ok this is strange but my friend really likes her own COUSIN.. oh my goodness!!
she asked me stuff and what she should do but i couldnt answar cuz i dont know what to say .. is it right?? what should i tell her ??!!!!!
2006-10-07 22:57:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it goobs me out...yuck...but you know, it's not against the law depending on what country you're in. I think you should tell her what you think and feel about the situation but be supportive if she decides that this is what she wants. It maybe passing fancy...Just be honest but supportive if that makes sense.
Good Luck to you and your friends
2006-10-07 23:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old she is and how "serious" their relationship will be. What you need to remember is that we are all human and it is a natural part of life that a boy and girl might be attracted to eachother, even if they are cousins (although it is very rare). My brother hooked up with my cousin when they were about 16, but it was slightly long distance and not a sexual relationship, just kissing. My parents obviously told him it's wrong etc etc but they knew that it would fizzle out on its own so they did not put too much pressure on him. Maybe your friend is just attracted to him and maybe if she kisses him and has a flirt and stuff it will all pass and they can go back to normal. If she is thinking of having a sexual relationship then you really need to warn her against it - that can be very dangerous ground they are playing on! But if it's just a few kisses here and there etc then maybe just let it happen and HOPE that it fizzles out.
2006-10-08 00:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by wattapie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to check the laws depending where you are from.there is also the point of children if she became pregnant which dose happen the gene's are a bit close to say the child would be OK .That's the big scenario
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but the family side would be a hug thing
anger
which could lead to arguments and could lead to having to leave home and being ostracised.
i would like to no how the cousin feels
all i can say what ever she decides to do
as a friend you need to be there for her
how ever if its you your talking about you will need friends
ps personal note dont do this
2006-10-08 01:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a person says "My friend" or "someone I know" they mean themselves which is OK.
Well I do not know about other countries law but in the United Kingdom that is OK to have a relationship or even marry your 1st Cousin. Check out the law of the homeland. Good Luck Dirky
2006-10-08 01:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whilst it is permitted to marry your own cousin - as your closest shared blood relation is 2 generations back, the problems it could lead to - in particular possible genetic defects that might be picked up makes it adviseable not to do so!
2006-10-08 00:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the uk,and here you can marry your own cousin, I know a couple that are cousins.It might be though that she has a crush on him, and when someone else comes along she may forget him, but,love is ours to share with whoever needs it.
2006-10-07 23:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not exactly illegal to fancy your own cousin.
but then its not exactly normal either.
ermmm okay tricky one,theres nothing you can do really, i mean cant exactly stop someone from liking someone, if you can well i bow down to you.
Just say your opinion about it to her, i mean everyone is entitled to their own opinion surely?
If its only a lil crush then hopefully she'll get over it.
If not well... ermm yeah you should be worried, heh.
Unfortunately theres nothing much you can do, if your really worried about it and dont wanna talk to her about it then tell her parents or something so they are fully aware of the situation.
take care
2006-10-07 23:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend its not on and to grow up and find some one out side of the family
2006-10-08 01:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is twisted and gross!!
Well tell her that it is DISGUSTING and will be incest if she attempts to go through with this.
Its against the law and goes against religious beliefs don't give her any advise on how to bag him.
Tell her to put her thoughts on someone else preferably someone who isn't in her family!!!
2006-10-07 23:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful - 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋