Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

If someone regularly views pornographic materials, downloads and saves sex chat links, and has secret email accounts, can they honestly be trusted, will they not eventually become cheaters?

2006-10-11 16:22:27 · 2 answers · asked by Miss F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 16:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by moxie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy and i want to become good friends with him how to i flirt with him or start a conver

2006-10-11 16:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by Corey H 1 in Singles & Dating

What should a normal 19 year olds life be like / thanx.

2006-10-11 16:21:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 16:20:50 · 14 answers · asked by Bottle_Spout 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi I know I asked this question already but I need more advice!!

There's this guy that I just barely met, and we don't talk at all, we just know each other's names. I told my guy friend (they both know each other well) that I thought the guy was hot, and then he told him! Well now I notice him giving me intense eye contact whenever he walks pass me. And when I look at him, he'll just continue staring. However, on some days, he'll pretend that I don't exist. So do you think he doesn't like me?

guys, when you're shy and you like a girl, what types of body language do you give her?

2006-10-11 16:18:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I suddenly get the want to either have a long lasting love with someone or make out passionatly with a person (mainly imagining the future of getting married) and im only a teenager. What does this mean?

2006-10-11 16:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been having a relationship with a 54-year-old married man and I’m 20-years-old! This has been going on since September 3, 2005. I want to leave him but I can't because I don't want to hurt him. Why am I in love with the wrong person? He has been married for 21 years now and has 2 children. A girl who is18 and has autism and a boy who is 20 and is a slow learner. He says he wants to leave his wife and be with me but I doubt that he will EVER get a divorced from her. I have suggested marriage counseling but the wife said that they can work it out on their own. I did a tarot card reading about two weeks ago and the cards told me to leave him or something bad will happen. The sex is great with him! I am friends with the 20-year-old boy. This is his second marriage. We sneak around a lot and find odd places to make love. People have seen us together but they haven’t put two and two together yet. I feel horrible about being his mistress and I don’t want to come in between their marriage. Every time I’m around him, I forget about everything else. He treats me like a princess! I will hate it whenever his wife and children will find out about us or if he gets me pregnant! We never wear protection whenever we have sex.

2006-10-11 16:18:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went on a date this weekend with a guy. He sent all the signals he liked me. He kept wanting to extend the date, he kept asking questions about my ex-boyfriend like he was jealous, he told me how cute and beautiful I am, he said we should get together again next weekend, he kissed me, etc. So why hasn't he called me? It's been three days. And he ignored my myspace friend request! What is the problem? Does he not like me or did he change his mind or is he messing with my mind? P.S. He is just getting out of a 6 year marriage, could this have something to do with it?

2006-10-11 16:18:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so me Mariana and my friend Tesoro were in 6th grade!Is it ok for my friend Tesoro to go out with a 8th grader they give each other hugs and they kiss My friend is 12 is it alright for her!!??

2006-10-11 16:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can you count how many people you have kissed? & how old are you?

2006-10-11 16:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by Sammy 5 in Singles & Dating

State your gender too please.

2006-10-11 16:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or can it be something a little more upbeat? What did you use for your wedding?

2006-10-11 16:16:12 · 17 answers · asked by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 in Weddings

I'm finally graduating high school!!! My parents have been divorced since I was a year old. My dad was an ***, and my mom never really seriously started dating. She needs to start dating and get on with her life, I mean I'll be gone. What can I do to help her to start meeting new guys, and help her get into a realationship??? I love her and I don't want ot see her lonely and alone with cats!!!

2006-10-11 16:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by Christy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a 15 year old by and my sister and her friends are all 13 and 14. when they come over they like to swim naked in our pool and they dont seem to mind that i see them naked. they have asked me several times to join them but i keep saying no. i have seen them do pretty much everything from masturbation to just changing i like it alot and i masturbate constantly but i'm afraid this is wrong? what do i do? the masturbation and everything takes place after my parents go to bed..

2006-10-11 16:16:08 · 2 answers · asked by brother 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently discovered that my niece has been lyin about her age. she's 16 and she's big for her age, so she's been sayin that she's older. could this be a self esteem problem? most of her classmates are 18. she got in school early. or is she tryin to fit in?

Thanks.

2006-10-11 16:14:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lolita 2 in Family

I like totally love skater guys,especially their nice shaggy hair. Anyways what would you choose skater guy, emo guy, goth, jock, or nerd?

2006-10-11 16:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by Kayli (: 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 16:12:51 · 5 answers · asked by psymon 2 in Singles & Dating

I am usually quite talkative, however, when it comes to guys I don't know what to say and I end up saying something lame or stupid...... there's this guy on by bus...we speak quite a lot but I always feel supid afterwards because of what I say. Also, when there's pauses, I think about what else I could say to keep the convo going but again I say something stupid. Do I just keep my mouth shut?????

2006-10-11 16:12:44 · 19 answers · asked by srego123 2 in Friends

Generally, when I have sex with guys, there's nothing left in the relationship for me. I'm usually gone by the morning, so to speak.. But this is a prb because, due to that, I've never had a relationship that's lasted beyond physical.My friends are telling me that I have commitment issues and doing this could hurt me phychologically, but I honestly, do not think that's true, to the slighest-but can it phycological/mental instabilities? or is it natural to expierement?
I am really ******* confused

2006-10-11 16:12:40 · 18 answers · asked by sams_town_is_my_town 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bully on my back...because I am "smart" I need advice, and I don't want to go to staff. They (1 person) is starting to get VERY embarassing...I don't care about the people in my class but my teachers! Can't ignore, been doin that for a while

I know I already asked this question but I want to put it in a generalized section so I get some answers.

2006-10-11 16:11:10 · 12 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Friends

i really like a guy he knows who i am and i think he likes me, i really want to talk to him but i cant think of an excuse to talk to him what do i do

2006-10-11 16:10:29 · 11 answers · asked by Corey H 1 in Singles & Dating

I haven't had s#x in over a year and I can't take it no more is there any one from austin tx who can help me

2006-10-11 16:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

So, i really like this girl who i'm friends with. We tease each other incessantly, fight occasionally and yet i can't stop liking her. She acts as though she wants someone kind, and caring. Which i am to everyone but her. Whenever i try to compliment her, she shoots it down and/or puts herself down. Personally i think shes the most beautiful woman i've ever seen. (sorry if this seems all emotional and crap, i'm a senior and have had several gf's, i just cannot get over this girl) Any advice on how to win her over? Also, she found out i liked her during one of our fights, about a month ago but we both went away right after. Shes always saying she wants a boyfriend, but i just need advice to win over this fickle girl...

2006-10-11 16:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked her for a little over a year now. Here's some background:

I met her in my high school creative writing class. We never really got the chance to talk because we sat on opposite sides of the room. I wrote funny stories in that class and when I read them aloud she smiled and laughed. The semester passed and still I never said anything. I told a few friends about my crush on her and I'm not sure if it got back around to her or not. Anyway, in February she got this boyfriend who I don't really feel deserves her and they're still together. I still like her though; we share music taste and sense of humor and she's pretty and she's smart. We comment each other on MySpace every once in a while--her often posting first--so I can't help but think she has a little bit of interest.

Anyway, my question is: How do I get close to her and become friends with her? Even if friendship is the boundary, I'd be glad. Dating her would be great though. We have history class together this year. :-\

2006-10-11 16:08:38 · 5 answers · asked by Nik 1 in Singles & Dating

This could be a long story, so i'm going to short it up. I grew up with an alcoholic dad who was mentally abusive. I have 3 older siblings that grew up together and me pretty much alone in the house. My dad became at alcoholic at the very young age of 20 about and he is now 55 and fortunately quite drinking about 3 years ago.

My sister who is now 43 years old is also a raging alcoholic. She has been for quite a few years, but in the last 8 years has been bad, but now in the last 2 years it seem she is declining rapidly by the day.

She has kids in the house a 3, 13 and 16 year old boy. The 13 and 16 year old are obviously aware of what is going on and it is breaking them down. I feel as if I am watching my life happen all over again. My sisters Husband of 12 years committed suicide 8 years ago, that is when it was the start of it getting worse. She doesn't deal with issues AT all.

Question is what is it that made you or someone you know stop drinking alcohol?

2006-10-11 16:08:33 · 9 answers · asked by Pam 5 in Family

Ok, so this is what's happening: Today everyone came up to me telling me my friend Michael was gonna ask me out. I like him, but I dont think I like him like that. He held my hand today and made me walk him to his bus and we hugged then I was about to leave until my friend Monica came up and was like "aww" and she was like "So are you going to ask her out?" and he was like "maybe" and smiled at me. I was like ok. and he was like "she's hot I'll ask her out 2morrow. So, yeah i don't know what to do. I like him but i just don't think i should go out with him. We have jus been friends for like 2 months. I got a call from one of his friends and he told me he was gonna ask me out and i jus said i know. what should i say?? I don't wanna say no, but i don't wanna say yes and then later break up with him cuz then it would akward, oh and did i mention this guy Jeremy is gonna ask me out too!!! Ima say no to Jeremy. I think. WHAT do i say to Michael, and what do i say to Jeremy? Jeremys sexy.

2006-10-11 16:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by . 4 in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy for about 2 years and was physically abused for about 18 months. Its been about 6 months now since I've seen him becuase he moved to his Dad's house (long story). Even after we broke up we still talked on the phone all the time and had sex. Its been 4 months since I last spoke to him. I finally said **** it and over 2 days I had 326 missed calls from him. That was the last time he tried to contact me. I went through a time when I hated him and didn't even want to think of him existing. But recently he has been the only thing on my mind. It's true some of the time I went through hell with him, but other days were best experiences of my life. I want to call him and just see what he's up to and if his transition went smoothly. What should I do? Can abusive guys change for the better? Im not trying to get back with him, just be friends unless he seriously changes. I know he still thinks about me cuz his AIM password is still my name+anniversary date.

2006-10-11 16:06:00 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls always over-analyze, according to my male friends. So what does it usually mean? You lost interest? Busy with work/college? What's up?

And why do you call her again after a couple weeks?

2006-10-11 16:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Singles & Dating

So his computer crashed and I hadn't heard from him until recently (him being my high school sweetheart).. Apparently the computer is up and running again cuz he emailed me and told me he was sorry, but the computer crashed... Well I didn't want to seem too desperate so I sent him an o I am sorry about that email and left it there... Do I email him agian with a question so that he knows to email me back again or do I just let it be??? I don't know??? I was going to wait till he emailed me back again and then ask him to meet up for 1/2 hour for lunch or something, but do I wait it out till Friday to see if he sends me something or do I email him again??? asking man's pov becuz I know men aren't really into this sorta thing...with emailing high school girlfriends back or anything and NO NOT MARRIED!! EITHER ON OF US!! I just think this is fate that after 17 years we are in touch again?? help me guys.. tell me what my next move should be?

2006-10-11 16:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating