We were both very much in love, we lived together for 8 1/2 years and then it fell apart,
I have not thought about her nor ever dreamed about her,
however this last past monthsI been having this reacuring dream of her trying to reach out to me, and I feel that she is call for me to help her,
And I can stop feeling that some one is hurting her, whether it be her husband or some one else.
And I feel so sick and helpless after I wake up I try to go back and remember it more clearly however it dosen't work.
I feel so scared for her and I don't know what to do to help her.
these dreams have returned three times already yet they are never the same, and I never can see her face, or touch her hand so to pull her from this hurt,
And my heart is becoming heavey with fear.
can some one help me to understand these dreams.
2006-10-11 15:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by candyman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I share the same plight as you. After many many years of separation with my ex, I have dream after dream of him. Sometimes to the point where I want to email him and ask him what the hell is going on with his life because he is really getting on my nerves! I never have though because I don't want him to know that im having these dreams. I don't have a real buddy buddy relationship with him. We only talk when we need to and mostly for business reasons only. So I honestly think its because when you are married to someone, they become such a part of you and you a part of them that when things are really bad for them you feel it! Its a natural phenomenon that two people share for the rest of their lives and I have two ex's to dream of! I'm sure glad I'm not the only one who has this happen to me! I would love to talk with you further on the matter if you want to share this with me. Please feel free to message me back if you would like to. I don't want to bother you unless you are willing to talk further. I'll leave it up to you.
2006-10-11 15:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask that Higher Power within you to give you answers overnight or soon as possible -- your thinking may be right on and you definitely need to follow out the best you can after a repeated dream like you are having. Since you can sense it to be her and sense the danger (it might also be, God forbid, that what is hurting her is some form of illness over which there can be no control - though since she seems to be reaching out to you I believe it is imperative for you to do all you can to attempt to contact her (on this earthly plane or on spiritual plane if that becomes totally impossible).
May things go well for both you and the lady in question.
2006-10-11 15:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by Charlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no dream expert but I was married to someone for over 20 years and haven't seen or heard from him in more than 10 years now Yet suddenly last period of weeks, he comes into my memories.
Some people believe that others can instill themelves in your dream in some way, even inadvertently. Like what if she hs suddenly started thinking about you and coincidentallly, you experience the same and so on.
You express fear. It sounds like these dreams are fearful in some way or may lead you to wonder what happened to her or realize that your own feelings are unresolved for her even after all these years.
is someone or something else in your life reminding you of something about her? Have you considered contacting her?
Dreams are part of our subconsious and don't always make exact sane sense. It could be a symbol for some other aspect of your life.
2006-10-11 15:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by julie l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, there is something unresolved going on. I don't normally recommend contacting "old flames" and you may not need to. Is there someone in your life or a situation present that reminds you of this woman? Are you currently behaving in a way that reminds you of that relationship? Sometimes old wounds resurface when we encounter a similar experience, so I'd look into that before you start trying to locate her or dredge up that past. The answer to this nagging dream won't be with her - It's in you.
2006-10-11 15:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knew a guy who dreamt a pair of city he had by no potential considered. He have been given off at a prepare provide up (in Europe) and wandered by using a village as though he had continuously lived there. He knew by potential of a few precognition. is this like the foreknowlege spoken of contained in the Buddhist writings? Does this recommend he as quickly as lived contained in the city? In another lifetime? we've many mysteries...your understanding is as good as mine. desires could be interpreted however the main suitable understanding of the symbols comes from the guy having the dream. what isn't understood right this moment, would develop into undeniable the following day.
2016-10-02 05:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try praying for her. Maybe God is trying to show you something. That she needs your prayers. If you still feel uneasy about it or keep having dreams about her being in trouble then try to contact her via phone or email. If you still have her information. You never know. Maybe it's a way for you two to be reunited. Life does wierd things like that. Hope you start feeling better or find your answers!!!!
2006-10-11 15:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were both very much in love, we lived together for 8 1/2 years and then it fell apart
that is ur problem if she's showing up in ur dreams then that means u must still love her!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-11 15:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by griffin_alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get in touch with this person now !! make sure every thing is ok - And if every thing is ok then you can sleep again and if not you need to help her
2006-10-11 15:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how to inturpret these dreams but if you have such a strong feeling that she may be in trouble then i would try to reach her, and see if she is ok. and if you are able to talk to her then let her know your concerns.
2006-10-11 15:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called dreaming ---- you miss this person(inwardly) - so now you dream they need your help and this makes you feel like seeking her out.
2006-10-11 15:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋