I have known many girls who had boyfriends in high school, and have boyfriends now in college. They all have gone through several relationships, but I have yet to get a single boyfriend, or get a guy to like me. I have had crushes too, but how come I never come across a right guy? Why do some people have relationships so early, while others wait around for years?
2006-10-11 17:08:34 · 11 answers · asked by CreativeGEEK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's possible that you are the type of person who would just prefer to wait until the "right" time until you started dating and stuff. For me, I didn't date ANYONE in High School, and I didn't date any one in college. I was single until I turned 22. There's nothing wrong with it.
Are you kind of a quiet, reserved person? Quiet, reserved people have a naturally harder time letting people of the opposite gender know how you feel about them.
I was one of those quiet, reserved types. It took begging for me to actually get out of my shell to travel about 40 miles to meet her in another town, and now we're engaged. :p
You'll either need to find a way to break out of that shell and to throw yourself out there for the opposite gender, or you'll just have to get begged by an interested guy (doesn't happen often). Good luck. :)
2006-10-11 17:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by "Speedy" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very good thing that you haven't had a relationship...I actually envy you...Well you might intimidate them...try smiling...also be friendly..not slutty..friendly..strike up a conversation with someone...an intelligent conversation...that usually scares off the losers...and also think of it this way you haven't had your heart broken...that's why I envy you...Don't be so hard on yourself...if you wait patently the right man will come to you...If you look too hard you will only dissolution yourself...Just smile...men pick up on unhappy people..it makes you unapproachable when you don't smile...Don't go around wearing the sleazy mini skirts..that just attracts the wrong attention..girl, you are too good for that mess I can tell...Don't worry hon...you are young you will find the right man in due time...In the mean time find yourself..develop some hobbies...Remember: If you don't love yourself you can't love anyone else!!!
2006-10-12 00:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some people just naturally attract more people than others, but then again their standards don't always seem to be that high either. Anyway, maybe you don't hang around with the right crowd. Try meeting new people, or an on line dating thing like Yahoo personals. Don't be worried. He'll come along soon enough.
2006-10-12 00:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by WEIRDRELATIVES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right answer to that but here are a few thoughts. some women are hard to approach not because they are that way on perpose but because they forget to make them selves approachable it is not really your fault or anything alot of the time it is guys being scared to come up to u and ask for a date. it amazes me if u go to a club or bar ( college) how many ppl are with someone dispite there looks weather pretty or ugly slim or fat. and then there is ofcourse those that set there standards way to hi. i know this gal that while not ugly is more um homely and alittle masculine for a woman i mean she all the right parts in the right spots but her issue is she wants a male super model cowboy ( not to many of those ) but because of her issues on that she has never had a real relationship or even anything over a one night stand and she did not want it that way
2006-10-12 00:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by JOHNATHAN A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the ones that have had tons of relationships seem happy at the end of each one? No, they dont, and none of their relationships have been THAT serious. Just wait, the right person will come along. I know that isnt much consolation but really. Just get yourself out their and things will unfold in their own way. Be confident, dont stress, and have fun.
2006-10-12 00:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a personal choice really. Maybe your just keeping your priorities straight. The right guy will come in the right time. others have relationships earlier but still separate because they're not right for each other.
When i met my husband, i knew he was the one..but still we had other relationships with different persons before we got together.
Love is magical. It will come the least you expect it.
2006-10-12 00:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by mrs.c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's okay to not have a boyfriend yet. Maybe your instincts are just telling you to wait for the perfect guy and then get together.
Don't worry, you'll eventually find the guy for you. It could depend on the person if they wanna have a boyfriend or not. Maybe some parents encourage their kids to have boyfriends, or maybe others discourage it.
Have fun. =)
2006-10-12 00:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by cosmopolitan_nyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have a bf and im 15.. some of my classmates have but thats just because they are sluuuts, etc and they had to have a bf urgently.. but i rather wait for the best guy! and keep going out with all my friends! and have fun than just being with one all the time.. right now is time to PARTY!! :D
2006-10-12 00:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people don't take relationships seriously and then on the other hand you have those that take their time and get to know someone before the start anything serious with that person
2006-10-12 00:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it is hard to meet a guy..if you r busy with other things ands sometimes if we look to hard.... if it is met for you find him god will send him some way .if not right now then god has other things for you to do .. i bet your a very giving person. do not worry mr. right is around the corner,
2006-10-12 00:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋