Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

i care a lot about my girlfriend. it doesn't bother me that she is a littlle overweight- i like her the way she is. but what bothers is that she has a really weird relationship with food. she admits that she eats too much, and even when she isn't hungry. i can't leave her alone in my apartment without returning to find that she a lot of my food, and since i'm a college student, i don't have much money. she is not bulimic. her eating too much and not taking care of herself makes me somewhat sick and unattracted to her. i don't mean to be a dick but what is asttractive about a person who puts all this junk constantly into their body for no reason but boredom? i don't want to be sexual with her bc i'm not attracted anymore but i do love her. what should i do?

2006-10-11 16:39:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Bf and i have dated 3 times now in the last 2 years.. we never broke up for any Rock solid reason usually just that we didnt have time for each other.. he worked all the time and i was a full time mother.

I am absolutely inlove with him..

so my qusetion is.. is the 3rd time REALLY the charm or am i just wasting my time?

2006-10-11 16:39:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So if I like boy, instead of talking to him and making him pay attention to me all the time, I should focus more on myself and be 'selfish', so indirectly I would show him what kind of focused person I am? And that would be more useful in actually getting him to like me, instead of trying to make conversation with him? so essentially, by not paying attention to him, i get him to pay more attention to me willingly?

2006-10-11 16:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2 in Singles & Dating

nothing but liars and cheats? Why cant the liars be together and the one's who have real honesty and love be together. I can't be the only lonely person out there thinking that on this beautiful wed. Night!

2006-10-11 16:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by lovlisuzy51880 1 in Singles & Dating

Bfore my ex bf and I brokeup we had along discusion about me giving him my virginity and he was my best friend I've known him since Kindergarten. And then when we finally got to having sex he wants to do anal instead so we do it. And now he wants to have sex with his ex gf who is my friend. Why wouldn't he sleep with me? He said he wanted to have sex with me to.

2006-10-11 16:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

we were friends and now we are not but we still talk if we see eachother

2006-10-11 16:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by rachel_leigh101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 16:37:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 16:36:43 · 2 answers · asked by mijesus66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 16:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Mahealani 1 in Family

When my boyfriend was alive me and I friend would share sex stories like any lady would. I was in a monogamous relationship with my man and we had terrific sex. Everything was great cuz we appreciated each other outside the bedroom, so when it came to sex multiple orgasm, and emotional climaxes were guaranteed. By the way did I mention he was my first.Anyway, my friend is overcoming low self esteem so which is part of the reason she chose to sleep with lots of guys.I dont have an issue with that but, she swears that out of all of the 9 guys she screwed within a 2 month period she SWEARS that all of them were 8-9 inches or bigger. And she swears she has never sucked d!ck, but every man she slept with went down on her.
1.Why do women lie about other random guys d!ck size?
2Why do ppl talk about other given them oral, but swear they have never don it.especially women, I dont believe many guys are gonna put their mouf on anything they could hit the same day
Dont u hate when ppl do this?

2006-10-11 16:36:29 · 14 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Friends

2006-10-11 16:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by mijesus66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that i'm technically just friends with but the way he acts suggests he wants more. he's a really great guy and we connect on so many issues.
the problem is this: his cell phone got "stolen" apparently so the only way we can communicate is online. he keeps emailing me to say we should hang out or do something but when i email him back to say yeah lets do it he never gets back to me in time and so it doesn't end up working out. the only times we have actually gotten together have been when i iniate the getting together part and then he suggests something to do. the frusterating part is that a couple of times i know he got my email in time but didn't write back untill MUCH later, thereby ruining any chance of meeting up. this last time he hasn't written back at all :(
i just don't understand why he would keep initiating things but then not follow through. i'm tired of putting effort into this and then being left hanging but i really like him otherwise so what do i do?

2006-10-11 16:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok some people say men think of sex most of the time. ok how about women. what are the most important three things that women think about on their mind?

2006-10-11 16:34:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's alot of them and I don't know how one gets these on their bum. How they get there? I'm kinda grossed out now.

2006-10-11 16:34:11 · 23 answers · asked by Jinx 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My four-year daughter stopped being breastfed last year just like that. Now she takes much interest in it. In fact, she never wants it so much before. Most interestingly, even my wife is healthier nowadays and she says daughter is getting a lot of breastmilk. However, I am worried if it could have negative impact on both the mother and child's health. Please suggest.

2006-10-11 16:33:53 · 12 answers · asked by help the mom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been going with a girl for 4 years and theres this girl i have know all my life and did not start haveing filling for until about a year ago i kissed her one time and she told my to stop bc i had a girl friend and know she is with some one . and she is the girl of my dreams

2006-10-11 16:33:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look,it's like everytime i kiss(majority have been with my girlfriend Luetya,i also had my first kiss with) a girl i kind of zone out i like get in a trans. or get in a daze,then i walk around smiling. Am i the only person this happens to,it's like when we kiss our surrounding drops and it's just me and her and nothing else or anyone else around,then i go into a daze for a half hour. It really happened today,we had our first tongue kiss,i can't wait to do that again tomorrow. It felt sooooooooo good.

2006-10-11 16:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 16:31:18 · 16 answers · asked by nutsforgrapes 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 16:30:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well the father of my child is Muslim(Nation Of Islam) and we just recently had a baby girl she's 2 months old.He's 23 and I just turned 26.We've been dating on & off for about 5 1/2 years.Well we wanted a baby together,anyhow we conversed about marriage alot.During my pregnancy he treated me real bad & started to really act his age.His father keeps calling these meetings(about marriage).I have chosen to let him go & do what he wants b/c I know my worth.It hurts but he doesnt seem to want it right now.He seems confused sometimes.With the pressure of his dad it pushes h/away.Well we had a BLOW out arguement saturday and he disrespected me unbelievbly(the talk was about child support,he's paid none and he thinks its to much)well we were supposed to all meet.Me,him & his dad.He was excited @ first but when I brung up child support thats when the arguement and insults flew.He made it to where the meeting had to be cancled.I told h/he couldnt see her until I file a order b/c of h/disrespect

2006-10-11 16:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i got a text from my boyfriends phone at 4 in the morning, and it said "yeah you are, your so beautiful." We hadn't been having a conversation, it was just out of the blue! Don't you think he had been saying it to someone else? Cuz i sure as hell do!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-11 16:29:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that a girl will seem more attractive to guys when she is not indulged in finding a boyfriend, but in her own studies and work? If a girl is busy with her career goals, is that more appealing? So when a girl does not try to find a bf, he will come to her naturally?

2006-10-11 16:29:30 · 17 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been broken up for 2 months now. He called my phone and left a voice message saying "You were on my mind, I know you probably dont want to talk to me, but I was calling to see how you are doing." What does that mean? He cheated on me that's why we broke up. I haven't called him in a month. We were in a 2 1/2 year relationship.

2006-10-11 16:28:33 · 29 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Singles & Dating

I had astudy group 2 years ago with a couple of people, including this one guy. Well, recently, I went to a frat party and I saw the guy there, who now has a long-term girlfriend. He basically admitted to me that he had a crush on me for 2 years (I only had that one class with him) and that he had wanted to ask me out but didn't have the guts. Then he said he used to look at me in class and gawk at me, thinking I was mysterious because of my fascination with literature.

TWO YEARS LATER! I don't get it. He never called me or anything, and didn't even attempt to ask me out. Yet he admits this 2 years afterwards? And then basically he took care of me while I was drunk and almost puking. Why would he admit this 2 years later?

2006-10-11 16:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I worked with asked me out and got my number. He didn't call for a week, but came into work and he made me lunch and dinner and took me on an ambulance ride (he's an EMT). After that, he told me he would call me sometime. A week passed and no call. I was told if a guy didn't call you within that length of time that he wasn't interested. My friend told me the making me food and ambulance ride was a date, so I assumed that date didn't work out for him.

My friend set me up with this guy she worked with. We dated quite a bit and decided to be a couple. After about 3 weeks to a month, the EMT called me for a lunch date. He said he would call me this week. He called me today. I told him last week I had a boyfriend, but I think he thought I was making it up since he didn't call. I told him again today. He said maybe some other time. Then before he hung up, I asked him why he didn't call. He said he didn't have any money. He said he was sorry for not calling.

2006-10-11 16:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 16:25:28 · 26 answers · asked by Princess Guerra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

with an ex will work out better than the first time. Or do you believe, if it didn't work the first time it will not work out the second time.

2006-10-11 16:25:27 · 26 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i hella love my boyfriend 4 2 years but im in high school & i think this guy iz really cute soooo ne 1 got any suggestions

2006-10-11 16:24:42 · 6 answers · asked by sexy 916 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 26 year old man on the verge of breakup with my fiance of 3+ years. I love her with all my heart, but she thinks we are growing apart. She says we do not communicate well, and I have to agree that this is a big problem for us. We have short conversations everyday, with usually nothing but small talk. We have different interests and perhaps we don't have anything important to talk about, other than trying to think of topics. I really want to salvage what we have here. I appreciate any thoughts, especially from those who have been through this.

2006-10-11 16:22:51 · 26 answers · asked by Ben 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My man has been married for 17 years and is now separated. We have been dating for 19 months and it has been a long distance relationship. He asked me to move in with him 2 months ago and I said yes.

He has been spending a lot of time at "the house" making repairs and spending time with his daughter. He has been feeling kind of sad lately and wonders if he should go home. He says that "she will never give me a divorce."

When I ask how he feels about me, he says it's complicated and he cares about me. He says that he sometimes feels as though the passion is gone, but "I'm not trying to talk you out of moving up here." I told him that either I move up and try or I figure out something else, move on and never look back. He got upset when I said that but he didn't make a decision either way.

When we are together, I see it in his eyes and his actions that he does care for me. But when we talk now, he acts as though he wants me to end it. What is going on? What to do?

2006-10-11 16:22:49 · 21 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce