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Well, my hubby has 2 go 2 spain for about 3 months...should i pay $4000 and go...????....but im also preg.......and ill b alone!

2006-10-07 17:29:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby would make about $200,000....but ii want my hubby 2 b there when i have my baby...its due in about 6 weeks!

2006-10-07 17:35:56 · update #1

I dont really want 2 travel while in preg tho......HELP ME!

2006-10-07 17:37:29 · update #2

17 answers

Do you want to have your baby in Spain? How could you be alone if your Husband is there?

If you aren't near the end of your pregnancy, and you mean you will be alone until he comes home, that's OK. Spaniards are generally friendly people and many speak English. You can make some friends, have an adventure, and learn a new language.

What is scary is why you have to pay $4,000??? Don't you mean you would both have to spend that? Why would your husband make syou spend $4,000 of your own money to follow him to a foreign country.

2006-10-07 17:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by jumping_in_101 3 · 0 1

I'm just wondering when your so called babies were born? on your myspace page you said they were a month old. and your page hasnt even been updated since august 10??HMM?? so if you already had them shouldnt they have names? or are you pregnant again?Cause you just posted another question a few hours ago claiming your 6weeks away from giving birth??so your telling everyone you had twins around the middle of july 2006 and your due again in six weeks?lol...cmon and everyone else knows those pics arent yours. be expecting contact from the baron modeling agency any day now.

2006-10-07 22:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by starlight83 2 · 0 0

You're pregnant and you'll be going thru a great deal of emotional changes and stress...Love him enough to give him a break from all of that...He's going to be working and the distance will make the heart fonder because believe me there will be days when you wont want him there...besides the money can be better spent on the future education costs of your child.

2006-10-07 17:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Do you really want to run the risk of your child being born over sea's...... Spain is a nice place to visit ...... If you have the money to go ...why not wait a bit and visit him ..... not stay the entire time ....

Best advice ... do what feels right .. but talk it over with him...then decide.

2006-10-07 17:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0 0

depending on the job you have and if you could recover from that bump in the road, and your having a baby! so make sure you can afford caring for it if thats all good go for it you only live once....and how awsome that would be if you had your baby in spain! that would be something never to forget

2006-10-07 17:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You shouldn't travel. There are many things that could go wrong; diseases for one thing. But you better make sure to have someone close to you that will help you through the times.

2006-10-07 17:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0 0

Trust me on this one. Spend the money. It will be more stressful being away from him than it will to loose $4000.

2006-10-07 17:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0 0

No you shouldn't. its not safe to go travelling when you are pregnant, no one knows what might happen overseas. i suggest you stay over at a friend's place for the time being or stay with your relatives until your husband comes back :)

2006-10-07 17:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by vlmt 1 · 0 0

depends on how far along you are you can go into braxtin hicks (false labour) when in air but on the other hand I would want to stay for health reasons its only three months it would probebly bring you to closer to him if you stayed. Shows him your trust and it shows him you give him that trust but hey your prego so he is yours anyway! gongrats on your pregoness! I wouldnt go but that is me!

2006-10-07 17:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by cris_angel_fan 1 · 0 0

make a list of pros and cons to both situations on a piece of paper. Think about it a lot and then decide with your husband and take into consideration his point of view.

2006-10-07 17:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0 0

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