I have known a guy for about three years and have worked with him for about two. I have serious feeling for him and I have a feeling he has them for me as well by his actions. The only problem is our job for bids us from having a relationship. I need help on telling him my feelings and not getting us both into trouble or fired.
2006-10-07 17:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by atagurl101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats more importiant to u, ur job or having a relationship that cud change ur life forever with the man. If i were you(and if i was a girl) i wud tell and c what he says if he likes u back then quit and get something else in that field u no, but my personal opion.
best wishes
2006-10-07 17:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by harry rav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you really want to get fired, and have to go through the hassle of finding a new job, then do not tell him. Just try to hold your feelings in, until a more appropriate time.
2006-10-07 17:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he worth the risk of leaving the job for? do you think he's do the same for you? if so, meet outside work, don't let on anything during work hours, if you get caught out, the risk comes in, if you've already made that decision, then the risk is no problem.
NO harm in looking for another job in the meantime, just in case
2006-10-07 17:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by aussiegeezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as one of you isn't the boss of the other . . . go for it. You might want to consider talking to a local employment lawyer. I don't think they can stop you. Had a couple I worked with years ago. Same situation. They dated though it drove the powers nuts. Couldn't touch them.
2006-10-07 17:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by WILLIAM W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best advice is to forget about him. your company has rules against fraternization for a number of reasons. a big one, no doubt, is the distraction it causes on the job. he may find your feelings as a form of sexual harrassment-stranger things have happened. find another guy who doesn't work where you do.
2006-10-07 17:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your lazy to look for love elsewhere huh ?
you simply have no confidence that outside of work you can't find someone.. so you go for what you know... and that is someone who will not challange, judge ect.. who you are...it's easy and the lazy way to a relationship, and most of the time office romances never work.. for that very reason....and once it fails then it becomes very akward..
2006-10-07 17:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work places have policies about such things for a reason. Maybe wait until one of you is working somewhere else.
2006-10-07 17:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Quit your job
2. Live with your "feelings" and do nothing
Your choice. I can't tell you how to indulge yourself, break the rules and risk your job. Pick one.
2006-10-07 17:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU MAY NEED TO LEAVE THIS ALONG OR SOMEONE NEED TO GET ANOTHER JOB. NO REALTIONSHIP IS WORTH
YOUR JOB.REALTIONSHIP COME AND GO. JOBS MAY BE
HARD TO FIND.
2006-10-07 17:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋