I use to go out with this boy, but I found out that he was cheating on me, so that was the end of us. I kind of lost all of my respect for him when I found out that he was cheating on me so I didn't really take our break up that hard. I started to date this other boy and I guess he found out about it and that's when he started to mess with me again. I didnt really mind that because I like the way he messes with me.(We go to the same school) Me and the other guy didn't really work out so I had to stop talking to him. When he asked me why me and the other dude broke up I told him that I wasn't really fit to have boyfriends. That's when he told me that he misses me and that he wants me back. So now he's calling and calling and he wants an answer, but I don't know what to tell him because when he lost my trust it's not that easy to get it back. I don't know what to do because I told him to show me that he can be truthful and he did, but I still don't trust him at all. Should I trust him?
2006-10-07 17:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It took another guy being interested in you to get his attention back. Your statement that you weren't really meant to have a boyfriend didn't help this. He now thinks of you as a piece of meat, most likely one he can walk all over again. He cheated on you already Who knows how many times he cheated on you and didn't get caught? He's wanting the wrong type of relationship with you, unless all you want is sex. Your statement basically told him you don't want commitment.
2006-10-07 17:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Social_D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants you back because he sees that you are with, or can be with other people. Don't you see that?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he didn't respect you enough to be faithful the first time, what makes you think he has changed?
Even if he has changed, you will be constantly wondering and worrying that he will do it again. When he goes out with friends, you will start thinking, who's he really with? When late calling you or arriving somewhere, you will think what's he really doing / who's he really doing?
You cannot fix your relationship. Move on and tell him he blew it and you cannot trust him again. If you do you are just opening yourself up to be hurt, either by him or by yourself.
2006-10-08 00:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huney no, no, no! once a cheater, always a cheater. He already doesn't respect you. If he had any respect for you, he wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place. and then to add to that he only is wanting to talk to you again because of another guy? you are fit to have boyfriends, and defiantly a boyfriend that has enough respect for you not to be with everyone else while you are together. this is defiantly something you should think about, especially if you are intimate with him. he could also come back to you with something that you can't get rid of and thats not cool.
2006-10-08 00:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by froggie26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...If you don't trust him you'll always be jealous and over bearing because you'll always remember what a cheater he is...Cheaters aren't worth your time and deserve the misery of being alone...haven't you heard the old saying "once a cheater always a cheater" ? There r so many fish in the sea why should reserve yourself to someone who doesn't truly respect you? Remember Actions speak louder than words!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-08 00:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once trust has been broken, it's hard as hell to get it back. They say "once a cheater, always a cheater." Some people eventually change their stripes, but it's neither easy nor commonplace.
2006-10-08 00:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok being a guy i know exactly what he is doin. well it sounds like hes doin it well. dont fall for that. trust me. im pretty good at doin what hes doin. and i know the signs. unless u want to be hurt or u are positive that hes for real, well i advise u to stay away. maybe play his *** a little. u know be flirtatious
2006-10-08 00:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Seth M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no!! once a cheater always a cheater!! don't fall in that trap, you deserve much better than that, you deserve someone who wants you and only you, and is completely satisfied with you...plus do you really want to have a relationship where you are always wondering if he s cheating again?? please!! not worth it!!
2006-10-08 00:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL
ABOUT WHAT HE DID, AND THAT IT WILL TAKE TIME TO
GET THE TRUST BACK. IF YOU DONT TRUST HIM THEN
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THAT, BECAUSE WITHOUT TRUST
YOU DONT HAVE MUCH OF A REALTIONSHIP.
2006-10-08 00:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
he says he is sorry and you should trust him one more time
2006-10-08 00:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by soadfan888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance.
2006-10-08 00:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋