I went on a date this weekend with a guy. He sent all the signals he liked me. He kept wanting to extend the date, he kept asking questions about my ex-boyfriend like he was jealous, he told me how cute and beautiful I am, he said we should get together again next weekend, he kissed me, etc. So why hasn't he called me? It's been three days. And he ignored my myspace friend request! What is the problem? Does he not like me or did he change his mind or is he messing with my mind? P.S. He is just getting out of a 6 year marriage, could this have something to do with it?
2006-10-11 16:18:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he is into you but if this is the first date, he probably is taking it really really slow. if he just seperated with his wife of 6 years, he is definitely being more cautious this time around. i wouldn't worry too much as to why it's been 3 days since you've heard from him. i would give him a good solid week and if nothing, contact him. he's probably trying to focus on getting on with his life and getting back into his own swing of things. 6 years with someone is quite a long time. imagine, what would you do after 6 years and then all of a sudden on your own? i would find out more about this guy before getting too caught up---because the last thing you want to have happen is have your feelings hurt. think about yourself during this and what you want from the relationship. it wont be easy but if he is into you...you'll know.
2006-10-12 13:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be very direct if women would let them be... so I'd say you just try to get the exact story. Call him or write him an e-mail and just say, "I thought we had a good time, I just want to know why you are not calling. I am not upset, but I just want an honest answer" and see what he says to that. Men don't generally play head games, but women just can't take the truth sometimes or they don't want to hear it. If you invite it upon yourself, he might just tell you the plain truth. Then at least you will stop the questioning thing that is so anxiety producing.
2006-10-11 17:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he proubly went back to his wife...or he was just being nice till the date ended, guys are pigs like that...
2006-10-11 16:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋