I've been with this guy for a while now and he's pushing for sex. I know that he's never done it and I don't want to hurt him emotionally in any way, but he's already clingy and I'm afraid sex would make it worse. He's great and I have feelings for him, but I don't know if I could handle the way things might get. What should I do?
2006-10-11 15:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by pixie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless he is religious, gay or has other emotional problems from his youth. I think that is very unusual. I think you should find out all you can about him before you make a move like that. And make sure he is not lying.
2006-10-11 15:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he waited till 26 he might should wait untill he is married or become a monk cause confusious say may who do tail pipe get hot rod.
2006-10-11 15:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a guy who is in his 50s and still a virgin and he worked in Hollywood for years with extremely actractive women VERY closely. Yet he refrained from it because he wanted to save himself for a very special girl on his wedding night.
2006-10-11 15:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you want him to go have someone else and then come to you and treat you like you don't matter. So have sex with him then tell him how bad he was at it compared to all your past lovers . That should take care of any clingyness he would have had.
Maybe he thinks he has saved himself for someone really "special" poor guy.
2006-10-11 15:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess all comes down to the emotional feelings that you have for him and vice versa. If your relationship can handle this, than go for it.
2006-10-11 15:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by JO K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to wait to have sex when you're married...even if it isn't HIM when you get married! lol If he's waited til he's 26 to have sex, he can wait a little longer! It won't kill him (does he have hairy palms?! LOL)
2006-10-11 15:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 26, and still a virgin?
Sounds like he has some serious psychological and emotional problems.
2006-10-11 15:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
have u not heard of the 40 year old virgin?
2006-10-11 15:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
push him into bed and start f****n him like crazy
2006-10-11 15:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by dragonboy02nh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know hez still a virgin?
2006-10-11 15:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by sup_res 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋