Ok, so this is what's happening: Today everyone came up to me telling me my friend Michael was gonna ask me out. I like him, but I dont think I like him like that. He held my hand today and made me walk him to his bus and we hugged then I was about to leave until my friend Monica came up and was like "aww" and she was like "So are you going to ask her out?" and he was like "maybe" and smiled at me. I was like ok. and he was like "she's hot I'll ask her out 2morrow. So, yeah i don't know what to do. I like him but i just don't think i should go out with him. We have jus been friends for like 2 months. I got a call from one of his friends and he told me he was gonna ask me out and i jus said i know. what should i say?? I don't wanna say no, but i don't wanna say yes and then later break up with him cuz then it would akward, oh and did i mention this guy Jeremy is gonna ask me out too!!! Ima say no to Jeremy. I think. WHAT do i say to Michael, and what do i say to Jeremy? Jeremys sexy.
2006-10-11 16:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by . 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahh high school..I miss the days when boys asked you out but didn't go anywhere...Ok for real here's my Advice...take notes "little grasshopper"...For starters Don't hold a boy's hand if you don't feel that way about him...It leads him on...One day you are going to have a lot of decisions like this...boys are going to be hitting on you left and right and half of them you aren't going to want to touch with a 10 ft pole...Telling someone that they aren't right for you is an art form and something you really need to master for adulthood...Hold on let me get on my soap box...Here I go..."Listen (insert name) you and I have a special connection I can feel it in my bones....I'm just not sure if I'm ready to bring it to the next level...You are such a good friend and I would hate to ruin what we have right now...I've known that you were interested in asking me out for a while now and I've contemplated saying yes...but I have decided that you are too important of a person to me to let you go if we should ever break up." Just say that and your troubles will be no more!! Good luck doll.
2006-10-11 16:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like Michael, give him a chance. Maybe he would be a better boyfriend than you think. If you don't think it would work between you two, then do not start going out with Michael. It sounds like you should tell Jeremy "no" because you said you thought you would say "no" to him. This is all stuff you'll just have to consider. Good luck!
2006-10-11 23:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Michael, Jeremy asked first...
Actually, be honest with Michael... Tell him straight up, that if you go out with him, it is ONLY as a friend... That's all. end of story... That way, if you decide to change your mind... You can say, "Well, remember I told you that it was just friends... Well, I like you a lot more than I thought I would and I want to move to the next level."
If it is just like you say, You honored him by telling him up front that it was just a friendship thing.
Tell Jeremy that you're going to go out on a friend date with Michael on Friday and on a date with him on Saturday night.
2006-10-11 23:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You defintely shouldn't go out with Michael if you don't like him. I know you're probably worried about hurting his feelings, but trust me you'll only hurt him more in the long run if you lead him on and go out with him. So Just let him know how you feel, or don't let him know how you feel but say no. As to Jeremy, to me it doesn't seem like you're ready for a relationship. I know it probably seems like the thing to do, but its really just better to stay single and have fun. Life is too short to make things complicated. Good Luck.
2006-10-11 23:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Julie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you and Michael are good friends you should just tell him that yall should just keep it the way it is and you care about him too much to risk having hm as a close friend. and about the boy Jeremy say yes since you said he is sexy.
2006-10-11 23:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by KEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound hot. I was wondering if you wanted to go out with me?
Just kidding :). So you need to do what you feel is right. If he is going to ask you out then things are gonig to be weird with you anyways. You need to tell him how your honestly feel. Talk to him. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him openly then you are definately not ready for a relationship with him. Who is Jeremy anyways?
2006-10-11 23:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont screw up ur relation ship with michael, so say yes to jeremy, just tell michael u want to be freinds
2006-10-11 23:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by A S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should make a game of it! Why not, right? Play hard to get and see which one tries harder. In turn, you'll get to know each of the guys better, and decide which one is better for you. Remember though, it's not who's better looking - as long as they're not hideous (it's ok to be a little shallow :D ) - it's who's going to treat you better. Good luck!
2006-10-11 23:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ben 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a grip. Don't say yes to anyone unless you truly want to go out with them.
2006-10-11 23:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you led this michael on by holding his hand, so i would just give it a shot at a relationship,
2006-10-11 23:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋