DEAR ASMA...THERE ARE HORDES OF GOOD GUYS SPECIALLY IN INDIA WHO UNDERSTAND FAMILY VALUES AND ARE WELL VERSED WITH BASIC TENETS OF ISLAM,, JUST THAT WE DON'T HAVE A PLATFORM WHERE LIKE MINDED PPL CAN CONNECT,,, AT THIS JUNCTURE I CAN ONLY TELL YOU THAT ALLAH' HAS MADE PAIRS AND INSHALLAH YOUR SISTER WILL VERY SOON FIND A DESERVING GUY ...AFTER ALL YOUR SISTER IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE SUCH A CARING AND LOVING SISTER LIKE YOURSELF''' AAP YA ALLAH HO YA RAHMANO YA RAHIMO PADHTI RAHEN...JALD HE AAPKO KHUSHKHABRI MIL JAYEGI...
2006-10-07 23:11:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Dear Sister Asma,
Do you think only girls have this problem? When I got married, the prospective brides parents / relatives asked me very weird questions, like : Do you have a family visa since you are an NRI, when will you take our daughter abroad? How much do you earn? (Is salary a criteria to judge a person's character?) Do you have your own house? (Every groom should have one?) Do you have responsibilities? (Is irresponsible OK?) Things like this. Now you tell me is this not a 2-sided problem. Both the prospective brides and grooms should look for character and family values and so on. May Allah help you in your quest.
2006-10-07 23:18:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Dear Asma,
Assalamualikum wa rahmatullahi wa baraktoo..
Inshallah you will find not one but many you can choose best out of the best inshallah why are you so upset are you are not aware jodia asman main bante hai aur Allah ke taraf say atay hai rishtay bas upko dundna padta hai and you need to have pateience.
as far asyour question for simplicity and character i guess people cant judge the character so they go for maternal things i will give an example we had a old car reasonbly used and well maintained but because of time and weather the colour of the car shaded when we advertised nobody was intersted even at a very low price then we got it coloured and done some cosmetic changes and we were able to sell it a reasoble price, moral of ther story soory to say this but you and your sister need to get makeover and present yourself in uptodate manner you need to understand people are used to see external things and make decions.
be in touch throuh my email iamcupid2000@yahoo.com
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2006-10-07 23:22:43
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answered by cupiddear 2
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hi asma, salaam! it feels like whoever u hv met until eventually now has no longer proved to be a good fellow!there are alot of robust muslim fellows in india!i'm a muslim and that i've got are available the time of such people!by potential of ways r u asking this question for urself or ur sister!in any case, inshallah u'll fantastic somebody! wait and spot!ok!its the month of ramzan so pray and u'll get the fruit! khudahafiz!
2016-10-02 01:57:51
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answered by oberlander 4
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Asak Asma
there is no one perfect in the world, regarding marriage its mostly depends on luck, aur khawath bi hi na ke har kisi ka joda bana howa rahtha chaye tum kitna bi koshish karo jo jab jisse tumhari sis ke shadi hona hi zarroor hogi all the best
2006-10-08 12:23:45
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answered by MOHAMMED K 1
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Dont worry Many muslim boys will come forword to marry you sisters. Only about qualification you have not given details. Alla is there & best of luck to you both.
2006-10-08 21:50:34
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answered by narendra k 3
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sister
pray to your god and there are good people on thise earth who undestands very thing will suerly come in search of thise girl and he will take care of her dont wory leave it in the hands of god
2006-10-11 03:30:21
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answered by Anonymous
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happy roza to you.right things happen at right time. dont worry....
2006-10-08 22:04:41
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answered by amithaa 3
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Look in to shaadi.com.
2006-10-07 23:08:39
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answered by liketoaskq 5
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YOUR RIGHT...........
2006-10-07 23:06:54
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answered by arshi 2
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