Bully on my back...because I am "smart" I need advice, and I don't want to go to staff. They (1 person) is starting to get VERY embarassing...I don't care about the people in my class but my teachers! Can't ignore, been doin that for a while
I know I already asked this question but I want to put it in a generalized section so I get some answers.
2006-10-11 16:11:10 · 12 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is for you sunshine...well she she thinks I am smart well I am. (so?) well I got all these awards last year you know teacher's pet and stuff. Well this year she has sorta made it her goal to bully me and when someone told her to stop this is what she said: She is so smart...its not fair that f'in b""ch well ya...and she says embarassing thigs around teachers! not helpful if I want to be a teacher's pet again
2006-10-11 16:18:40 · update #1
Dear T Flip
Thanks but I am a good girl...and that is going against the law!
Thank You Very Much For Your Advice (Not Helpful)
Sam
2006-10-11 16:27:16 · update #2
Tell her she'll never be as smart as you, and quit acting like a kindergartner because noone thinks it's cool. They only react because she looks retarded. Just remember the key too winning arguements is knowing your stuff. Bring up something related to the situation, (maybe something legal), and make the comment "Oh, what, you didn't know that? And you wanna act like your some ****, can you even tie your shoes ?" Do it in front of people, and before you do this enroll in martial arts classes, gotta learn to defend yourself.
2006-10-11 16:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being picked on or bullied by a teacher you need to talk to someone about it that is in staff. It is not fair. You are there for an education not to be bullied.
Now saying that I have some other advice. Look at the big picture and ask yourself some questions. Is he/she doing anything that is going to hurt you or get in the way of your educational goals? Or are they just being a pain in the a**? If they are just being a pain that that is a lesson in its self. All through your life you will find difficult people and at some point you will have to learn to deal with them on your own. For example one day you are going to have a boss that you don't really like or get a long with. The will never be totally out of line, but will be demanding and a royal pain and you will not want to deal with it. So, what do you do at that point? Do you quit you job and find a new boss that might be even worse, or do you learn to play with them until you move up yourself and become their bosses... just give it some thought, only you know the right answer for the current situation..... Good Luck!
2006-10-11 23:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the bully you know the reason he/she is bullying you is because he/she feels insecure about himself/herself. Tell the bully that he needs to see a therapist so that the thearpist might give them some lessons on how to build his self esteem and when he is finished with therapy to give you a call and ya'll can go out and have coffee...The worst thing you can do is let this person know that what they are doing is bothering you. Act like you feel sorry for them. Give them a number to a doctor/therapist. Belittle this person. Turn the tables on them. Be strong and don't back down. Be prepared with at least some Mace if he acts like he is going to make a move towards hitting you though, since you said you can't fight. Good luck.
2006-10-11 23:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for tit for tat method(for that bully) and do the things(no the tit for tat) whatever u were doing before like u were really smart and if possible catch her bullyin u infront of a teacher and then u will see and have good fun!!!!! Now seriously don't care about what she tells or any ****!!!! You know what u r and thats quite ok for u and u don't need to be doin an crazy **** and get urself embarrased
2006-10-12 00:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Enrique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer 2 places up is crap.
I have been ignoring a bully for 3 years, and he is still bothering me. My advice, would be to you, to start actually going to the vice principal or counceller. I didn't want do do that because I thought they couldn't help.
Trust me, they can
2006-10-11 23:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by needhelp_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason that person is bullyiing you is because they are insecure. It's common...you are going to run into a lot of people like this in your life...you need to find a way that will resolve the conflict in a positive way. what I do is kill them with kindness...when you show emotion they feed off that and the situation will get worse..Dont' ever let them see you cry...never show that they are getting to you. I hope that helps.
2006-10-11 23:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her in a situation outside of school, then when she isn't expecting it, punch her as hard as you can in the nose she will go straight down she won't bother you after that
2006-10-11 23:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by T Flip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore whoevery is bullying you.
His person who bullies you want your attention and response. If you keep yourself in an indifferent manner, he will soon lose the interest in bullying you.
2006-10-11 23:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Audrey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more friends and ignore them they will ask u help one day
2006-10-11 23:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are smart, perhaps you could write more so your situation is something we understand. Your post doesn't make any sense.
2006-10-11 23:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋