I'm a lonely guy in grad school. 23. Not bad looking but perhaps a bit skinny. I want to eat dinner with someone on Saturday nights. I want to be able to call a girl and ask what she did today. Please help. I've never had a girlfriend and I don't like living like this.
2006-10-07 17:23:44 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out and talk to some.
It is never easy unless you want something. If you want a date, do not go right up and ask, but break the ice first.
Try simple lines like:
My you look nice today. You also smell great. She will say thank you, and best of all...REMEMBER YOU! You may have actually made her day.
Remember be kind. Treat them as you would expect to be treated. Also, do this as many times during the day to different ladies as the opportunities make.
Do not expect to ask them out upon a first meeting unless they are really interested.
If you see them again expect a "Hello", if you do not get one, give them a "Hi." Should they seem friendly, go ask for the phone number. Then move for the dinner date.
Listen to Tom Likus on the radio. Make his ideas work for you. He will keep you on top.
2006-10-07 17:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're enrolled in Grad school; therefore, I'd presume you'd have much to discuss with others, scholastically or simply intelligibly.
Start off with study groups. You will meet someone who shares a lot of the same interests you have. You can casually suggest a "change of venue" (other than the library) to study, such as a local coffee shop. If that goes over well, take it up to the next level: "would you like to hang out, catch a movie, grab a bite to eat, etc." Keep it casual, and see how it goes from there.
I'm sure there are always school-sponsored activities to hit up with your friends, and there are always new people to meet.
Not to mention the plethora of online dating services available. Perhaps Yahoo personals would be a good start; Eharmony is more in-depth.
Above all, be yourself. Don't cater your personality to other's preferences. If someone doesn't like you, it's her loss. Good luck!
2006-10-07 17:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by jaicee4802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF is wrong with you
at 23 you should not have ANY GF
get back into your life
establish yourself
get a career and get it well established
get your credit
get your house
then you'll have n/p with finding women
they will find you
geez if all 23 yeard old grads students were like you
the world indeed has no future
2006-10-07 17:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I'd definitely be mad. I'd also be a little annoyed that she didn't pay her phone bill ... I like to call or text whenever I feel like it and I like a response. I get bored if I'm not communicating with someone. I'm an extreme example though ... I send massive amounts of texts to my friends
2016-03-28 01:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go after one,try selecting three# 1 out of your league #2 one u could really fall for #3 one that you would never give a chance to. Girls love romance flowers, card, etc. most of all be yourself be who God made u
2006-10-07 17:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to have a girlfriend is not by finding it..it will come when you least expected it..it may not be the one you really wanted but the one you deserve..
and the important thing is...be true to yourself and definitely girls would like that attitude...
2006-10-07 17:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by carmel1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask someone. Go to the library. Go to the park. When you see someone you think you'd like....ASK FOR HER NUMBER! You just need to be more extroverted. If she says no....well screw her.
2006-10-07 17:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by WILSON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look around, there are girls everywhere..........you just need to go to a bar, club, ect. And met some girls, thats the best way to do it......
2006-10-07 17:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sami G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you, you will find someone.
Don't be hard on yourself.
Go to church, the library, or even the mall.
2006-10-07 17:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooook, your 23 and still in grade school, you need a little help, not to be rude, but girls dont really like people who are dumb, or act it !
2006-10-07 17:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋