Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

2006-10-11 17:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has me worried. She constantly lets people walk all over her, she doesn't stand up for herself, and she has two sons that she is Completely responsible for during the day, then dad comes home and undermines everything she does. If she says its bedtime, dad lets them stay up. If she says no, dad says yes. She says she has asked him to work with her and not against her, and he refuses. I have tried to tell her that she needs to stand up for herself, if not for her sake, for her children, because they can't continue to be raised like that. The result is that they have NO respect for her when they are alone with her and she has given up trying to make them mind. When I asked her why she doesn't stand up for herself, she says its cause its easier not to. She now says she feels worthless and unfit for anyone to love her or treat her right, and once before she began talking about ending her life. What do I do? She stopped talking like that, but she still has no self esteam.

2006-10-11 17:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by Timberwolf 3 in Family

Ok well Ive been dating this guy for about 2 months now and I really like him alot. I met him at my cousins house. Him and my cousin are really good friends and everytihng. He gets on my nerves sometimes because he acts like a 2 year old and purposfully tries to annoy me. He calls me about 10 times a day just to tell me he loves me. I tried to break up with him like a million times and everytime I do he either starts crying and I feel sorry for him and take him back or my cousin gets pissed and threatens to whoop my ***. (he's a big dude) I like him and everything but I cant breathe hes so far up my ***!!! What should I do?

2006-10-11 17:19:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and my girlfriend is 11 and I am about 5'0 and she is about 4'10 or 4'11 and am scared she might pass me up later should I take this into consideration?

2006-10-11 17:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 17:18:22 · 13 answers · asked by answers a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would appreciate help.....that doesn't cost the earth.

2006-10-11 17:17:57 · 2 answers · asked by ellie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So it doesn't matter either way i'll just be neutral.

2006-10-11 17:17:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 17:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 17:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by ethan_tonya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 17:16:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has asked me to marry him for 2 years now. I just got a divorce last week. It was long and nasty. If I don't say I want to get married today....he gets mad. He cusses and yells. He says sorry later and that he is just frustrated that i won't do what we have been planning....to get married. It is either yes or no. He won't take "wait" for an answer....I haven't been available but a week.....but we have loved each other for 3 years. Long story.
Bottom line, if a man says he has said nasty things to me out of anger....and that he really loves me.....and he has proved it by sticking by me for 3 years.....do I believe him? Will he get angry and have a temper with me in later years? We left our marriages and fell in love. We waited for my spouse to finally sign and give me fifty fifty custody....he didn't. In fact, he got a job transfer to a place a thousand miles away....and that complicated our relationship even more. He has toughed all this out. But why cuss at me?

2006-10-11 17:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by greeneyes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this has nothing to do with love i dunno she is weird....well it all started when i msged her once on aim....i was at a pc cafe which at the time i was with my friend....he saw her sn msged her sayin stupid **** blah blah blah...anyways she told me not to give out her sn i told her im sorry than the next day my friend got her number from my cell and texted her lol pretendin to be me sayin i love u i told her was my dumb friend and she kept textni me sayin its my fault i said sorry like 5000 times than i said stop being immature and keep textin me the asme crap over and over and than she stop texting me.... than i saw her and i said hi she ignored me... im signed on 3-4 sns on aim at once i see she blocked me on my main one i msged her on my other sn sayin why are u ignoring me?? and she just blocked me again and again... lol wtf did i do?? she won't even talk to me...

2006-10-11 17:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by hellracer88 1 in Friends

he ask me out about 2 weeks ago and he keeps on asking me whats my answer and rigth now i just seen hugging my sis what wrong with him i ithink im just saying nooooo!!! what should i doo i dont want to ask him what was that all about??

2006-10-11 17:14:24 · 13 answers · asked by la fAcilOta ahaha♥ 3 in Friends

Is it wrong to pretend to be a stranger online and seduce them to have cybersex to test if they are faithful to you or not?

2006-10-11 17:13:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy friend who I have known for about 4 years has been acting like he want to take our friendship to the next level lately, here are some of the things he does.

1. From behind he hugs me and puts his hands on my waist while kissing/biting my ear.

2. When we are sitting on the sofa together he grabs my arm and pulls me closer to him and puts his head on mine and tells me my hair smells nice and then starts to run his hand up and down my arm and lace our fingers together.

3. I am alot shorter than him (he is 6'4" and I am 5'5") so when we hug we have our arms around eachothers waists and he rests his chin on my head.

know they are little things be he just starting doing them lately and I love it!! and I would gladly take our friendship to the next level.

What do you think

2006-10-11 17:13:09 · 19 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

especially that you can't give him enough sex, but don't want divorce.

2006-10-11 17:12:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After 14 years of marriage and seperated for one year now, because of two one night stands in a three year period which was out of anger and resentment, I confessed and repented. she went ahead and found someone else within two months,Said he was just a friend, but moved him in!For ten months I was away working and sending home plent of $$ plus paying all the bills. Now that I'm back in town she, or my brainwashed twelve year old son won't have any thing to do with me. My son has even stated to me " I don't think I'll ever Have a relationship with you!" They don't answer letters,calls or text messages. It is as if I'm a total stranger and All I want to do is let them know I was wrong and want to make things right even if we cannot stay married. I have not filed for a divorce and niether has she. Whats up with that?

2006-10-11 17:12:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you found out that not too long after you and them split up, they turned gay? This did happen to me a few years back, and for some reason it still bothers me; though I do not know why. And yes I am prepared for the abusive jokes, so bring them on. Ha!

2006-10-11 17:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very good male friend, like we can talk about anything. I want to hang out with him, but if my bf knows that I have a very good single guy friend, he will be jealous and paranoid.

Should I tell my bf or not? Is it ok that I just go hang out with him until my bf finds out and then explain to him?

2006-10-11 17:10:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

arab girl while over there, these girlfreinds were faithfull, women what do you think of that?

2006-10-11 17:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by boxer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 17:10:06 · 20 answers · asked by Kelly♥'sJames 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this "entertainer" in Orlando in July. We both are 22. I spent about 6000 on her during this 1 month. I came back to my college in PA. I promised her I would visit her soon and often. Since August 1st, we have consistently talked over the phone. She asked for money a couple of times and I sent her about 1000 more through western union. I went to see her again for 2 days on my birthday in September 3rd week. I gave her a 1000 more for a day just coz I loved her. We would talk on the phone and she would be all "baby, I love you" etc. This weekend, on Oct. 7th 06, she asks me to give her 500 to pay her rent or she will be kicked out. I got it from my bro and gave her and told her since its my brothers', to pay it back. She now has not called me since sunday, Oct. 8th or picked up my calls. Last night, I called her 12 times in 12 hours, once every hour just to get a hold of her. Tonite I plan on calling her once every 30 minutes.
AM I HARASSING HER?
wHAT SHOULD I IN THIS SITUATION?
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2006-10-11 17:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes trippin yo' she cant go more than a day without washing her hair. It use to be a week, but now its getting out of hand..i just dont know what to do abotu her!!!

2006-10-11 17:08:56 · 12 answers · asked by Kickassio 2 in Friends

the stronger she gets the more he brings her down.

2006-10-11 17:08:41 · 7 answers · asked by non-curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known many girls who had boyfriends in high school, and have boyfriends now in college. They all have gone through several relationships, but I have yet to get a single boyfriend, or get a guy to like me. I have had crushes too, but how come I never come across a right guy? Why do some people have relationships so early, while others wait around for years?

2006-10-11 17:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is a lovley guy BUT........... The world owes him.
And he can do anything better than the pro .
Eg: had a horse getting hes feet trimed , later he says "he didnt do much for his $30 i could do that"
Eg#2: We had a car spray painted buy a pro , and he piped up he could do better , he spayed a car it turned out crap but in his mind its still great.

And it goes on , you would not beleive the things he can do !

2006-10-11 17:07:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hi, well I really like this girl right now and I can tell she really likes me too. we were friends for a long time. we don't talk that much to eachother right now and I don't know what do. umm we are both in highschool, I am 1 year older than her. we arent goin out or anything right now. i want to get with her but i dont know how. what should i do?

2006-10-11 17:07:36 · 13 answers · asked by N/a 2 in Singles & Dating

MY BEST FRIEND IZ TALKING **** ABOUT ME SHE TELL EVERY ONE IM WIPED BI MY EX BF NOW THAT MY EX AND I ARE HANNING OUT MORE AND MORE
SHE DONT TALK 2 ME WHEN I SAY HI TO HER....SO TODAY AT LUNCH SHE TOLD ME A ROMER SAY THAT THIZZ GURL IS SAYING ALL THIS **** ABOUT ME SO I WENT UP TO THAT GURL ND I ASKED HER DID SHE .. THAT GURL I ASKED SAID NO AND MY (FRIEND_ LIED TO ME

2006-10-11 17:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by AMANDA_BEEZY 1 in Friends

There is this man I like. we normally talk on the phone and e-mail etc...when we do talk I try to flirt with him but he doesnt do it back its as if he doesn't like it or he doesnt realize I'm flirting.but lately he has not been calling me or emailing me I call and he doesnt answer I leave messages but nothing. I spoke to him the other night and he rushed me off the phone cause he had date WHAT THE HELL!! Ive known this guy for over 10 yrs we were high school sweet hearts I dont know what to do should I just forget about a possiable relationship help me I need advise.

2006-10-11 17:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

She says she really wants to go out sometime but everytime i ask her shes already doing something, we have had a week off of school and i asked her like every day if she wanted to do something today or the next day and she said "i cant because ______ but we are gonna definately do something this week"...if she really wanted to do something with me wouldn't she make time?

(we are both teens)

2006-10-11 17:05:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating