nothing but liars and cheats? Why cant the liars be together and the one's who have real honesty and love be together. I can't be the only lonely person out there thinking that on this beautiful wed. Night!
2006-10-11 16:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by lovlisuzy51880 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it often happens that you've got a mean person that takes advantage of a nice person. And I guess it happens because the nice people put up with too much and the mean people are good at choosing people to "use". But, if you can catch a nice guy that just escaped from a relationship with a lying woman, he'll truly appreciate you.
2006-10-11 16:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by L T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right. Too bad we do not live in a perfect world. I have wondered the same thing for many years, and have come to the sad conclusion that we are in the minority.
But as to the main question, why does an honest and loving person only meet the liars and cheats? Not only are we in the minority, but perhaps also we are too quick to get into each new relationship. If there are more liars and cheats than there are honest and loving people, then doesn't it follow that we will have to sort through many more candidates to find an honest and loving person? Be true to yourself and don't settle for less.
2006-10-11 23:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Match.com. Enter my username "roadster959". You can read about me. I consider myself a decent person. I come across the same kind of people you do. The trick is to get away from them. Give very few second chances. I get to where I would rather be alone than put up with crap. Just keep trying to
find new friends. Join a club. Match.com or Yahoo Personals has lots of people to meet. Just keep trying. Take care.
2006-10-11 23:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by rasckal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother is single, can I hook you two up! JK He is honest and loving and way too darn picky because he has such high standards. So, there are good guys out there. I wish I knew you, I would so introduce you to a nice guy!!! (that being again, my brother!) So, to answer your question, no you aren't the the only lonely one and I i'm honest and loving and I have found that good guy. Go to a church, there are often good guys there just waiting for a nice female! Do want to come to church with me, I know a really nice guy that goes there...:)
2006-10-11 23:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different places to go and meet people. Not all men are liars and cheats.
2006-10-11 23:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by afsm666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hang around a different crowd if your meeting all liars and cheats.
2006-10-11 23:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are not alone. I think it is because liars don't trust anyone, so another liar can't get away with their crap, but liars can with honest people.
2006-10-11 23:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by emt42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well because 99% of guys are liars and cheaters, thank god im the 1% who isnt " i know you've heard this a thousand times", but yes its in the male blood stream, and no female can get it out...sorry
2006-10-11 23:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are pigs. because you didn't meet the right one.
i know what you are talking about!!! the last guy i liked proved to be honest and a gentleman but the way he treated me was like he was a coward. i was AGAIN shocked to be misleaded and here i was thinking he was different.
basically, if guys think they can't get what they want from you, be it sex or beauty or whatever, they will be pigs!!!
2006-10-11 23:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men encounter this problem also. Most of my girlfriends were sweet as pie when I was getting to know them, and then suddenly they became she devils. Cheating, lying, screaming, not appreciating etc... You're not alone.
2006-10-11 23:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋