2006-10-11 02:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by vanessa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best thing to do is go have a check up with your doctor. These days there are so many ways of getting pregnant without even having to do it the natural way. My sister in-law just found out she was pregnant last week, and she had been trying for two years. She got pregnant naturally, but it just took some time. She has two kids from her previous marriage. You wouldn't have two wait that long if you went to see a doctor. They could tell you what the problem is and sometimes they put you on medications to help you conceive a little faster.
2006-10-11 03:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you scared you wont be able to get pregnant or that you wont be a good Mom. There is a difference. If its the first one . Why are you scared. some medical reason. See the Doctor. get checked out. If its the second. I'm sure you ll do fine(unless you hate kids) that's why it takes 9 months not only for the baby to grow inside you and get ready to be born ,but for you to get ready for him/her Believe me your mothering in stints will kick in the minute that test says positive. Best wishes
2006-10-11 03:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by careermom18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it really really depends on your age. Take it from me I am 17teen I'll be 18teen in a month I have a 5 month old and I am pregnet again my kids will be 1 year apart because i am 3 months and 13days so, I know that it might seem fun but, its hard work and think about the kids father to you might love him now but something could change if i am wrong e-mail me
cat_baby_1@hotmail.com
2006-10-11 03:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to declare which you will possibly abort a newborn on account which you ought to not circulate in the process the discomfort of labour and 'being ill for the finished 9 months' is very immature, are you particular you're 23 and not 13? additionally, asking a team of random human beings what you ought to do only shows which you particularly are infantile. initially, the discomfort of labour, it is organic and your physique is designed to safeguard it and there is discomfort meds too. Secondly, why might you be ill the finished 9 months? infrequently are women human beings ill for the finished being pregnant. in case you go through rigidity and panick assaults then shouldn't you have considered that formerly having intercourse with out secure practices? on the top of the day, you will possibly have considered attempting, yet in my opinion you're only being ridiculous and immature approximately it, i think of you ought to ascertain a psychiatrist if something.
2016-10-19 04:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a doctor about the risks of having a baby. Are you actually scared about child birth, we all are scared. Im scared about having a baby too.
Hope you get some good advice.
2006-10-11 02:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why do you think you can't? Have you been told by a doctor that you can't? You really need to include more information. If you literally can't have one, adoption is always an option. But first you need to speak to a doctor as only he/she can give you the answers.
2006-10-11 02:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you're an adult with a good job, a good support system, you are mentally sound, have a place to live and are able to care for a baby 24hrs a day, 7 days a week before even considering wanting a baby.
When it happens it happens. don't rush things.
2006-10-11 02:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you know you can't...that is out of the question. So, you should look into adoption. There is nothing wrong with that. YOu will love the baby the same way. Look into it, and find piece of mind.
2006-10-11 05:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by ~EleGantLaDyY~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all why u think u cant.sec. who told u its not possible,either gynecologist or some layman.
wats ur hubby doing?
do you have any problem medically?
make clear.I will guide u being a doctor.
Dont scare of it .its a gift from God and none can deny it.
I hope u r serious and consider me like ur brother and tell me in detail.
2006-10-11 02:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by dentist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have one. If you can't, what's wrong with adoption? There are millions of children out there who need love- YOU could give it to them!
2006-10-11 02:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by shondak 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋