If you like a girl @ school and u ask her out and she rejects u what do u do? Do u say, "Oh, well, I tried."? Or do u walk away without saying anything? Or maybe say "Bye" then walk away? Girls, what do i do?
2006-10-07 22:47:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm...I guess it depends on the situation individually.
If the girl is rude about it and feels the need to make you feel really bad about asking her, you might simply say goodbye - you don't want her in the first place!
But if she's nice about it but just doesn't like you like that, you might just want to say "If you ever change your mind, here's my number."
2006-10-07 22:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by leaysa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just smile, ask her again, tell her why you asked her out, what you like about her, if she still rejects you can just say that's ok.
This leaves the door open, she may not have been expecting your question and may have acted defensively or she may warm up later when she gets to think about you so don't close the door out of pride or anything.
She may just not be interested but if she thinks your a nice guy she might talk about you with her friends, the word gets around and some other girl might show you that she fancies you.
After the rejection look for someone else to be interested in quickly and ask them out before you get too interested and the tension is too high.
Go for it
2006-10-07 22:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy but I am older than these dumb high school girls, so I know how to handle situations. If you ask a girl out and she say's no, just walk away and don't fret about it. There are A MILLION FISH IN THE SEA, don't sweat a rejection. Be cool and patient, someone will like you sooner or later........... In another words, enjoy being single. Women ruin men's lives and are not interested in making you happy or being good to you. In the real world it is all about the money and what you look like and what you can give to them to make THEM happy, your feeling's are of no importance to a woman or girl. And for god's sake, don't have any kids with a girl that eventually does end up being your girlfriend. She will drain you of all your income for years to come.
2006-10-07 22:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
If a girl rejects your invitation but she said it in a nice way, just say thank you for being frank to you. Rejections are not the end of your world. Its life. 10 years from now, this question is not really a big deal to you. Enjoy your life and maybe try asking another girl, im sure somebody out there is waiting for you. Goodluck.
2006-10-07 23:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by amy n 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Traynor had a good one: "Thanks!"
Because really, you have come out ahead by learning that she does not like you. Not only have you saved the time and money of going out with a girl who does not like you, but you free up your attention for girls who might like you.
I probably wouldn't say "Thanks" though, unless she was mean about the way she rejected me. I'd probably make up some sort of excuse to get the hell out gracefully. If I were to say anything other than that, I would say "Have a nice day!" Remember, be reasonably cheerful!
The reason you don't want to say anything sarcastic unprovoked is because you will end up planting the idea in women's minds that men do not take rejection well. That will lead them to say all sorts of things to avoid actually telling men that they don't want to be with them (in order to spare themselves the guilt of hurting someone else). How do you think the phrase "let's just be friends" came about? That sort of beating around the bush is a big waste of time all around, and it hurts men even worse than just being honest and straightforward.
I think righteousness1983 has a good answer too. It's very accurate. You probably will need to search far and wide to find a good woman.
Have a nice day!
2006-10-07 22:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say, be cool about it. Be more casual. Don't show your disappointment because that makes you appear to be desperate. Also don't seem too happy because that will seem like you're not sincere, and that you don't care. I agree with what *Katie Sanderson* suggest, perhaps instead of "fine" say well, if you change your mind you know where to find me. Then give the best smile you can or a wink and walk away!
2006-10-07 23:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jordaan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I normally say you sure missed out on the best thing that was about to happen to you or thank you, you just did me a favor (when she asks what ) i say you stopped me from making a huge mistake because you couldnt handle me any way (this really pisses them off) and in some rare cases it leads to a laugh and then i end up going out with them after all I know weird isnt it?
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2016-04-29 07:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a man and i would say nothing and walk away until the right one finds you .How will you know she will make sure you know one way or another that she likes you. Rejection is hard to take for us guys but in the end its worth waiting.
2006-10-07 22:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you say "Okay well, i hope you have a good time at the dance. See ya round." Thats all don't get down, cause sometimes those girls feel bad about not even thinking about your question, and they come bck and apologize. Keep your head up.
2006-10-07 22:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋