2006-10-07 17:25:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a feeling you have....a truely wonderful feeling.
2006-10-07 17:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when the two of you have the most horrible fights and you still have the strongest desire to make things work out. When you know that you love waking up to him every morning. When you can look in his eyes and see your future. When all of you is all of him. That's when you know.
You only recognize it after a time of being together. It doesn't happen overnight.
I'm there now and have been for awhile.
2006-10-08 00:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound arrogant of me, however, I'm about to save you a lifetime of heart break and pain. Ready? There is no right one or THE one. Really, I know we have been taught that there is. I know it;s part of the happily ever after fantasy but that is not how it works. YOU get to choose who is the right one for you. It could as many or as few as you choose in a lifetime. The bottom line is, does the person you're involved with respect you? Not based on his words but based on his actions. Do you have a lot in common? How does he treat other people because ultimately, that is how he will treat you. Does he love his mother? What are his long term goals and do they match with yours? Can you see yourself with him for the rest of your life? Does he sexually satisfy you? It's easy to flippantly answer these questions. Your emotions will help you believe whatever you want to but making the wrong decision can lead to a long and boring life, wishing for more. It's easy for woman to believe love is enough--it isn't--and it's 2006, we don't have to be martyrs for the cause. Take a step back and answer the questions logically. The great things about there not being one specific person that you are destined to find is that you get to choose to be with whomever you want based on what you need both short term and long term in addition to having your feelings for them. The pressure is off and you get to live a great life while auditioning men based on your needs instead of breaking your back to change yourself to fit into the image they want.
2006-10-08 00:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by devilmaycare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the right one I think you just know. You want to spend everyday with that person and hate to go a day with out them. I recognized it when I got in a car accident and laying in a hospital bed looked over to this man I loved and realized I really really didn't and couldn't lose him and that I needed him in my life.
2006-10-08 00:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never met the right one.i would think,that when two soulmates find each other,it's an incredible feeling of certainty,a feeling that their searching is over.this is the one,i just have a feeling.this is the one,i want to spend my life with.i really,honestly feel,that i cannot live without this person.i don't think i could ever be happy with anyone else.that's the way i would describe it.whenever you do find the one,you're meant to be with.
2006-10-08 02:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Miss yavatar girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have met the right one, the perfect one.....You get a feeling, like nothing you've ever before. And you just wanna wake up to them, and hold them, love them, and care for them......you never wanna leave them, or hurt them....you just love everything about them, you never second guess it, you just know
2006-10-08 00:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sami G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew because I could let him see me at my weakest times and I knew he would be there to hug me and pick me up. I knew because I didnt care that he put his stuff in my house and that was always a problem. I knew because I slept better with him in my bed than when he wasen't there. I knew because I gave him control of our checkbook and I trust his judgment completly. I knew because I felt ok giving up some control, over everything, and he never takes advantage of that.
2006-10-08 01:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He or she comlpetes you. You love being with him/her most of the time. You know what they are thinking by looking at them. When you have had a difficult day, you look forward to being with thm, knowing that they will make everything okay. You want to make them happy and know that they will appreciate it. His/her insecurities are endearing and you do what you can to booost his/her ego. He/she makes you feel AWESOME!
2006-10-08 00:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by SUSIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋