Ok well Ive been dating this guy for about 2 months now and I really like him alot. I met him at my cousins house. Him and my cousin are really good friends and everytihng. He gets on my nerves sometimes because he acts like a 2 year old and purposfully tries to annoy me. He calls me about 10 times a day just to tell me he loves me. I tried to break up with him like a million times and everytime I do he either starts crying and I feel sorry for him and take him back or my cousin gets pissed and threatens to whoop my ***. (he's a big dude) I like him and everything but I cant breathe hes so far up my ***!!! What should I do?
2006-10-11 17:19:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh tell him that he gets on ur nerves...
2006-10-11 17:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by cajun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds like this guy has a lot of growing up to do.You need to have a serious talk with your cousin.If he wants to stick his nose in your Love life...use him.First,you MUST make your cousin your good Buddie.Tell him how this friend of his is taking the very-breath out of your face..tell him everything.If you pull this off right,I'm 100% sure he can either fix it...or tell the guy how he's doing you wrong.Please trust me.I know...without a dought,that this will work for you.The ball is in your court now.Use it.
2006-10-12 00:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. Repeat to yourself 10 times and no less. I don't love him. 10 times will do. Thereafter take a deep breath a few times. Call his number and tell him -- gently this is the last call. Hope it helPS.
ps. I never met someone who claims love while bitching about "the other party" -- it is practically impossible --unless you are Josephine and Napoleon. Napoleon really wanted to be loved by Josephine. and she was not interested. But they stayed together for the sake of...
2006-10-12 00:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break away from this guy!!!! And forget about being nice. He is not in love with you, he's DEPENDANT upon you. He's not emotionally mature enough to have a relationship.
You've got to just let him cry and walk away. And you have to be strong and not try to be nice and give him mixed messages. He will take them as signs of affection and you'll be back where you started. This guy is really bad news as a boyfriend right now.
2006-10-12 00:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the crybaby, tell your cousin you need a real man not a whiny baby. And if your cousin does hurt you press charges. Personally I would have nothing to do with a cousin that threaten me.
2006-10-12 00:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG im having that exact same problem so i can bearly help u but i would just be like this isn't working if he starts to cry just hang up really fast then dont answer if he calls then tell your cousin to back off cause he doesnt understand.
2006-10-12 00:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by brown19beautie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Explain just what you wrote above.If he knew what makes you annoyed he might try to fix the problem. you did not say how old you are. He seems to be a bit immature. Boys are a bit more delayed in regard to maturity than girls. In a little time, maybe he will wise up or wander off.
2006-10-12 00:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by marymac99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a female. If your cousin is any kind of a real man, he would never "whoop" a woman's butt.
Be a dignified woman, tell the wuss he's a loser and walk away.
2006-10-12 00:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats not gonna last so its a matter of you going through with it now or waiting til you really cant stand it anymore. theres really no reason to wait cuz hes gonna get hurt either way... hell get over it - he just doesnt wanna lose you but his crying shouldnt mak eyou change your mind. i know it sucks to hurt someones feelings but just tell him that he should be with someone who loves him back the same and you cant give him that so he needs to move on
2006-10-12 00:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well my husband trys to annoy me as much as possible...if he really cares for you like you do him then he will stop annoying you and if he dont after you tell him how you feel leave for a couple of days dont answer his calls then what you said to him will sink in his head while your gone, if that dont help click that your serious then i would just go ahead and tell him its over cause obviously he didnt care for you enough to listen to what you said...hope that helps...i know how it feels i go through it everyday...
2006-10-12 00:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever let anyone control ur life...do what u feel is right..if u don't feel that way about him then don't stay with him regardless of what ur older cuz big or not says...sorry..but u have to take responsibility for urself and don't worry about what other people think....good luck with that
2006-10-12 00:23:13 · answer #11 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋