2006-10-11 17:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by ethan_tonya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think they must feel like it is flirting........getting attention, but not touching. Like when guys go to strip clubs........I would be very upset & I would ask him how he would feel if you were doing the same. I feel it is just another temptation & playing with fire.
2006-10-11 17:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to be a common problem these days. The internet makes it easy for them. I think for the most part they're just getting a thrill. You can turn the other cheek and hope they stop but it's not likely. You should discuss it with him. It will be hard to regain your trust in him again.
2006-10-12 00:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. Tell him it is time to stop. If he doesn't then get counseling and if he continues this hcildish behaviour then you need to think about moving on.
or you can learn to deal with it as long as he doesn't actually meet time.
Make him watch the program on TV.....to catch a perditor. And ask him if he wants to be caught doing that?
Move on hon, if he can get control of this addiction. He needs to get his self worth f rom within, not from strangers
2006-10-12 00:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an account (whatever he is using) and disguise yourself as someone else... See what he says to these girls and and how far he actually goes. Then decide how you're going to handle it. Whatever happens thou you know that he is a cheater, because the Internet is where it usually starts... Sorry... I know it hurts! :(
2006-10-12 00:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two choices:
Get him help at a counselor
or throw out the computer
Divorce him
or let him meet girls
Do the same thing he is
or sit by him while on the computer
In reality, he is cheating on you. That's your .
decision
2006-10-12 00:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know and make him see that this is not right. You could always do the same back to him and then blatently let him see. Then see how much he likes it when you get online to meet guys.
2006-10-12 00:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what dating site he is using then pretend you are someone else, chat with him and see if he tries to meet you then if he does file for divorce.
2006-10-12 00:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he meeting in real life? Dump him. Online is different but still cheating unless you meet guys online.
2006-10-12 00:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not part of marriage vows.....make him stop or tell him you will STOP!!! He should never have done it in the first place. Careful, if he is doing this he m ay do more sooner or later.
2006-10-12 00:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe be its because you aren't doing it for him. Look at your relationship, then decide. A marriage is a "2" way relationship.'
2006-10-12 01:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋