My bf i think is cheating on me it seems to be so, how can i tell. it appears that he is cheating w/ my bff so what should i do? please help i dont want to lose him! his bff said he might pop the question!
2006-10-11 15:46:51 · 19 answers · asked by Jade A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well dont get too excited if he pops the question if he is cheating! If you dont have your full trust in this boy then leave it at that. You seem to be young still. Just simply ask the both of them. Dont be scared. This has to do with your life!...dont be miserable for two other people! Get your stories straight and work on your relationship, because before any questions get popped Trust has to be there!
2006-10-11 15:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would he pop the question if he's cheating on you. If you suspect this, dont' say yes when he does pop the question. In my opinion...since my bf might "pop the question" anyday you are probably at the same relationship level as me. I would feel comfortable enough with my bf to ask him about it and I would ask my best friend. Honestly, if you can't talk to him about this, you aren't ready to marry him and if he's cheating on you now, what's to say he won't cheat on you once you are married. Seriously consider talking to him and your best friend. Sorry hun, but I think you may have a rough week ahead of you. Best wishes, hope all goes well for you.
p.s. if you just suspect that they were together alone one night, maybe she was helping him pick out an engagement ring? Just a thought!
2006-10-11 22:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. I am sure since your already have a relationship with him you know the signs of when he is lying. And if he is then you don't want him anyway. Once a cheat always a cheat and you deserve better than that. And as far as your best friend, she ain't much of a freind if she is doing your man, dump her too!!!!
2006-10-11 22:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by slanteyedkat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to set out traps for him, though not that obvious, just minor ones. And try to find visual clues on his face or behavior whenever he tries to find an excuse to go out with friends, etc. Try to tell if he's sincere or not. And if he really didn't cheat and he found out that you've been setting him up, then explain to him you've been having this doubts about your relationship. If he is openminded and you are really that close, you can pop the question yourself about you having doubts, etc. than go around the bush and spy on him.
2006-10-11 22:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are suspicious , maybe the problem is not with your bf, but with yourself, or maybe you should let it go, if he comes back it was meant to be, and think about all the other things in your life, are you ready for commitment, are you ready to build a family, remember, the most important thing in your life......YOU, if you know who you are and what you want then nothing else matters, ....and don't get me wrong, but you always come fisrt when decisions need to be made, unless there is a ring on your left hand 2nd finger, then that all changes, but untill then,,,,,,, you are always first.
good luck i hope for you for the best
2006-10-11 22:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by sjeffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he looks you in the eyes and feels a strong urge to like just stare and gaze at you then his probably not cheating on you.
2006-10-11 22:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sons father cheated on me i started to notice when you never came around or he was always to busy the best way i had to prove it to myself go out looking and see if he was in the place he said he was I've learned if you got a gut feeling its probable true good luck hope you find out the truth
2006-10-11 22:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by h2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. and work through the whole thing together. maybe he has a reason for cheating on you. you never know unless you talk it over
2006-10-11 22:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if he is cheating on why the hell would you want to marry him ............. and all you can do is talk to him and ask him if he is.. and see what he has to say and go from there you need to have trust girl in any relationship and if it is with your best friend well kick her ***............ i know i would..
2006-10-11 22:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, and ask her...and see what they say. If he is cheating on you, especially with your best friend...he's not worth keeping, and your friend is NOT your friend.
2006-10-11 22:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋