Self explanatory. Ladies give me some tips/dos/donts/etc. I can't wait.
2006-10-11 15:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feel the beat, bend your knees, and move your groin wherever her *** goes.
2006-10-11 15:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first make sure the girl wants to be grinded against. Most good girls consider you to be creepy if you try it out, especially if they don't know you very well. But if you two both want to grind, then it's cool. Grinding is weird because it's like sex you can just run up to and go up to any girl and do it. And if you do it to a lot of girls you come off as a rapist.
So the most important thing is just rhythm, get into the zone, don't feel embarrassed or silly, move your whole body, but just don't get creepy. Watch yourself in a mirror while listening to an ipod or some music. That's what can help you the most. And if you're a good dancer then MAYBE girls will feel comfortable grinding with you. Grinding is just dancing against a person, but maybe doing less hand things.
2006-10-11 16:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be nasty about it. or feel her up. keep it clean. you can still have fun. I wouldn't want some guy I don't even know touching me anywhere other than my waste or shoulder. Unless she is getting close to you and touching you everywhere. Why would you want to dance with a girl like that anyway? just get a feel for what she's doing and go with it. I hate when a guy imposes his style of dancing on me. Sometimes a guy will lean so much on a girl that she almost falls down. I hate that. If she wants to dance close up on you, trust me she will do it without your help. That is unless she's shy. If you want her to dance closer to you and she seems like she wants to but is shy then take a hold of her hand and pull her towards you if she is not as close as you'd like her to be. Another great way for closer contact is to put your arm around her back and keep your hand on her waste and rock back and forth with her. If you want her to grind just put your leg out. If a girl wants to grind then she will do it even if you don't put your leg out. My dancing days are over, but these are some tips that I hope help you out. But seriously, you can find better women outside the bar. and then just take them with you to the bar to dance. it's less complicated that way. trust me.
2006-10-11 15:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dance too too close. Leave a few inches between unless it's a date/girlfriend and you two are slow dancing. From my personal experience, Absolutely NO pelvic thrusts in a circular motion or front-to-back motions. If the lady is like me, she will walk away and leave you on the dance floor.
2006-10-11 15:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a tip...don't grind. I find this type of dancing so provacative; I know I'm definitaly in the minority here, but that's my opinion!
2006-10-11 15:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
advice from a dude: learn how to keep a beat... then let ur hands glide the girl all over... but u should tel by her body movements what she does and does not want you to touch...
o yea.. no boners... they can keep them no matter how tight ur undies are...
2006-10-11 15:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mike L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your hands on her waist...if you let it slip down to her crotch or up to her boobs that's not fun and it's likely she'll go and find someone else to dance with.
2006-10-11 15:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what - u dancing in a gay bar?
2006-10-11 15:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋