wat happens if i make a fool of myself? anyone else have done it? wats it like?
2006-10-07 17:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by Denise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most guys love this but watch to see what he really likes if you want to please him fully.
2006-10-07 17:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by mss04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously if he's pressuring you he's not worth your time...Men are for taking you out on dates, buying you stuff and overall they are put on this earth to please you...not the other way around...Personally I would bite him..J/K don't do that!! Anyway the truth is you can still get an std from oral sex...Plus once you have oral sex you are sending a signal 1) I'm sexually active and I find you attrative enough to have sex with 2) All the other boys at your school will find out...boys in high school are the true gossip queens or should I say kings... Seriously tell him that he's an ;ass and you don't need this drama...when word gets around school men will respect you a lot more and you will attract guys with better morals...If none of this sinks in just listen to your gut...women have natural intuition...if you don't feel right about something there is usually a reason..don't ignore it and try to justify your actions...you feel confused for a reason...possibly because you are going in the wrong direction. Just listen to your heart. I hope you make right decision.
2006-10-08 00:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it, then don't! You're not obligated and he's not entitled. If you decide you want to, I'd check out babes in toy land's website.(just google them) They have good tips, from gay boys--bonus--on "how to." Girl to girl, I'd make sure before you did that that you make sure there is nothing strange like, warts, blisters, discoloration, going on down there as I'm assuming your having sex with a condom and I don't know if you'd use one with a bj. You can be discreet about it. And you do not have to swallow or have any of his "stuff" in your mouth when the time comes. You'll feel when he is about to and then just use your hand and have a towel handy for clean up. Depending on how healthy his eating habits are, or aren't, will affect the taste. Better to not find out as I doubt he's vegan or a vegetarian...lol
2006-10-08 00:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by devilmaycare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't make a fool of yourself, don't rush things when you are doing it. Have him do oral on you first, then when you do him he will be so excited the act won't take long. The more you do it the better you will get at it, so do it often.
2006-10-10 08:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you want too don't do it--if you both love each other you won't make a fool of yourself b/c he will love you either way. If you are worried about doing it wrong your not ready. Good luck--trust yourself!
2006-10-08 00:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, you never said your age, but i bet it is real young. do not do anything that you are unsure of or uncomfertable with. you have those choices. you are important and if he doesn't accept that, good riddance.do not ever do anything that you do not want to in a relationship, it willm only get worse and!! there are lots of guy out there for you that will respect you and be damn cute too.
2006-10-08 00:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by valerie1949ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hardly think that it is possible that you would make a fool of yourself, It's not rocket science ! And if you do not feel like it ,then don't do it !
2006-10-08 00:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do anything you are not comfortable doing if you want to learn how go to the link below it has lots of things about anything you might want to know it is for teens mostly just check their message boards
2006-10-08 00:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you want to means you don't want to. Don't do it unless you want to and never do anything sexual because you are being pressured to do so... you will regret it and anyone who is pressuring you does not really respect you.
2006-10-08 00:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's something you don't have a desire to do then DON'T do it. If he gives two sh*ts for you he'll stop asking. If you're just a ho to hi m then he'll keep on asking. it'll prove he doesn't respect you or care for you.
2006-10-08 00:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Just tell him how you feel. But if you do decide to, then just relax and it will all come natural. You will know exactly what to do. Don't panic, and don't bite!!!!
2006-10-08 00:18:07 · answer #11 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋