My husband and I have been going through some rocky times lately. We truly love each other and are committed to our marriage, but it seems we never connect anymore. After we had a huge fight today I decided that I want to ask him to pick me up at a nice hotel in a nearby town, go out to a nice restaraunt but I'm not really sure how to go about it or what to do next. Please, guys and girls I really need some help here!
2006-10-07 16:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by fishergirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have been married 20 years and have 4 children, youngest 17.
2006-10-07 16:35:20 · update #1
Thanks for some good answers. Can someone tell me or give me good ideas about what to wear? Should it be like a getting to know each other again date, or should it be a hot hot hot date? Guy what do you think really This is not just about sex.
2006-10-07 19:09:29 · update #2
save your marriage. go for it and don't let it go. give him what he needs. It's never late
2006-10-07 16:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by nenena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after 20 yrs and 4 kids you should be able to ask anything!!! In the mean time tell Mr.right that Mrs.right would like to go out for a very nice dinner & some dancing and if he's coming pack a overnight bag you know this nice little place! ( with a KING size bed some wine and no kids) maybe do something you havent done for a while after go for a walk play cards in bed, fill the jacuzzi tub and drink the whole bottle of wine or more and put the do not disturb sign on when room service leaves at 2am.
2006-10-07 23:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all of have problems and we all have our bads days. But your marriage is very minor. You and your husband we going though a lot. Now get a pen and paper. 1- Call your husband - 2- sweet- talk to your husband. EX: Hi baby how are your doing) that how your start off. 3- After you get a serious conversation going on. Then you asked him would you like to go on a date. 4- If he said yes.. 5- Take him to the resturant where you had your first date. But remember wear somthing sexy.... Good-Luck !!
2006-10-07 23:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by ronrmrll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to send flowers to a guy.. so send him some flowers on the job with a note asking him to be at that special place that you have prepared for him.. Come on you know how to flirt.. Or send a singing teller gram telling him to be at the place that you have prepared...
2006-10-07 23:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call, tell him that your sorry about the fight, and you'd like both of you to go out for dinner and make up.
2006-10-07 23:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a short note that says something like...
The night of your life!
Pick me up at ....... wearing your best!
2006-10-08 00:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... imagine yourself back in the day with him =)
2006-10-07 23:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsally906 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u are sorry and that u love him and that u want to make it up to him
2006-10-07 23:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋