m 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...can kissing her on the lips make a difference >> pls help.. i posted this like 3 times now and i need suggestion and commnents from people experiences..
2006-10-07 20:52:54 · 3 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this has happened to me numerous times. its like you feel a spark, a chemistry, or you identify urself with a girl, only to later find out that it is not what you "EXPECTED". in my opinion, its expectations that kills everything, when you expect a girl to be a certain way, and she is not, she often seems uninteresting 2 you, so maybe u expected when u started dating her that she should be a particular way or act a particular way. Know that every girl is different, and the best part of a relationship is expect the unexpected from the girl(especially since you kno her 2 years), so maybe thats y ur losing interest in her, if so then u might need to find someone new and who you can find out about gradually which makes teh relationship interesting. hope this helps in some way.
2006-10-07 21:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by balanced112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always, lol it is known as a date, I feel considering the fact that they set a date in combination on which they're gonna cross out. I feel unique individuals do unique matters on their dates.
2016-08-29 06:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by pharisien 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you suddenly uninterested? Find it out and you'll know what to do. If you don't wanna hurt her, and you won't be needing her the same way, it's best to break up. If you care about her, make her feel superspecial with flowers and chocolates and stuff and don't worry, love will come back...
2006-10-07 20:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋