2006-10-11 16:20:50 · 14 answers · asked by Bottle_Spout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow your the man (( NOT)) you would think if you are going to cheat on your wife you would not do it some place you daughter would see you some man are juts ******* dumb and need to think with the right god damn head .......... get a life and tell your wife your self its bad that your poor daughter had to see that i would think you could be man enough to tell your wife .........that's right your not a man cause you would never have did this in the first place if you where a man
2006-10-11 17:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee here's an idea..in order to take some of the shame, guilt and humiliation off your daughter that you have already caused her....how about you own up to what you are doing and tell the truth!? That's when YOU walk up to your wife and say " today I am going to be a man for once and tell you that I have been screwing my secretary for (you didn't say for how long so you fill it in) and you may want to talk to our daughter because she saw me".
I just hope that your daughter has a REAL man around her that she can look up to so she does not grow up thinking ALL men are liars, cheaters, and basically scum.
Way to be a role model dad.
2006-10-11 16:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...way to not only put your wife through heck but your daughter as well! No time like the present to fess up, then you have some explaining to do to your daughter. How would you react if when she's married, her husband did the same thing? Do you want her to grow up and think this is a normal thing for a husband to do? So, start talking and get into family and marriage counseling. Don't make your daughter worry about how to tell her mom, that's not her job. You dug your own hole, now its time to start climbing out of it! You did this, YOU fix it.
2006-10-11 16:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by piano4thesoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..i'm surprised at how insensitive some all of us is....Please overlook approximately all the different comments the impolite human beings desperate to depart at here. i do no longer understand why they hassle! in any case, i'm very sorry you had a demanding adolescents and that i'm hoping that sooner or later you have gotten the skill to seek for the peace which you deserve. Now which you have a daughter the terrific element you're able to do is love her and make advantageous she never has to go through the way you probably did. (Which i'm advantageous you're doing). i could advise telling the daddy as a results of fact he has a appropriate to appreciate. needless to say there is an danger that he will depart his spouse yet in spite of the end result, the only individual which will and could earnings from this is your daughter. in case you do no longer decide to be romantically in contact which incorporate your ex then make certain you tell him, despite if he needs to depart his spouse after it somewhat is his selection. Please only think of roughly your daughter and her destiny. i'm advantageous you're an superb mom yet only think of how plenty it may help to have her father in her existence. I want you the terrific! "despite your destiny is, despite the hell occurs, you assert, "this is what i want." it may appear like a injury, yet bypass at it as though it have been an danger, a project. in case you deliver like to that 2d—no longer discouragement—you will discover the flexibility is there. Any disaster which you will stay to tell the story is an progression on your character, your stature, and your existence. What a privilege! this is while the spontaneity of your individual nature could have a gamble to bypass. Then, while finding back at your existence, you will see that the moments which appeared to be great mess united statesfollowed by way of wreckage have been the incidents that formed the existence you have now. you will see that this is somewhat real. no longer something can take place to you that's no longer advantageous. despite if it appears that evidently and feels on the 2d like a damaging disaster, this is no longer. The disaster throws you back, and once you're required to exhibit power, it comes." ~ Joseph Campbell
2016-12-08 13:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by hume 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes me mad people like you! why do people cheat? okay so you want something more, than why take vows saying this will be the only girl for you, and how hard is it to go up to your wife and tell her its over and you dont love her anymore, than go sleep with whoever! Why not tell her flat out..I am cheating on you. You didnt seem to care about her feelings before so why care now! Tell her asap, she deserves better than you! Let the secretary have the left overs.
2006-10-11 16:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your daughter before you go to your wife, but YOU need to tell your wife.
2006-10-11 16:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by jearev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest, apologize to your daughter and your wife and get a divorce, then you can sleep with your secretary and not hurt others, jerk..
2006-10-11 16:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just wait until your daughter tells her? I don't see any reason you should be truthful now when you haven't been in the past.
2006-10-11 16:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about telling her......your daughter will .and you should have more respect for your family than to cheat..
2006-10-11 16:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by JENNIFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better call Dr. Laura
2006-10-11 16:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by jeremistocking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋