography.
Last day visit for zina aunt. I got a shock. I can explain it in woed. She turn into a mummy. I shoot some pictures for (for your better understanding) you. hope, you will get it tomorrow. She burn herself. Even she cant walk properly. It should be clear who is responsible for it. and the so called doctor must get punish.

Rayan is out of order. He spoil himself. Every day he fight with his mother. It’s a terrible situation. Today I again meet with zita aunt and bring Rayan with me.

Another shocking news is Banod uncle was hijacked and deadly injured. His eye condition is very bad. I suggest him for rest but he do not pay any penny attention to me.
What can I do? I cant force him.
Zita aunt will stay in Dhaka for her regular checkup.
And finally she realized that homeopathic slowly drag her to grave yard.

2006-10-07 17:32:31 · 4 answers · asked by Rimi 2 in Family

how could i move my relationship to the next level i like him he might like me(i'm pretty sure he does) and i'm really shy should i wait or what

2006-10-07 17:32:16 · 5 answers · asked by hefner93 2 in Singles & Dating

What does this mean.
-is that weird?
-is it fishy?

I WOULDN'T encourage him to go to a strip club (cause i dont want him to look at OTHER naked women or touch them). (Girls, I know you understand this part.)

2006-10-07 17:32:06 · 9 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband was emotionally cold to me & had been for about 4 or 5 yrs of our 15 years tog, & so one day he was allowing our son to disrespect me & I left. He had gotten to where he didn't respect or really even "want" me anymore.

I finally took what self respect I had & walked out. He wants to come back to where I am (several hundred mi away now) but he wants to BLAME me (so bad!) for leaving. I have told him & told him that it is HIM that left (emotionally) years ago...told him that he could've kept me if he had wanted...(I really tried to help him "see" that our relationship was going south for a lonngggg time & he would even get nasty with me to get me to quit talking about things..grrrr. Pent up feelings get so old, esp when it feels like you're the only one that cares about a relationship!)

Anyway, now he calls & acts like nothing's wrong (of course!) & wants to move back in. I really want my family back together, but I don't know exactly what to do w/this character!

2006-10-07 17:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by John V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is a list: Mental illness, narcissim, addiction(s), retarded, psychologically messed up, religion.....

Are there any more reasons why a person would NOT get married?

2006-10-07 17:30:14 · 26 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i meet this guy for about a year. we started talking n then we started goin out. but then we broke up for sum stupid reason... he left to another state. Now he is back n we are talking again but im not sure if i should go back with him? he is cool and everthing but sometimes he can act so stupid like when we go out he acts like a lil kid... what should i do?

2006-10-07 17:30:03 · 2 answers · asked by OC_714 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, my hubby has 2 go 2 spain for about 3 months...should i pay $4000 and go...????....but im also preg.......and ill b alone!

2006-10-07 17:29:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a muslim and my bf is hindu.. we love each other alot n both our parents know abt it.. but my father likes to interfere in our relationship. He is always giving us some ridiculous house rules which we find annoying.. We talked to him abt it but there is no change in his character.. In fact it kinda worsen and he started to play mind games with us. As parents, i know they are worried and want the best for me.. But i can't convice them, he is the ONE for me.. Now me n my bf decides to go for a civil marriage as my dad will not agree to it.. We have made plans but i need to leave the house.. I don't know how to leave the house secretly and quietly.. I don't want my mom to worry either.... I thought of leaving a note and juz leave.... U think i should do it? My dad has many plans for me but NONE is for my future life..

2006-10-07 17:28:35 · 5 answers · asked by SyaKiRa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her family is abusive especially her brother (physically and mentally) and her parents do nothing about it. I try my best to stop it, but this has been going on for over a year. I can't stand hearing about it and its making me unhappy, but I lover her more than anything, What should I do? I don't want to hurt her and we have over a year before she can move out.

2006-10-07 17:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 17:27:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i am 15 and my parents are divorced and i live with my dad. how old do i have to be to go before a judge and tell them i want to live with my mom? what is the legal age i can choose who i want to live with?

2006-10-07 17:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we meet, fall in love, decide to move to a new province
once there both get jobs and an apartment
decide to have a baby
at 4 months pregnant, go to ultra sound find out we are having a boy
dad is excited, happy to be having a son
dad talks to baby telling him he can't wait to hold him, take him for walks
he kisses my stomach everyday
one morning at 5 mths pregnant, we make love, slow dance in the living room, he tells me how happy he is, how much he loves me and can't wait for us to be a family
I get ready for work, and he kisses me and my stomach bye telling me he loves me and will see me after work
I come home from work and he is gone.......no note no nothing
one month later he calls saying sorry, love you will call you tomorrow
2.5 months later calls to find out how his son is now that he is born
we talk, he says he is coming to be with us, can't wait and he will call tomorrow
4 months go by, a phone call, promise I will call tomorrow and that was 3 months ago

2006-10-07 17:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why does it matter that I am a white woman who dates black men? Actually I dont date naything I have been with him for 8 years and we get some nasty looks almost came to fist fighting a few times.

2006-10-07 17:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by megs 2 in Singles & Dating

I use to go out with this boy, but I found out that he was cheating on me, so that was the end of us. I kind of lost all of my respect for him when I found out that he was cheating on me so I didn't really take our break up that hard. I started to date this other boy and I guess he found out about it and that's when he started to mess with me again. I didnt really mind that because I like the way he messes with me.(We go to the same school) Me and the other guy didn't really work out so I had to stop talking to him. When he asked me why me and the other dude broke up I told him that I wasn't really fit to have boyfriends. That's when he told me that he misses me and that he wants me back. So now he's calling and calling and he wants an answer, but I don't know what to tell him because when he lost my trust it's not that easy to get it back. I don't know what to do because I told him to show me that he can be truthful and he did, but I still don't trust him at all. Should I trust him?

2006-10-07 17:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think this in an excuse for peoples behavior? I think a good old fashioned *** whoopin would take care of most of these kids. The bipolar part is a mood swing that everyone has from time to time. People need to get off all this mind altering medication and get back to the "old" ways of the world.

2006-10-07 17:27:01 · 15 answers · asked by awagner1971 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what's your favorite facial feature of a guy that really is your type?

what do you really look for when looking for a guy?

and also, do ladies really look at a guy's thing between his legs when they first see a guy like guys look at ladies top?? just curious

thanks

2006-10-07 17:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by Dan S. White 2 in Singles & Dating

im married allmost five years we got a 3 year old and if i want sex she dont say NO but if i dont make a move it dont happen and ive told/talk to her about how it makes me fell like she dont want me but still she dont show any concern what next ???

2006-10-07 17:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by runninglate 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 17:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hang out with lots of guys. They're not like all my boyfriends or anything its just during school I always find myself talking to guys more than girls, but I do have female friends. I'm a girl btw. Just so we're clear. My best friend is a guy. Is this odd or something?

2006-10-07 17:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We've been together for about three years now. I'm typically not a jealous girlfriend, hence the understanding of him thinking other girls are pretty, etc. But just a few days ago, i borrowed his lap top to work on a paper. He had all the essential school links saved under his favorites so that's what i clicked on. Along with his other "favorites" is a section specifically for porn. Jealousy only goes so far at my standing and it went beyond that when I found that out. Yes, I know that there's arrousal when watching it but I don't want him to start comparing me to those girls. We promised each other that we'd never keep secrets like that and when i asked him about it, he denied. My emotions are stoic at the moment and I don't know how to react. How could I bring up that topic to him once again?

2006-10-07 17:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First of all, I am not tryin to boast but i have never had any problems with girls. Until now. This girl has me struck. I cant get my game straight when i talk to her. U know the butterflies. My friends tell me to tell her. But if i told her the 100% truth about how strong my feelings for her are well i think she mite get the wrong idea. I think she mite think im obsessive and weird. which im not. But i really do care for her. were friends now. but i want more. so much more.

2006-10-07 17:25:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i changed into a guy id go out and shag lots of girls

2006-10-07 17:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 17:24:56 · 14 answers · asked by melon_rose 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it make you mad when you see a white woman with a black man and why? I dont care if you date white men hell you can have them all...

2006-10-07 17:24:49 · 1 answers · asked by megs 2 in Singles & Dating