This guy I worked with asked me out and got my number. He didn't call for a week, but came into work and he made me lunch and dinner and took me on an ambulance ride (he's an EMT). After that, he told me he would call me sometime. A week passed and no call. I was told if a guy didn't call you within that length of time that he wasn't interested. My friend told me the making me food and ambulance ride was a date, so I assumed that date didn't work out for him.
My friend set me up with this guy she worked with. We dated quite a bit and decided to be a couple. After about 3 weeks to a month, the EMT called me for a lunch date. He said he would call me this week. He called me today. I told him last week I had a boyfriend, but I think he thought I was making it up since he didn't call. I told him again today. He said maybe some other time. Then before he hung up, I asked him why he didn't call. He said he didn't have any money. He said he was sorry for not calling.
2006-10-11 16:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anyway, has a similar situation happened to you? I can't help but feel sorry for him.
2006-10-11 16:26:17 · update #1
I told him we could be friends last week. He's a really nice guy. I don't think his intentions were bad, he just screwed up. I love my boyfriend. I think we are better suited, but I hate knowing I may never talk to this guy again.
2006-10-11 16:34:36 · update #2
I seriously doubt I made a mistake. Yes, it turned out he's not a player, but I'm with a really great guy now who loves me.
2006-10-11 17:18:06 · update #3
yes it has happend to me almost the same exact thing i told the guy we could be friends but that was it and after awhile he did except it and he did go out with me for fun and he did meet my boyfriend and now we are good friends
2006-10-11 16:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by alyshiapeanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake. Guys in general need a couple of weeks, and if things aren't going great for them, even longer. Sounds like you were just so desperate for "someone" that you ran to the next one - and may have missed a wonderful guy in the process. Remember, a real woman can spend time alone without a guy on her arm all the time -- that's part of being mature, then you don't miss out on the good stuff when it's dropped in your lap....
2006-10-11 23:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's either married, has a girlfriend, or he's on the downlow!
2006-10-11 23:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by sw1thugangel73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋