after getting married......think for a minute your parents bring you in this world change you stinky diapers clean your b u t t s. raises you up untill you stand on your own feet...then you meet someone that you wanna spend rest of your life with. would you forget your parents after getting married and having your own family? I would never do that because to me it would be betraying them and thier love. SO spit your opinions here.
2006-10-07 17:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, you don't forget them but your first loyalty is to your wife. Help your parents in any way you can as long as it doesn't interfere with your own family. Many marriages fall apart because of mama's boys and interfering in-laws. You need to know where to draw the line.
2006-10-07 17:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone forgets their parents, not without very severe brain damage anyway. Some people are too wrapped up in their own concerns to take the time to show their love and appreciation. Some even get "too busy" before they get married or have kids. Other people remember their parents but the memories are too painful to relive. My father molested me and fractured my brother's skull. I still value him but there's no way that I'm going to drive 4000 miles to see him...EVER. On the other hand, I am very close to my mother (she was not present for the abuse) and I would do almost anything for her.
2006-10-08 00:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never let my parents down. They raised me to be a good person. I will alway value them for the way they raised me. They gave me all the love and the things that were needed to be what I am today. I wish they were still hear so I could say good job well done. I miss them very much. God Bless
2006-10-08 00:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have apparently become smarter than your parents. This is what they call "getting too big for your britches."
Your parents will probably have a least twenty on us as far as wisdom and knowledge.
If you are from Texas, do you know what the "Homestead Law" is about? A lot of our parents remember how it came about, and understand why it still exist today. It is a great way to save money on property taxes levied against your home.
If not, just remember that you might need their help raising your own children. They have lots of experience doing that I bet.
2006-10-08 00:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my mother and i were very close, and i l would still want her when i got sick. I liked to go over to her house and put my head on her shoulder and play with her hair.
she was always there for me no matter what and i will be the same way with my kids. I think family is very important and even more after you have kids. its nice to have an experienced babysitter that you don't have to pay for.
and even if they cant watch you kids think about how much you love your kids. you were once their kid and they will always love you the way you love your children.
and if the person i fell for didnt agree then tough family comes first and your parents had your heart first
2006-10-08 00:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dakotah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never forget about my mom or even my grandparents. I travel 8 hours every few months to visit my grandma. And my mom lives 4 blocks from me, I still call her a few times a week. My Mom became my best friend when I became an adult....go figure she really does know more then I thought.
2006-10-08 00:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you , one should always keep their parents close at all times, just because you get married does not mean to put your parents aside.
2006-10-08 00:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, and now that I am a parent myself, I realize the love my parents had for me, just as I have for my daughter. I always knew they loved me, but now I realize just how much. I will always love and value my parents.
2006-10-08 00:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by AR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know i will always love my parents and what they do for me. i will never forget them because they are super important and they basically sacfrificed their lives and possible careers to raise me and make sure i became a sensible, decent person. and yeah, they changed my diapers..... as disturbing as it is to think about nowadays........
2006-10-08 00:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget my parents for a guy i met? NO WAY... could never do that even if i loved him a lot. parents come first then the guy...he could leave me but i know that my parents would be always on my side.
2006-10-08 00:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋