is bothering me is that i dont enjoy the company of anyone around me. i like to b wi myslf alone instead of othres. its not that i m bad company, but i dont see people around me "my type". i feel safe alone at home by myslf. is it so difficult to meet people whose company i may enjoy? do i have a problem? some times i do feel i should have friends i could talk to and connect wi. how???
2006-10-07 18:27:21 · 8 answers · asked by JJJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you are an introvert but at the same time you want to mingle with others, this is a strange problem. now in this technology developed era, a friend need not be a person. you can kill time by reading good books, listen to music and if you still find time chat with the people of your like on the net or you can solve the problems of others using this yahoo answers platform.i have gone through your answers and the inference drawn by me is that you are an intelligent person. i am afraid you did not ask this question just for the sake of academic purpose
2006-10-09 19:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 0⤋
It is sad, but there are alot of people out there that feel exactly like you do.
You meet people exactly like you did 10 years ago...by letting others get to know you. Your sense of humor, style, goals, and your general views and experiences on life.
If you are in bad health or are going through changes, this is when you need support around you. Just because you had not made close friendships in 10 years doesn't mean there won't be people to help. There are wonderful people out there in the world that find it an honor to "be there" for someone in need...or even just a shoulder to cry on!
Good luck and let yourself befriend others...you'll be glad you did!
2006-10-07 18:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by vikingsonsltw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have a problem. You just dont feel ready to make the commitment of friendship. But trust me it's not that hard. Just find some people that will agree with you and help you when u need em. To connect with people you usally have to say Hi and start a conversation. Start by asking some small question(like what time is it or what day it is) then build off that.
2006-10-07 18:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by .......... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think sometimes we go though things like that,your not alone i feel like that now;but i have people to talk to i've learned a true friend is hared to find.if you meet five in a life time your doing great.people we meet that we call friends are not a true friend never judges you ,does not talk about you, is always there when you need them ;is not selfish and most important doesn't spread your personal business all around so if you find one hold on their hard to find
2006-10-07 18:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and write yourself a list of things that you like to do and places you like to go.. Even if it is at home. You like to watch TV and stuff....right. After you have your list look it over and decide where you would be able to go to try and meet friends like maybe a church youth night or school or what ever just try it and go with a positive attitude. give it a chance it might just work
2006-10-07 18:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by misty eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just weird how can you not have a friend in ten years. Go out talk to anyone make some friends is easy just bother anyone. Eventually someone is gonna talk to you and there you can get your first buddy.
2006-10-07 20:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your problem starts with you rather being alone. its actually nothing wrong with that but if you have that mindset and still want to meet people it will be pretty difficult because you limit yourself from enjoying other people's company, being as though all you want to be is alone
2006-10-07 18:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think thats really normal
but i think you've gotten used to not having friends that having friends wouldnt feel right. you need a man. that could be be your best friend and more. be nice and talk to people even if you dont know em'.
you either want friends or you dont. but you got to do something about it if you do.
2006-10-07 18:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋