My boyfriend and i have been datin for 2 years and for some reason lately, it just doesn't seem like he ever wants to hang out with me. He doesnt ever seem to be happy to talk to me, and doesn't show as much affection as he used to. He'll be like this sometimes, and then normal on occasion. Please someone tell me what the hell is up. Guys, whats your take on this HONESTLY!
2006-10-07 17:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try not being available so much. Go out with the girls or even by yourself more often. If you seem like you are being more independent then he will come around. He's used to you and your rituals together. Try some new stuff. Change things suddenly. Keep him guessing. But be loving at the same time, just introduce new things in your relationship. Spontaneity is great!
2006-10-07 17:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed in my past experiences that it could mean many things. I dated two girls that I dated for a year or so,, that toward the end of the relationship they started hangn with there friends more and not with me. Had excuses why they or me couldn't hang out. They didn't look me in the eyes and say I Love You the same. Well that's a problem. Don't let me mislead you,, I loved this one girl so much. She dragged me around to long ,, hurt me BAD!!
I dated my wife for 5 yrs and been married 4 yrs. Got a 4 month boy. I work 12hrs a day 6 days a week,,, I come home and feel like crap, but I try to show I love her.
If you truly love someone you or they should show it no matter what. Hope this helps.
2006-10-07 17:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by troutdog311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he his old normal self only on occasions that he wants to have sex with you? Point to ponder...if he hasn't already, he may be thinking of moving on. Try to take more interest and play a bigger part in the things that interest him, but don't suffocate him...that's a sure way to lose him. If you argue a great deal and the two of you have trouble getting along...keep this thought in mind...Faults are high when love is thin...before you ***** about him not putting the toilet seat down ask yourself if it's worth losing him over--You could simply just put it down yourself and not gripe about very little thing...learn to pick your battles- It really does help in the communication department. Best wishes to you.
2006-10-07 17:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone wrote a book once called "Maybe He's Just Not That Into You".
I think you should read it.
It sounds like he has a short attention span. There is nothing you can do except move on or not care.... it's hard for you but anything you do to try to re-win his attention will come off as desperation.... and guys that ignore their girlfriends HATE desperation.
2006-10-07 17:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh, I'm a girl, and I've been in that boat. So I'm just going to say he got bored, and so I kept on clinging, and the more I clung, the more he drew away. So just be aloof also, look your best, maybe even flirt with other guys to make him jealous. Either way, it's all about changing your pace.
2006-10-07 17:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't say. I'm not in the relationship. Maybe he is going through some changes. Maybe you are too. Sometimes people grow apart. Only you know what the real changes are. If he doesn't call you anymore. Don't call him. Just leave him alone. Maybe he just needs his space. You just carry on with your life.
I hope I've helped you.
2006-10-07 17:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im stuggling with the same question :( i know my boyfriend loves me but im not 'feeling' it. Sorry im not a guy and ... im not helping either.. but know that you are not alone. Also we have been bickering over the smallest little things lately. Just keep being understanding maybe he is dealing with something that he is not comfortable talking about just yet.(or at all).
2006-10-07 17:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably most likely not interested in u, boys do that they use u just to say they have a gf then he`ll date someone else!!!
2006-10-07 17:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy dont tend to let their true feelings show thats why its so hard for us women to understand them and know what they want...
if they do let their true feelings it will imply vulnerability and will not show masculinity..
2006-10-07 17:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by carmel1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a problem and can't or know how to deal with it
2006-10-07 18:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋