My homecoming date hates me for no reason watsoever. All i did was be nice to her and my and her friends agree on that and have no idea why shes acting like that. I ve heard many theories bout it, she likes me but doesnt want to admit it, shes retarded, she wants attention, and a few others. apparently she has been saying some pretty mean things about me behind my back and i really dont like her doing that. The problem is is that shes is really hard to talk to and will prolly lie and bs at me if i do decide to ask her. I never really liked her and realize that it was a mistake to ask her to the dance in the first place so i dont really care, i juts want her to stop. I asked her because her friends begged me and she seemed like she wanted me too. I dont know how to act in this situation? any ideas? I find this out after the dance, and apparently she lied to me the whole time bout having fun, cuz what she says, it dosnt look like it at all. And seriously, i was really really nice to her.
2006-10-11 15:41:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forget going out with her, she doesn't sound worth worrying about. Continue to be the nice, polite, etc, Kill her with kindness, but don't ever go out with her again that will get to her the most. Don't fall for her sucker bait act she's trying to put on. Don't say bad things about her ever to anyone. You could say, "Oh, she has a problem." Smile like you are in 7th heaven and have the world by a down hill drag!!!! You will get her goat! Best wishes! Don't get caught up in her sludge.
2006-10-11 15:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a situation where you can talk to her alone. Ask her the truth if you can. If you are really nice to her and all she does is treat you meanly and such, then tell her that there is a limit to being nice to someone who is rude and then tell her that you are going to forget about the whole thing about you being nice and her being rude and then just go on with your lives if that's what she wants. Anyway, is the theory about her being retarded is true, then just forget about the whole thing and ignore her.
2006-10-11 22:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some 'girls' are clueless...! If she doesn't have any other more positive energy, in order to get attention, just laugh at her...you know the deal!
2006-10-11 22:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what an idiot..probably all a joke on you..
2006-10-11 22:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by §†reet R¥dA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋