Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

i'm married since 2 months, after my wedding i heard many lies which my husband has always hidden to me,now i lost all my trust n luv which i've for him. n i do think a gud relationship is based on trust n luv, this y i want to leave him. but i dont know if i'll be able to 4get this n start a new life as i've loved him so much n he was my first lover. thanks for your advise n hope you may help me.

2006-10-11 15:51:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 15:51:14 · 10 answers · asked by jearev 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 15:50:26 · 23 answers · asked by ShayR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met him at work. We've hung out a lot, I always thought that we shared something special. But it isn't until now that I realize it isn't that. He flirts with many girls. The girls he tells me he likes, he seems to be more interesting and passionate in talking to about. He knows I liked him. He ignored it.

I thought it was over and that I could get over him. But I came back to work after a month (btw this is a youth program and food bank) and everyones all like yahh we missed you. He saw me and hes like hey. But he seems to have gotten really close to the other girls. He flirts in kiddy ways, but he talks to me in a respectable way. We are great friends.

I don't know, at times I tell myself he likes me, he respects me. But i think its just as friends.. do you think?

2006-10-11 15:50:13 · 2 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think once you have lost respect for someone that's it. You never respect them again. Or do you think they can regain it like trust?

2006-10-11 15:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm hearing all over the place that girls want a really sweet guy and whatnot, then i'm hearing that being sweet will only make you friends, no romantic attraction. and that you have to pick on them and what not if you want thier attraction. I know girls love confidence, but i feel like picking on a girl or playing hard to get will drive them away, and it also just not me, I'm the type who'll get mad if someone makes fun and treats her with great respect. help me clarify it.

2006-10-11 15:47:58 · 5 answers · asked by Ese 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that was going out with this dude named Waldo (lives in VA)! She started liking a guy (jeremy) that goes to her school, which she would be able to see everyday. She finds out that Jeremy likes her too. So she breaks up with Waldo. She asks Jeremy why he hasen't asked her out yet, he says its complicated. He tells her he has a girlfriend in New York, and says that everytime he tries to breakl up with her she cries and says she loves him. Should she wait around for him?, or just move on?

2006-10-11 15:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by madkittykills 1 in Friends

I know this guy who was really nice to me and asked me for my number. I gave it to him and that night we went to the movies and had a great time! The next morning he didn't even talk to me and he was with another girl! I didn't do anything wrong! He told me he didn't get what he wanted and left. What should I do? Should I ask him what he means by his statement?

2006-10-11 15:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by lynx 2 in Singles & Dating

I am Catholic and I'm not sure where I stand on the subject

2006-10-11 15:47:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf i think is cheating on me it seems to be so, how can i tell. it appears that he is cheating w/ my bff so what should i do? please help i dont want to lose him! his bff said he might pop the question!

2006-10-11 15:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by Jade A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 15:45:52 · 3 answers · asked by MM 1 in Family

Self explanatory. Ladies give me some tips/dos/donts/etc. I can't wait.

2006-10-11 15:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a minister.....
where do i find one..........

2006-10-11 15:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by ce!y 1 in Weddings

What do you think it means if you heard the name of the guy that likes you alot? Alot of times when I'm watching tv I hear the name Zach and the guy that likes me, his name is Zach. Is that like a sign we're supposed to be together or something?

2006-10-11 15:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i had sex with a complete stranger the other night. Well to start off his name is chris he has a girlfriend he doesnt like and i just got out of a 9 months relationship with the man i thought i was supposed to marry. we have been seperated for 2 months now i was craveing sex like nothing else mattered. So ofcourse my best friends boyfriend had an extremely cute friend who just happened to find me just as attractive as i thought he was and we exchanged bodily fluids in his van. This sex was litterly hardcore hi lets have sex kinda sex. and obovioulsy his girlfriend wasnt doing it right for him because he was going wild. But in the middle of whole thing we noticed he had no rubber he just busted inside of me. It was supposed to be there but probably got caught up in all the action. So here i am on that day where i am very able to get knocked up and he just cummed in me. Little worried about that ehh. But even worse i have been thinking about this kid none stop and dont kno what to do

2006-10-11 15:44:41 · 19 answers · asked by babygrl7950 1 in Singles & Dating

there's a girl i just can't stop thinking about, i know her for like a year, and we get along, her boyfriend has just ended an 8 months relationship with her, she's like sad, i guess she stills love him. i think she just sees me as a friend and nothing else, i would like to tell her that i would like to try something with her/tell her my feelings, but there is just something that doesn't let me do it. i'm afraid that if i tell her, and she doesn't feel the same way, that will change our relationship. she's 25, i'm 21. what sould i do? should i wait for a while until she recovers from this situation? sould i tell her nothing? or, should i take it easy and apply the: time will tell? or, should i go and tell her what i feel about her?
HELP!!!!!!!! Please!
Thanks.

2006-10-11 15:44:27 · 17 answers · asked by krilindrs 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend Curtis told me he had a crush on me in gr.5 why would he be telling me this now? We are in high school now. And then when my other guy friend Mike comes shopping with us Curtis tries to but in on the convo him and I had. Then he tells Mike oh I had a crush on Steph back in gr.5. And hes been holding my hand and cuddling with me and puting his arm around me. And then he says "I know were not daiting but lets pretend we are". And then when I was going through my bad breakup Curtis tells me to shut up and get over him and I only talked to him about it once. What the heck. What do u think?

2006-10-11 15:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

i do not want my boyfriend to find out

2006-10-11 15:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Singles & Dating

There are times and moments at the school I attend where I just want to leave and pretend like I died or something. I can't STAND some people and even though I don't show it in public, it happens in the worst times, that I end up crying. But I have my best friend in my school and if i move I wont be able to see him because of my parents. There's a lot of things I know I'll miss, because good sometimes also comes with bad, but everyday makes me lean toward a new school. What should I do to make my decision?

2006-10-11 15:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should a husband tell his wife that he accidentally stumbled across pictures of his mother-in-law (her mother) posing topless near the pool? Over a month has passed since he saw them. He is tempted to tell his wife -- but is not convinced it is fair or that it will only end in a terribly bad arguement. Your thoughts?

2006-10-11 15:43:00 · 14 answers · asked by Jawan Kasfaritan 2 in Family

2006-10-11 15:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by Agnon L 5 in Singles & Dating

im in 8th grade n theres this really hot girl in my grade. i really like her but i never had any classes with her, i personally dont know her, she's heard of me before and thats it. my neighbor personally knows her and thinks shes really hot also. my neighbor asked her out b4 n she wanted nothing 2 do with him. i still get mad at my neighbor 4 liking her because i liked her first and i want to know of a really good way to get back at him just because he thinks he has a chance when hes as ugly as **** and im 100 times better than him.

2006-10-11 15:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

example: always being negative or insulting. Or they try to act like you have it so bad and their life is perfect.

2006-10-11 15:41:23 · 12 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My homecoming date hates me for no reason watsoever. All i did was be nice to her and my and her friends agree on that and have no idea why shes acting like that. I ve heard many theories bout it, she likes me but doesnt want to admit it, shes retarded, she wants attention, and a few others. apparently she has been saying some pretty mean things about me behind my back and i really dont like her doing that. The problem is is that shes is really hard to talk to and will prolly lie and bs at me if i do decide to ask her. I never really liked her and realize that it was a mistake to ask her to the dance in the first place so i dont really care, i juts want her to stop. I asked her because her friends begged me and she seemed like she wanted me too. I dont know how to act in this situation? any ideas? I find this out after the dance, and apparently she lied to me the whole time bout having fun, cuz what she says, it dosnt look like it at all. And seriously, i was really really nice to her.

2006-10-11 15:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-11 15:41:16 · 14 answers · asked by Tonia G 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy for a while now and he's pushing for sex. I know that he's never done it and I don't want to hurt him emotionally in any way, but he's already clingy and I'm afraid sex would make it worse. He's great and I have feelings for him, but I don't know if I could handle the way things might get. What should I do?

2006-10-11 15:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by pixie 4 in Singles & Dating

im trying to find an old friends email address. Im wondering if it is possible to locate an address online free of charge. is there any type of service that will provide this?

2006-10-11 15:40:04 · 1 answers · asked by sherry 1 in Friends

the spell check or proof read their question or answer on here before they submit it???

2006-10-11 15:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by rhonda3826 5 in Family

We were both very much in love, we lived together for 8 1/2 years and then it fell apart,
I have not thought about her nor ever dreamed about her,
however this last past monthsI been having this reacuring dream of her trying to reach out to me, and I feel that she is call for me to help her,
And I can stop feeling that some one is hurting her, whether it be her husband or some one else.
And I feel so sick and helpless after I wake up I try to go back and remember it more clearly however it dosen't work.
I feel so scared for her and I don't know what to do to help her.
these dreams have returned three times already yet they are never the same, and I never can see her face, or touch her hand so to pull her from this hurt,
And my heart is becoming heavey with fear.
can some one help me to understand these dreams.

2006-10-11 15:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by candyman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do they??!!!

2006-10-11 15:39:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating