Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

What 3 things turn you on the most?

2006-10-07 16:40:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 16:40:27 · 12 answers · asked by shugabam! 2 in Friends

whats this mean, please help?
ok about a month ago, i spilled my guts to one of my friends, told her that i like her alot, and all this stuff, shes only 13. well she wrote me back and said she hasnt ever seen us as more thanfriends, and that she dont like me like that but she dont want it to ruin our 8 year frendship.. well..over the past month, I've been avoiding her, simply for my sake, just simply not to bring those feelings back up, cuz when I'm around her they all come back. but she emailed me yesterday, and said she was sad, becauze it was straining our friendship. and she wants things like they used to be, well i told her why i had been avoinding her, and she said she totatlly understood why. well, I know she dont like me like that now, but am I crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the future, cuz she was obvioulsy ( she said) she was really sad, seeing us like this, and since shes only 13, am i crazy to think there mite be sumthin in the next year or two? she also said, " dont take the rejection to heart

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13 minutes ago
that the reason was probably stupid anyway, whats that mean?

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3 days ago
and for those who say, I am punsihing her, I am not in any way. We have had very friendly discussions, and she understands why, things have been this way. And I have reassured her, promised her, that I will make things the way the used to. Do u really think I want to lose the friendship as well? I mean, that hurts.

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12 hours ago
I mean, its not like I'm ugly, I'm very atractive, and so is she. I mean I'm fit, I play varsity baseball, and am only a sophmore, It's not like I'm a geek or anything. And the same with her, she is very good lookin, has guys hitting on her all the time, and is on the national swim team, I just dont know what to do, cuz i swear to god i love her more than anything in this world

2006-10-07 16:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on you first date...?
and would you use the protection even though the person you like/love is trustworthy.

2006-10-07 16:38:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All the money from banning divorce should put into proggrams saving the ORDAINED marriage and saving the ordained family. Marriage is what it is until death. It is time to step up to the bat to fight for values & morals and lifetime commitment. Our children are suffering for the could care less attitude from us the adults. It is time to stop thinking of " me , myself & I " and get off our selffulness buns to care enough to be someone for somebody. Hey Jesus care enough for all of us , he die on the cross for all of us. Life has no limitations , except the oness you make.

2006-10-07 16:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with somebody like this:

Okay, I met a guy in a chat room. We talk every night for hours, but just by IM or texting. We haven't met, because he lives in England and I live in the USA. We haven't even heard each other's voices. We've exchanged pictures. He asked me to marry him. He's earning money to move over here and he wants me to marry him. I am in love with him. Opinions? Inputs?

2006-10-07 16:37:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 2 1/2 and her bio-dad has not been in contact with us for almost 2 years! I was never married to him either - unfortunately, he is not paying child support. When we broke up almost 2 years ago, he agreed to do so, but has not followed up on it.

I know I probably should have done this earlier, but I am now attempting to get full legal custody of my daughter. Do I have a good chance of getting this?

I'm also tired of having to contact her bio-dad anytime I want to take a vacation with my relatives out of the country! He's not part of our lives and I think it's ridiculous that I have to get his "consent" in order to take my little one on vacation out of the U.S!

Also, I know I probably have to get an attorney to get things rolling - any suggestions how to find a GOOD one whose rates are not up the roof?

P.S. I am a single mom of just one toddler. :) Thanks!

2006-10-07 16:35:19 · 17 answers · asked by jazzeegirl12 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, What type of lingerie turns you on the most?

2006-10-07 16:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I like him, right? We only talked a couple times and hes in my English class. I have no idea how to approach him because I'm new, and he's shy, and my friends barely know him too. Have any ideas?
(FYI- Homecoming's coming up and he doesn't have a date either...)

2006-10-07 16:35:10 · 17 answers · asked by Libby 1 in Singles & Dating

I ahve been seeing a man who I love very much but have to say goodbye until he figures out what he wants in his life. I am having trouble letting go. I know it is the right thing to do, but my heart doesn't want to accept it. Any ideas?

2006-10-07 16:34:36 · 12 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend does not know i fell this way and im been married for 2 yrs i love my husband so much but my bf and i have a lot in common i dont know what to do

2006-10-07 16:34:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and the wife left him and been seperated for six months

2006-10-07 16:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been going through some rocky times lately. We truly love each other and are committed to our marriage, but it seems we never connect anymore. After we had a huge fight today I decided that I want to ask him to pick me up at a nice hotel in a nearby town, go out to a nice restaraunt but I'm not really sure how to go about it or what to do next. Please, guys and girls I really need some help here!

2006-10-07 16:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by fishergirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are your thoughts about it??

2006-10-07 16:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the men an women on 360 , messenger and myspace who are married an looking? and does anyone ever find someone off of here who isn't a freak? the reason i ask is because i am addicted to the chat. and not out looking for an affair...only the chat!

2006-10-07 16:32:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HAIR: medium and dark brown
EYES: hazel
INTELLIGENCE:smart
SENSE OF HUMOR: have one
FUN TO BE WITH: my friends say I am
WEIGHT: 135 lb
HEIGHT: 5'7
AGE:15
TATTOOS: none
PIERCING: only ears
DRESSES: favorite is hawaiin
SEXUAL STATUS: virgin
OVERALL: average
HOBBIES: surfing the web, reading, writing, watching TV, talk on
the phone, and have fun hanging out with my friends.
KISSED: no (I'm am saving it for a special moment)
OTHER: I have glasses, I'm shy. I am very caring and fully active in everything I do.

2006-10-07 16:32:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

=)

2006-10-07 16:31:57 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my bf my name was" X". i mean, he knows my real one is "y" plus, X is my middle name. but most pple call me Y. in fact, only his fam calls me X, and its awkard cuz his mum calls me it and my moms like ??? ..what do i do? its too far to tell them (they all no my real is blahblah, but they call me X anyways) to call me Y. shud i just keep it like this? or ..what do i do??

2006-10-07 16:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by hollatata101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before we got married, my husband gave me the impression that he was picky, never was in any serious relationship, just would get to know girls and he just wasnt impressed by any, and i was the only one he ever loved or cared about or even "had a crush on", i never asked him for these things, he just volunteered this information, obviously i was flattered, but it wouldnt have made a difference otherwise. lately iam finding out that these things arent true. he was just saying them to flatter me, which it obviously worked, but i can help but feel that i was duped in a way. Also he has lied about personality traits that he doesnt have..."i dont have a temper", "i dont flirt", "i say what imean and do as i say", "i dont divelge peoples secrets" etc... I know they seem like small things, but i just cant help but feel that alot of what i liked about him isnt true...and also i keep catching him in lies and he keep breaking promises, nothing huge but still....am i over reacting??

2006-10-07 16:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 16:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Singles & Dating

some guy likes my friend which is a girl but we dont know for sure.so my other friend which is a guy asked that other guy that does he like my firend the girl when she was standing infront of them and the guy smiled shyly.so does he like her help.

2006-10-07 16:30:53 · 3 answers · asked by bloo b 3 in Singles & Dating

I went to a bar last night with a friend. The bar was "hipster" and located in a seedy part of the town. There were a group of girls there that looked pencil thin, I could swear they were there with their meth dealers. I met a girl with an attractive body and face but really jacked up teath. I'm not certain whether to call her, maybe if things work out I can buy her braces.

2006-10-07 16:30:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked her out to a school dance. she told me that she had already agreed to hang out with her friends at dance, but that she would save a dance for me. so im wondering, how do I ask her if her offer to dance with me was a sincere one, or was it just to not hurt my feelings

2006-10-07 16:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by A Dude 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my first time getting married.

2006-10-07 16:29:37 · 23 answers · asked by pinknewyorkapple 2 in Weddings

Recenlty he's had alot of school work and he also has a job. We're only 17 so his parents have strict rules about when i can be at his house or when he can be at mine. It's 9 o'clock on weeknights and 12 on weekends. If we have work that night we don't get off until 9 so we hardly see each other anymore. Lately with all this happening things have been going down hill. Today he broke up with me and said he needed some space and he was unhappy with our relationship, but he still wants to be best friends and see me alot. What should i do? How should I react and how do I get him back? I really think he's the love of my life...what should i do???

2006-10-07 16:29:13 · 10 answers · asked by contr0lx113xa0f 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day we had a phone call from the ex's daughter (non biological of my husbands) 10 years old asking if we could pay mommy the money we owe her now instead of 2 weeks when its due for the support of his biological child with the ex. She said mommy told her she could not sign up for dance lessons unless she got the support money and to call and ask for it.

2006-10-07 16:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by firefighter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I went out for 3 years. She is almost 32 and I am almost 29. She wants to get married, but got convinced that all the bad things in our relationship would never change and kicked me out almost 3 months ago

The breakup has been rough. I saw her for the first time in 6 weeks, last weekend to get some things back and she kissed me, said she loved me (tears in her eyes) and then we spent afternoon out and her holding my hand, gazing into my eyes,etc.

Later this week she says she is "confused" and we "Shouldn't spend time together". Meanwhile I have been trying to get my last items which I will pick up today

I still love her despite our issues. I think they can be worked out, but she doesn't appear to. Her sister told me last night she is confused and doesn't know what she wants but said she will "know when she finds it".

How do I handle getting my things today? Part of me cant stand how she's acted since the breakup (confusing and cold) and the other part loves her

2006-10-07 16:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by afterdinnermint 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You might relate this to one you saw with great responses.

2006-10-07 16:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by hjpollock 2 in Friends

do you think about the good times you had with that person and how they made you happy at one time, or do you dwell on the bad times and think nasty thoughts about that person?

2006-10-07 16:26:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we were in a really romantic moment and she said she luved me, and i said it back.. then she said do you want to have sex any time soon, and we are only 14, but i do have trojin!

so should i sometime, i mean she is hot and nice and funny and so on, and i no she is ready but is it to young?

2006-10-07 16:26:47 · 10 answers · asked by luvtheramz81 1 in Singles & Dating