but he just can't help of doing the things that we always fight about.the things that i have been trying to understand..i knew his style from the very start.He loves going to night clubs and befriend the waitresses and and even dates them.i want to believe when he say, "it doesn't mean anything to me". i mean i know he loves me and our daughter as well.actually he always come here in the phil. almost every month.we even talk to each other 5x a day and chat the internet every sundays.but still don't know how to trust him.
2006-10-07 23:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by mislead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all i want to thank everyone who answered my question.i really appreciate it.i knoe that it is really stupid of me to think that i know him more than anyone else and he is not sleeping with other girls.that his only problem is his way of enjoyment.guyz please help me to decide i love him sand we have daughter together.How can i manage to roke with him???can somebody tell me?
2006-10-08 00:40:22 · update #1
first of all i want to thank everyone who answered my question.i really appreciate it.i knoe that it is really stupid of me to think that i know him more than anyone else and he is not sleeping with other girls.that his only problem is his way of enjoyment.guyz please help me to decide i love him and we have daughter together.How can i manage to broke up with him???can somebody tell me?
2006-10-08 00:44:28 · update #2
Shame on him doing this to you. He's neither faithful or trustworthy.
If you aren't thinking about breaking up with him now, stay like that a while until your patience comes to the end.
I don't think you need to bear up on him, though.
You can't keep lying to yourself pretending trusting him.
If still you want to be with him for your daughter and with some reason, you need to be independent mentally. Don't take what he's doing personal. He's just a super idiot doesn't know anything. Comfort him, love him if it is natural for you, but don't get hurt by him. Search for help, someone else to open your mind.
I wish he could sense any pain of yours.
I'm afraid there are many Japanese cheating on their partners possibly because they don't have the same moral as Christian.
And there are many wives leave their husbands after the husband's retirement. Many of the case, the husband had cheated on her once or more and the wife has just kept "playing a role of wife".
You can be like those Japanese wives, too, but I think it's better for you to move on..?
2006-10-13 23:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not faithful to you! He is probably seeing different girls every day of the week! A guy who loves you will not see or date other people. I think you are afraid to leave him because he takes care of you and your daughter's material needs. But surely in your heart you know that he's not faithful? Either you accept that or leave him ASAP!
2006-10-07 23:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey, he is just doing what comes naturally, let the guy live love a little. You obviously need to start upping the stakes sexually, Prolonged anal, and oral, outdoor stuff and even offering to join him in a few of his waitress exploits, it is only sex after all. xxxx Anal should not be too much of a problme the Orientals and Japs are not well endowed
2006-10-07 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont know how to trust him,thats easy you dont,if he's out with other girls why bother with him he doesnt deserve you,if he was at all what he says he would be there for you and your daughter...i wish i had half what he's been given and i'd be a happy man but some people arent satisfied enough with what they are given,some dont even gat the opportunities like some
2006-10-07 23:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG whats wrong with you? Why are you with someone like this...trying to be faithful, WTF...Trying, i cant get over that word...You need to dump this guy before he gives you a disease...Your also showing your daughter its ok if guys cheat...Move on....
2006-10-07 23:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is out and about chatting up the waitresses and going on dates you have NO reason to trust him.....to be his second fiddle and find someone who will only want to be with you.....god knows what diseases he might bring home.......you deserve better
2006-10-07 23:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 00:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by hosford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust him! he is a player and is playing you! dump his cheating *** to the curb and tell EVERYONE what a lying dog he is. he will lie to you to get you back but thats all it is a lie. be strong and be firm and let you will be fine.
2006-10-07 23:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to be rude but:
Why are you treating yourself so cheaply? is he Yakuza or are you a night walker?
2006-10-07 23:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Elsalsis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...........you need to decide if you want to be with such a man, cant help it is crap......we all have choices including you......do you want to be with a man who dates other people?
2006-10-07 23:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋