that i really do care about him and what to do things with him
he is treating me very well cooking, taking me out etc but it has slowed down now for some reason.i havent done much for him dont like to cook really but will do it together he always says i can show him better then i can tell him .. so what things can i do for him to let him know
2006-10-07 23:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have done all the 3 things from the first questions and he enjoys it we have sex quit often .. but still need some ways to show him i care about him 'or should htat be enough
2006-10-07 23:43:28 · update #1
sorry the first three answers
2006-10-07 23:43:55 · update #2
One major idea that comes to mind is giving him a massage. These sites look promising (especially the second one), but I JUST found them:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Massage
http://www.massagefree.com/
http://www.learn-massage-online.com/
Or take him out some time, or cuddle with him, or do any small thing you can to let him know that you care. Cooking would be a very good gesture. ( Everyone hates cooking at first, because it looks much harder than it is. Basic cooking is a breeze. ) I mean, the list is practically endless. If you can think of it, and you think it's a nice gesture, then chances are he would like it too. He's right about showing people you love them. One can talk about it all day, but until you actually do something what does it count for?
Have a nice day!
2006-10-07 23:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, as the relationship progresses, people tend to get into their comfort zones and dont make it a point to be very romantic anymore. There was this once when my bf stopped signing off with "I love you". It bothered me a great deal, and so I asked hiw what was the reason. He told me that He does love me even if he stopped saying it. So I suggest you don't worry much.
There are lots of ways you can show him, and it can be sexual or non sexual. You can knit him a sweater rather than buy him one cause you put more effort in making one rather than buying one. But thats just an example. You could help him clean his apartment. Play to you advantages, if you are a good artist, paint him something nice, or if you write music, write him your own song just dedicated to him. Or burn him a CD with all his fave tunes.
Take the trouble to check up on him when hes down with flu. Dont mother him, but sometimes tender sweet loving care can go a long way!
Good luck
2006-10-07 23:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Missy looks like you have caught the rarest of all males the domesticated homing male .he cooks he cleans next you ll try telling us that he is a romantic at heart as well .
What can you do for a guy that will do these things for you . smile say thank you ,kiss him softly on the lips and tell him you love him , after all he chose to do these things for you because he loves you and likes the way it makes him feel to do for you Its not about reward its about the two of you .
2006-10-07 23:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to him when he is talking and ask a question about it. Tell him he looks nice and when he's watching TV don't talk to him and go find something to do. cook but ask him to load the dish washer. tell him yall are a team and there are 2 people in this relationship so we will divide up chores
2006-10-07 23:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer him up when he is sad or frustrated...
Show some love for him like taking him to the movies...
Make a surprise for him to show that you really do care about him...
Always prepare for a dinner or meal for him on his special days...
Like a promotion or something...
2006-10-07 23:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him girly... do such tasks that will surprise and please him!!! And also a frank and romantic discussion with him about the subject bothering your relationship and love.... love him....do some fancy cute things with him... ;-))
2006-10-07 23:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a ploy for more sex to me.
2006-10-07 23:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should give to him ur body thats it
2006-10-07 23:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you blowing him? That's important you know!
2006-10-07 23:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋