[W]hen you lost that person and the pain is so intense, how do you heal from loosing them? This could be someone that died in your life or someone that you no longer have a connection with due to many circumstances and complications.
2006-10-11 02:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by [B] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*sigh*
My ex-bf died two years ago. And the thing is, he died two days before we were scheduled to get married. Hurts bigtime, huh? What I did was I just cried whenever I felt like crying. I talked about him with friends, family members, and yes, even bar men. One day, I just realized I was too tired to cry some more.
I'm with someone now and I'm doing quite okay. I am still not married but I guess marriage can wait. Anyway, whatever happens, I'll manage to be okay. I'm sure you guys will be, too.
2006-10-11 07:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether in death, or complications, losing a friend takes months or possibly years to recover from. Sometimes folks never get back on track. I wished i could be more positive, but, having lost friends, mostly due to deaths, I can't say that I will ever be the same!
2006-10-11 10:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never lost my best friend or has he deserted me .He was there when my husband of 20 years walk out on us to go live with a woman who reputation of chasing married men is known all over the state.He never even said "good bye" to his kids. My best friend was there during the agony and pain my children went thru as concequence of this man actions .He was there when we discover this man 3 sisters and brother help him commit adultery with this woman all along to the point of helping him get an apartment for them to move in together.He was there when the kids waited for a call from "papa" and he never called,he was there when "papa" missed chirstmas and birthdays or school graduations ,he was there whe they felt the pain of knowing that "papa" had another child with this woman and never said a word about it.He was there when this other woman sent notes to my kids saying your papa don'tcall because he does not love you.You see, he was there giving us blesings calming our spirits drying our tears and showing us a bright new day.The pain stop because our best friend make us realize that we are better of without this person in our lives.Our best friend is jesus and I asure you, he never failed ,he will never leave your side or walk out on you.At some point in life people will fail ,betray or simply make a mistakes but God never fail and he will always show you the path .
2006-10-11 10:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by jubileejoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that boat riight NOW! This past year, one of my two best friends (20 year history) met a new guy, got deeper into religion, and remarried and she has been different with me and our STRONG enduring relationship is over. I do not give second chances when trust is broken and she has broken trust with me by changing to the point that our relationship is affected. It use to not so much hurt but was just weird. I am the type that I truly pick myself up, dust off and move on. When you have no control over a situation you dont dwell. Life happens and you must roll with it. Bottomline: ITs HER lost! G'luck!
2006-10-11 09:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I say to friends who have lost friends.
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-11 09:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I just recently went our seperate ways, the only problem is, she is my cousin too, so I still have to interact with her. But she lied to me and about and I can't stand that. That is one of my biggest pet peeves in the world. It is not that hard to tell the truth. I have just moved on, I miss her bunches and it is hard not having her to talk to, but I just turned to my bf for support and his mom and talk to them. There is still a yearning to call her up, but I can't trust her anymore. You just have to find someone else to count(not necessarily to replace), just to be there for you like they were. It just takes some healing time.
2006-10-11 12:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did lose my best friend, and the pain flows back each time i need him, in aug my son passed away and i need him more then i ever needed a friend before, all i got was an im from him asking what happened...that was it........
2006-10-11 10:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a best friend that i tried my best to be there for when she needed something....we worked together and i worked for her alot when she needed to be off....i must have worked for her 5 times in a month because she wanted to do something with her husband....then the 1 time i needed her to work for me because my kid got sick...she said she would but she had to go to walmart!!!!!! I was appalled and ended the relationship....i felt used. I never regreted ending that relationship....we tried talking after that but it wasnt the same.....
2006-10-11 09:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best friend that I trusted implicitly. We were friends for years, but when he said "i can get you into bed when ever I want" to my wife I told him to get the hell out of my house and never contact me again.
2006-10-11 10:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by BBQ MASTER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad was my best friend and he passed away. i don't think i will actually be over it. it just gets easier to deal with as time goes on
2006-10-11 09:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Elle's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋