Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

2006-10-11 18:17:02 · 9 answers · asked by cruisingalong 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 23 yr old daughter broke up with her looser boyfriend three months ago. When I say looser, I mean, big time loser: he does not have a high school diploma, my daughter worked and supported him when they lived together, his big goal in life over the past several years has been to try to collect social security for a faked back injury from a car accident. He's also hooked on pain killers. Shortly after they broke up she found out she was pregnant and he is the father. She decided to have the baby and not tell him. We have helped to support her financially since the break up. I have just found out she has gone back with him. and my heart is broken and sick. Do I want to even meet my grandchild? This guy has already screwed up one kid, and will surely screw up my grandchild. Should I take away the cell phone I gave her and pay the monthly charge for? I gave her a car which is still in my name. Should I take it back? The last car she had, she let him drive and he drove it into the ground

2006-10-11 18:16:04 · 17 answers · asked by PDY 5 in Family

This guy I know at school is always running up to me and poking my sides and grabbing my back and scaring me. He is always teasing me, etc. But has told one of my friends I was "hot." Is he just being rude to me and not like me and that's why he keeps poking my sides and grabbing my back or is he flirting?

2006-10-11 18:15:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 18:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I like to pee in a glass in my room instead of going to the bathroom. Well I got up at 2 a.m. peed in the glass and put it on my nightstand. In the morning when I hit the snooze alarm, my arm accidentally knocked the glass over onto my friends book which was also on the nightstand. It is now permanently altered like it has been rained on or something but it has a smell to it as well. I don't want to tell my friend I spilled urine on it because that would be embarassing. I can't replace it because it isn't published anymore which is why i borrowed it from him. What do I tell him?

2006-10-11 18:13:36 · 15 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Friends

Baicly the guy I am in love with (about 1 year btw), he is crazy, and I mean that, he is crazy. He's been to mental hopsital more than once, he's on medication, he is crazy. Everyone that meets him seems to instantly dislike him, my family hate him, my friends hate him, and he has no friends, I never noticed when I first met him that anything was wrong, and by the time I realized for myself how strange he was, I was already in love. He goes into temper tantrums all the time, he calls me obsessively, he cries, he screams, he shouts, and he spends 95% of his time being generally off. He is also violent, started off with just pushing etc but now it's full-on, I mean I've never been hospitalized for it or anything but still, violence is violence and it is WRONG. However I love him, and we are infatuated with each other, there is a whirwhind of passion inside me just when I think of him, he makes me FEEL so much I love him to bits, should I walk away because he really is a wreck?

2006-10-11 18:13:26 · 41 answers · asked by heather 1 in Singles & Dating

hi ,,, my name is windy martinez---live in--CT... looking 4 my brother Jamie Martinez son of Paulina Martinez... that is my agenda.....................................................................................

2006-10-11 18:12:58 · 6 answers · asked by windystorm4luv 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 18:12:36 · 6 answers · asked by Still blond but no longer single 1 in Singles & Dating

feeling like a nut ! oldie but a good

2006-10-11 18:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by deerolmind 3 in Friends

i am scared to have a baby..its been over an yr since we got married...i am going through a bad career time...few of my age friends are having babies now...me and my hubby were having a simple conversn abt babies and he said he would like to have a kid some day...but ..the name of baby is freaking me out...when i told this he was like" don't say never...some day u got have b4 its too late..."
may be i am freaking out coz of career ..but at times i am kinda overwhlemed by all the differences me and hubby have abt few things in life...i really can't think clearly...but i wanted to know does any one freak out like me ..
i am 26 yr old..i am applying for my residency this year and past 4 years have been really bad for my career and i have really huge dreams,to make up for all loss...
please gimme ur opinions or suggestns..i would appreciate it

2006-10-11 18:10:57 · 15 answers · asked by crazyabs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here's the situation. have an ex, who ive known since we were 12 (im 22 now). we were together this past summer but then broke up (again). but we continued to see one another regularly (no, not just sex). but now im back in college for my last semester and i go home maybe once a month.... so basically, i love him and he loves me. he claims hes not sleeping with anyone while im away. but then again he also says he doesnt want us to get back together, specifically not while im away at school. so im kinda confused about whether i should date and/or be intimate with others. obviously, he wouldnt want me to, but i feel like if that was really the case, then we'd be together. plus being away at school can get very lonely without meeting people. but sometimes i feel guilty going on a date, like im cheating....what should i do??

also...he knows how i feel about all this. his answer is usually that if i really wanted to be with him, i wouldnt date others, period

2006-10-11 18:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys do you like it or find it trashy when a girl has her cartilage pierced?? What about her lobes double pierced??


Just looking for opinions and no I will not let any guys opinion influence how I feel about myself, just wanted to see what guys thought.....thanks! :)

2006-10-11 18:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I'm a masochist or something. I don't of is this is a refletion of my parents drug usage in the past but I've developed this idea that I must be the perfect daughter. The daughter who called to check in when she went out. The daughter that was good to her brother and neices and tried to make sure mom and dad didn't hit the pipe. Now, I'm 25 years old & I have this vision of myself later in life: I'll be old, unmarried no kids and bitter because I've helped my family so much and haven't done for myself. Most recently I let my brother have my last 100$ so his lights wouldn't get cut off. How do I begin to disregard what my family thinks and live for myself? How do I breakaway and start enjoying myself?

2006-10-11 18:06:08 · 16 answers · asked by T-Bird 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a girl lets me sit next to her and in her personal space, you know...the arm length is you own personal space, any closer than arm's length is in your personal space. Anyway, I am sitting with this girl in school and we are like two inches away from each other. If a girl lets you get that close, what does it mean? PS: she has plenty of space to move away if she had felt uncomfortable.

What are your thoughts? Is she waiting for me to make a move?

2006-10-11 18:05:17 · 10 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mom, I'm 26. From the moment I told my family I was pregnant, everyone told me to give up the baby or have an abortion. I fought and fought and told them I could do it. The father is in the picture and he helps me somewhat. I've been doing this with for 2 1/2 years with his help(we're not together). Ove the last yr, I've been really depressed/stressed. I go to school full time and take care of my daughter. I have a little issue with yelling at my daughter and I feel badly about it. I'm just so down all the time. My family doesn't understand and basically think I'm a bad mother. I don't have the greatest medical coverage so seeing a dr isn't really an option and I don't have much money. I just wish my family wasn't so harsh on me. I'm at my wits end with everything in my life. Sometimes I feel like i should......oh I don't know? I love my child and I couldnt do that to her. Any advice?

2006-10-11 18:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family

i haven't seen him since the day i met him (two days ago) but we're friends on facebook now. what should i say hi to him in an email or something? what should i say? i dunno if that would freak him out or not. we ate dinner w/ 3 other people and all had good conversations and everything.... but i want to see him again, even if it's just to hang out, but i dunno what to say to him. what are your suggestions?? thanks! : )

2006-10-11 18:03:05 · 5 answers · asked by mayso 2 in Singles & Dating

We had A BBQ with friends the other week ,
And We bought all the food as you do...

And the boys went off to get some drinks , we will call them bob and david.
So bob forgets his wallet and my partner david pays for the drinks , Bob says he will pay him back , David wasnt bothered....
he figured we were the hosts we could supply all the drinks as well ,
Anyway they get back home bob does not offer the money back , we didnt really care...
No where near the end of the night our friends bob and korinna decide to go home and take a $40.00 unopened bottle of booze with them! they didnt even tell us they were taking it , didnt pay for it , And when asked we were told to come and take the half drunk bottle cause they had no money. That wasnt the princible.....
they seem to think they have done nothing wrong???

2006-10-11 18:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I absoutley despise my boyfriends family! ive been with him for 2 years..im 20 hes 23..and i love his mom, dad, and brothers..but his grandparents are terrible..they are so judgemental and make me feel so uncomfortable when im there..i get sick to my stomach when we go there on holidays..my boyfriend even feels the same way! and i know the holidays are coming up soon..help! grandparents are supposed to be nice!

2006-10-11 18:02:23 · 21 answers · asked by CINDY R 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy 3 weeks ago. His friend had asked me out, and I had gone out with the both of them. However, this guy and I got along better. He ended up approaching me during the night and we made out. We also spoke. I'm still a virgin because I'm scared, even after a long-term relationship. Anyway, it was a weird night. We made out, he tried to go down on me but I wouldn't let him. We spoke about emotions. He just got out of a long-term relationship and is trying the dating scene. Anyway, he drops me off at my apartment.

Two days later he calls me and we talk for awhile. Then 2 days after that I talk to him on campus. He texts me 3 hours after that and asks to hang out. We go to a party 2 days after that. He goes to my apartment after the party and sleeps over. (No sex though.) He looks through my closet and asks me questions about my sex life, which is non-existent.

He talks to my friend about me, saying that he had met a "cool girl" (meaning me), and that I challenge him, but he

2006-10-11 18:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by yawn 1 in Singles & Dating

A registered flat has 1st name of wife and 2nd name of husband. The father of wife is given power of attorney by wife to sign any document on her behalf. Hence in her temporory absence, the registered agreement of the above said flat is being signed by wife's father as 1st owner and the husband as the 2nd owner. According to the by-laws, the husband being the 2nd owner is only an associate member having less rights than the wife. The maintanence of the flat is paid by the wife's father as per her instruction, which is being reimbursed to wife's father by the husband. What will be the procedure to have a joint membership so that husband will have equal rights for the flat as the wife has? Please advice for the same in favour of husband.

2006-10-11 18:01:20 · 1 answers · asked by HITESH V 1 in Family

Well I was thinking about making one and giving it to my g/f, so is it too cheesy and unoriginal or is it thoughtful? And to the girls who answer this question would you be happy with this, a Card, a Poem and a night out? Yes, no?

2006-10-11 18:01:10 · 14 answers · asked by full_gangstarr 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd been ignoring my ex's texts and phone calls but last nite I replied a text and he asked me to drop him an email.
Well, I did. And he's back to his old nasty self, saying for the upteenth time he's trying to be nice by calling me, that he won't bother to do it anymore. I suggested he's got antisocial personality disorder coz he enjoy torturing me. He replied with a sarcastic remark, asking me to pop a pill when I'm really on medication. What's on his mind? What does he want really? He's 44 but he only hang out with people in the late 20s and early 30s. Is that unhealthy?

2006-10-11 18:00:41 · 3 answers · asked by Nemrac666 2 in Singles & Dating

For my birthday i did not recieve anything from anyone in my family not even my mom or my boyfriend. I was really expecting him to do something for me this year because he couldn't do anything for me last year because i was out of town..i was excited because he really hyped up the fact that my birthday was coming and how it was supposed to be the best day of my life and we were gonna have so much fun....out of all the people in my life i just knew he was gonna do something special for me because of the fact we been together for a year &a 1/2 & that we have been staying together for the same amount of time...i didn't even get a phone call from my mom..not talking to her either.my boyfriend didnt even get me a card all i got was happy birthday.i am hurt because i set myself up to expect more than what i recieved...he keeps asking me what can he do to make it up but i really dont know what to tell him..i dont feel like i should tell him anything..I need to know what to do about this

2006-10-11 18:00:36 · 5 answers · asked by toya1jolly 2 in Singles & Dating

What is love? Why do we need it? Why does it hurt us so much?
What is it that makes people make poor choices in partners?
Why do we grieve so much when we lose a love even it was a bad experience.
Why do we have such huge expectations of love and marriage and that man ends up being the nightmare husband from hello. What happens between the I do and the rest of life?

2006-10-11 18:00:27 · 15 answers · asked by clcalifornia 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell the truth now...I'm 23 and I have never been so I guess you are going to bring on the laughs, huh? :P
What about you, who hasn't and what is your age?
Well,there was this one guy who I met at a club awhile back and he tried to teach me how to kiss but I backed off.Lol.

2006-10-11 18:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating

I LOVE hot or cute girls who are totally nerdy and clutzy. The type of girl who is totally hot but barely knows it.

2006-10-11 17:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like what comes first, you ask someone to be your gf/bf and then ask out, or the other way around.

2006-10-11 17:58:46 · 8 answers · asked by N/a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 17:58:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we went on a date and i called her for a second one and we were gunna go but then she said that she got swamped with a homework assignment. we had a good time and when i asked she gave me her number. she seemed to be really happy but is she trying to blow me off? do i keep pressing the question?

2006-10-11 17:58:08 · 5 answers · asked by matt 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this is reasonable or unreasonable

2006-10-11 17:57:14 · 3 answers · asked by Doclkk 4 in Other - Family & Relationships