Girls always over-analyze, according to my male friends. So what does it usually mean? You lost interest? Busy with work/college? What's up?
And why do you call her again after a couple weeks?
2006-10-11 16:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean circumstances where you are NOT in a relationship..only in dating terms.
Not relationships.
2006-10-11 16:08:38 · update #1
Lack of consideration.
Lack of respect.
Lack of interest.
Lack of understanding.
Lack of self-confidence to express their true feelings.
Take your pick.
None of them are good.
2006-10-11 16:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ignoramus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If not in any relatiionship and I don't call, it is either because I am not really that interested in something serious with you or it is because I am busy. Time really flies if I am busy, and I lose track of time and how long it has been since I last called each friend.
However, if I am really interested in possibly getting more serious with you (or at least open to the thought), then you are on my mind constantly and I would call you every few days if not every day.
Bottom line: if I have gone out on a date with you and I haven't called even once within the past week, then I am not interested in getting serious with you. If I do still call you occaisionally (like once every few weeks), it is only because I couldn't find someone else to go out with that night, or someone cancelled on me, or I suddenly became free and you were in my book.
2006-10-11 23:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things. It could be that he has some other priorities and when those priorities are gone, then calling the girl becomes on top of the list. Or it could be that he really has some important things to do and he thought the calling the girl could wait. Or he could really be someone who forgot about calling the girl and then remembered a few weeks later.
2006-10-11 23:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of us have very busy lives (I have a very busy life around early november so I probably wont be calling my gf very much during that time but I will when I can)
if you are 100% sure that he is not busy then he is probably just wanting a little time apart which sometimes happens (when this happens we dont want to end the relationship we just want to be alone for a little while.....this only applys if they call back in a few days/weeks)
2006-10-11 23:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'd call in like a week, if we're busy and to tell you that (atleast most of us good guys would)
but otherwise
if we dont want to see you, then we wont call....
give it like 20-25 days, and i think that's a bit much evan
you have to look for signals at the date/first meet or whatever it is
if he's saying i will call you (literally, or with his eyes) then he most likely will
but then again, if he says jus "this was fun, i'll call you and maybe we can do it agian sometime" then that's a no
if they ever say maybe, then it's almost definatly a no
jus forget about them
and we normally dont call in a few weeks, unless we had to do something really big and we didnt have time to call her until that time so then it'd be ok
2006-10-11 23:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have spoken to many men about this, and the answers are usually the same:
1. he lost interest
2. he is vascillating between another woman and you and wants to feel the other situation out also.
3. they call to do a 'temperature check'-either to keep you on the backburner or just to see where your thoughts and emotions are at the moment they placed the call.
either way, it is not good for us. you need to state your position and do not give away your power and consent to be treated that way. if you want this man, tell him his communication patterns are not acceptable and you need more of a connection.
2006-10-11 23:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im a gurl but i wanna answer this.i think he lost intrest or had someone else that he liked.he called you because maybe he relized your the one for him or he just wants some booty honestly i think you shouldnt talk to him .think about it if you really like someone no matter how busy you are you always make time for them .a couple of weeks is a long time to not contact someone that you have feelings for .find someone better that needs you more then he wants you .you deserve it
2006-10-11 23:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I not call her? I misplaced her number...
Why do I call her again after a couple of weeks? I found where I put it.
2006-10-11 23:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can mean a zillion things, not just one. He may have someone else. He may not be that interested in you and just want to make a "call". He may be waiting for you to call him.
2006-10-11 23:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the girl you will call her daily. That is the bottom line.I cant say anything else to make it seem better
2006-10-11 23:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋