I'm 6 feet tall and weigh 350lbs. I don't like how I look because of the fact that most women I know only hang out with me because they know they will never ever have any other type of relationship with me. It really sucks sometimes. My last relationship ended pretty badly but it was because she cheated on me. Take a look at my picture and you tell me what you think. Girls only please, thanks.
http://allyoucanupload.webshots.com/v/2003877656186922611
http://allyoucanupload.webshots.com/v/2000830132341087019
If anything, hit me up on Myspace at
http://www.myspace.com/kozdadj
By the way, I do exercise. I work in a building with 38 floors as a security guard and I usually patrol all three stairways. At my job, I work more than anybody. I do no less than 80 hour a week. In other words, I rarely eat because I sleep during the day and work mostly nights. The only place, in Downtown Boston that is open, is 711. I don't want to eat that crap.
2006-10-07 20:53:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, Reality.
I can probably bench you.
So go F yourself.
2006-10-08 16:41:27 · update #1
Your weight should have nothing to do with your attractiveness to the opposite sex. If all the girls that hang out with you only hang out with you because they know they will never have any other type of relationship with you, I'd say your problem is that you have a bunch of shallow friends. Go out and get some more intelligent ones. Volunteer, join a club, take a class, etc., and you'll meet plenty of girls who will be interested in who you are and not what your bathroom scale says.
2006-10-07 21:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I chose to date and go through all of the interpersonal differences and concessions weight would not be the consideration. The person inside and that person's heart or kindness would be what I would look for. You can find other women like that. Try out one of the free internet dating services-there are alot of good people on them. If the weight bothers you and I would suppose that it does, then see a doctor and work with him on why you maintain it and what you can do to lower it. He will test you and send you to a dietician to be sure you eat enough of the right foods. Abstinance can cause you to put weight on also. Lack of fiber and bulk may also be issues along with genetics but there are ways to work around all of those. Be sure to see a specialist in a weight clinic. Best wishes. If you do those things better days are ahead.
2006-10-07 21:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by beverly p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it we all have to find someone attractive before we decide to accept an invite for a date. The good news is we all have a different opinion of what is considered attractive. I will tell you one thing...no woman wants a man with a low self-esteem and low self-confidence.If you are unhapy with yourself at your current weight I suggest you start up a membership at a gym where they can counsel you and give you some tips on how to loose weight. Work on improving yourself so you will be ready for a relationship when that perfect woman comes into your life, it will most likely happen when you least expect it, so get moving.
2006-10-07 21:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, but at 350lbs youre more than 100lbs overweight. If you want to increase the amount of gal pal choices you might want to lose some. Most people feel that's unhealthy...women try to look for a man who looks healthy...uno, longevity for a lifetime and being overweight also portrays an image of someone who overeats and may be lethargic.
You can develop heart problems and diabetes.
Its a red flag for me cuz Ive seen the results of diabetes. Besides, that...what about...uno??
Might you crush a girl?? If your metabolism is such that youre maintaining this weight and not eating alot you might look into hypoglycemia or thyroid problems. Do some drastic changes to your diet and try to increase your metabolism and drink more water and try to fast once a week. Good luck.
2006-10-07 21:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have no problem dating a man that is overweight. The only concern would be his health and leaving this world too soon! Your picture is fine and you don't look 350 lbs. Many women look at the whole picture not just weight. Many men don't get much action in the relationship department that are of average built so the mind does rule!
2006-10-07 21:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Firefly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I started dating my husband when he was over 300 lbs I think. I never minded it! We had a great time and he's so handsome anyway. Before we got married I told him he had to do something about his weight and that I would help him. It is a little hard to have sex when I am 5'8", 140 lbs if you know what I mean!
But, as far as dating.....absolutely! Personality is the most important!!! That makes up for everything! By the way, saw your pic and if I were single I'd love to date you. You are adorable!!
2006-10-07 21:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the fat guy on "lost"? he looks bigger than you, and he has a girlfriend.
they say that not eating slows down your metabolism. many people lose weight eating small meals 5 times a day. i really think you should eat... even if you have to change jobs!!! eat at least 3 meals a day and some snacks if you can (healthy as possible of course). when you don't eat, your body thinks it's starving so it tries to conserve as much fat as it can. good luck in your dating.. i'm fat now and i've been very surprised that some really hot girls are still attracted to me. i mean REALLY hot, skinny girls. you can't assume every attractive person is shallow. many girls do value a good personality! have a sense of humor, be confident in yourself, and be happy and believe me girls will like you. and if they don't date you, at least you've made some friends. don't let it get you down and keep looking for that one special lady!
2006-10-07 20:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not all about looks. If you have a great personlity, then use that to your advantage. There are ways to use clothes to your advantage also. If you have a great personality and don't focus on your body as much as you seem too, then any girl would love you. Maybe you should start eating a healthy diet then you may lose some weight. I've heard that you can't lose weight if you don't eat.
2006-10-07 20:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With age comes experience and some people learn and some don't. I personally don't care if a man is overweight. What matters is that he is decent, loving, attentive, considerate, FAITHFUL, honest, and mutually hard working. Looks don't mean a thing if the casing is the show and there's rot inside.
2006-10-07 20:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might want to have your thyroid checked if you really do exercise that much and don't eat all that much either.
Personally, no i would not date someone thats overweight because i am a very small girl. I am probably a little underweight even. If I was bigger, than maybe.
2006-10-07 21:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by teri 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋