Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

Wouldn't it be better to raise a child with one happy parent than two parents who fight all the time?

2006-10-07 17:24:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my neighbor for almost a year and we have talked a lot outside and on our cell phones. Anyway I am doing some business for him (Travel) and I suggested that we meet at a coffee house to discuss his travel plans in more detail, but he suggested his apartment. Does that seem like he wants to talk about other things than travel?

2006-10-07 17:24:14 · 2 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Friends

Okay so my ex txted me tonight to see whats up.. well we txted back like a couple times I asked whats up with him he told me and all of a sudden he said "so is there a new guy in your life yet?"

any ideas what he's trying to get at?
I'm just curious what y'all think!
it's not that I necessarily want him back, I just want to know your opinions, you know?

2006-10-07 17:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

She is 18 yrs old and graduated in May, and immediately moved in with some guy I did not even realize she knew. He is 25 yrs old, seperated and has a 3 yr old child. Today, she asked me if she could clean my house so she could get money from me to pay their water bill. Would you let her do it? She claims she cannot find a job. We live in a very rural area. Her boyfriend has a DUI and no drivers license and his mother drives him 25 miles to work every day. My daughter makes fun of me because I told her she cannot afford to smoke cigarettes.
This whole situtation makes me sick. I do not trust her anymore. She has screwed up her whole life. Instead of going to college she has chosen to shack up in a 2 bedroom trailer with a skank who is still married. She has no car, no job, nothing. What would you do about her request to clean my house for money and everything in general. I am so upset.

2006-10-07 17:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a lonely guy in grad school. 23. Not bad looking but perhaps a bit skinny. I want to eat dinner with someone on Saturday nights. I want to be able to call a girl and ask what she did today. Please help. I've never had a girlfriend and I don't like living like this.

2006-10-07 17:23:44 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan F 1 in Singles & Dating

im seriously curious as to what the true diffrence is between the 2 are.

2006-10-07 17:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by ThemusicalArtist 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 17:22:44 · 4 answers · asked by TayTay 1 in Singles & Dating

like expensive clothing, shoes, sunglasses, accessories? would that make you keep walking?

2006-10-07 17:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Singles & Dating

you aren't scared of anything? because im not afraid of dying if someone was gonna kill me i would walk right up to them and show them whats up

2006-10-07 17:21:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friend who lives close by says her step dad (also a teacher for our highschool) likes to try and watch her and her sister whenever they are undressing or are getting in the shower. She said that he's always peeking in the cracks of their doors. Their mom can not get a job because of some medical reasons. They are too afraid to let their mom know because if he's gone then there isn't really a source of income. Yet if he stays it could eventually become worse. My friend said he's never abused her but it almost seems that sometimes he might try. I feel like something could and should be done. I just don't know what.

2006-10-07 17:21:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why not put them to death.

2006-10-07 17:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by awagner1971 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a female and I love muscle cars. I drive an 03 Black Cobra and I have 2 other fox body's stangs. One of which I'm in the process of turning into hopefully a 9-8 second drag car and yes I'm doing this with my own two hands. I'm not afraid to get in there and wrench my own car and I still consider myself a novice, but I've learned a lot over the years and can trade car info with the best of them. I'm not a real tomboy and I don't look all mannish, just a women who loves fast muscle cars and wrenches her own. My boyfriend doesnt mind because I fix his car when it breaks down.LOL! Anyhow this is my hobby and I just wanted to know what most men think of this: Are you turned on or off, or maybe intimidate by woman who is into cars?

2006-10-07 17:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by Simmy 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to a haunted house with some friends and one of them pushed me in the mud so i stormed off in a huff i drove away pissed off. this guy said he was sorry to me the day before for doing something like this and he did it again did i over react by leaving???

2006-10-07 17:21:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do I exsist? I have no meaning left to life. All that I cared about and loved is gone from me. I have been deceived intentionally and I knew I was but I went along with it to see how and what would happen in the end. The one who meant the most to me did this and is using it to be rid of me when they could of just told me without trying to set me up. Why do people do things like this? What would make a person go so far as to get another person to try and pursue a relationship , just to see what would happen? I'm not stupid or ignorant. What I said I meant and I have been robbed of the greatest thing I ever had in my life. That is love without reason. To the Texan, kiss my double a ss, know that I know you were a phoney. To the man in black, you are the only one who ever destroyed me in a way that is so deceitful and hurtful and uncaring, You of all people....shame on you. I will do what you want and die....Please help me people any advice will help???

2006-10-07 17:20:55 · 6 answers · asked by silhouette 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My older Brother who is enteligent, educated, and 99.9% of the time is a responible person, Last Wednesday he arrived at my Grandfathers funeral drunk out of his mind he made a complete *** of him self and was thrown out on his ear by force of other family members, this was the second time in my life that i have seen him drunk, he is not a drinker! The first time that i ever saw him drunk was seven years ago at my Sisters wedding where he was so drunk that he exposed himself and urinated on the floor in front of 330+ people he was pitched from the church by force as well! What do you make of this?

2006-10-07 17:20:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-07 17:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got very drunk and I blacked out and only remembered my boyfriend on top of me choking me. I broke up with him because I couldn't believe he would do that. My parents were supprised because he's not that kind of guy. I asked him what happened, he told me a diff story then what I thought, he said I attacked him and everytime he would try to leave i would attack him again. I now realize that I have a drinking problem, my boyfriend wants me to move back in with him and agree to never drink again. I need to tell my parents about my problem and what he said really happened. What do I do? Do I go back to my boyfriend? I'm going to get help for my drinking and possible anger problems. Have you had a similiar experience? are you an alcholic?

2006-10-07 17:19:40 · 7 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 17:18:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are they likely to work out in a relationship?

1. 12-13 ish guy, 16 girl
2. 14 guy, 13 girl
3. 15 guy, 13 girl
4. 15 girl, 14 guy
5. 13 girl, 12-13 guy
6. 14 girl, 48 guy

2006-10-07 17:18:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in college its my 2nd year in there..I thought I had good friends but they turned out to say things about me behind of my back..they started saying i was chasing sum guy to go out with him while that guy is only a friend of mine..he has changed he barely talks to me..

how to deal with this rumor and with the ppl who started talking about us..and also how to do deal with that guy!!

2006-10-07 17:17:51 · 12 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Friends

Now I am doing my paper about the American wedding and Chinese wedding. I have no idea about the American wedding including where they ceremony and what is the wedding procedure and why do they hold the wedding in the church, why do the bride dress the white wedding dress.
I need your help. I would be appriciate if you could help me. Detail information is better. Thanks.

2006-10-07 17:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by hogagesama 1 in Weddings

I love my husband to death and I know he loves me too. But ever since this guy at his job started dating a striper he goes to the strip club a whole lot. and all of the sudden he says that he has no freedom, which he does. So tonite we had a cuddle/sitting a home watching a movie date and next thing I know his buddy calls and he runs. I don't know if i should be worried he barley talks to me anymore and is annoyed by me all the time.
the only thing that has been good latley is sex.
i even told him that every time that he chose not to go to the strip club he could have anal sex with me wich I hate but he still chooses to go what should i do. I love my husband and I want to save my marriage.

2006-10-07 17:16:14 · 33 answers · asked by rebecca28_85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

after getting married......think for a minute your parents bring you in this world change you stinky diapers clean your b u t t s. raises you up untill you stand on your own feet...then you meet someone that you wanna spend rest of your life with. would you forget your parents after getting married and having your own family? I would never do that because to me it would be betraying them and thier love. SO spit your opinions here.

2006-10-07 17:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok it's like this my "so-called" boyfriend has been lying to me back and forth and I found out about it, and my homeboy's come over like they always do just to chill. Ok, I realize I have feelings for one of them, we talk about everything, laugh about anything, basically we get along great. So how do I tell him I like him, without destroying our friendship??!

2006-10-07 17:15:41 · 4 answers · asked by jatahia4 1 in Singles & Dating

wat happens if i make a fool of myself? anyone else have done it? wats it like?

2006-10-07 17:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by Denise 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i have been datin for 2 years and for some reason lately, it just doesn't seem like he ever wants to hang out with me. He doesnt ever seem to be happy to talk to me, and doesn't show as much affection as he used to. He'll be like this sometimes, and then normal on occasion. Please someone tell me what the hell is up. Guys, whats your take on this HONESTLY!

2006-10-07 17:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old were you/are you and why did you wait?

2006-10-07 17:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by its me! 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having a 60th surprise birthday party for my Dad, I am looking for some cleaver ideas for decorations, music, poems, anything that makes a party more impressive !! Lets her your best ideas!

2006-10-07 17:13:11 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok now don't all yell at me, I needed an attention grabber. I know not all of you are like this but I happen to be dating one.

I am very much in love with my boyfriend of 4 years but am also getting very tired of not being appreciated by him at all. I do everything and anything for him cook, clean, buy him clothes, buy him dinner, presents, give massages, gave him $1,000 twoards his bike, fufill all of his sexual needs (daily), and I am his 24/7 shrink meaning always there at all hours to help him out with his problems. Now don't get me wrong I absoleutly LOVE making him feel good in any way possible, I am just very tired of not getting thankyous or getting ANYTHING in return... he wont even put the toilet seat down for me.
I have talkd to him about this he says he does appreciate me but can't show it. My question is: is there any way to change a guy? like to get him to do things for me in return, how can I make him appreciate me?

Thanks for the kind advice in advance

2006-10-07 17:13:05 · 22 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating

I am going to have my wedding in Tibet one day, and you?

2006-10-07 17:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by chloe 5 in Weddings