If a girl lets me sit next to her and in her personal space, you know...the arm length is you own personal space, any closer than arm's length is in your personal space. Anyway, I am sitting with this girl in school and we are like two inches away from each other. If a girl lets you get that close, what does it mean? PS: she has plenty of space to move away if she had felt uncomfortable.
What are your thoughts? Is she waiting for me to make a move?
2006-10-11 18:05:17 · 10 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-11 18:10:41 · update #1
Well one of the things that I would do is observe how she is with other guys and if she lets other guys sit that close to her then the probability of her liking you minimum but if she is particular as to whom sits by her or whom she sit with then she more than likely likes you. I would not make any sudden moves if I were you. If you want to make sure that something comes from this then do not for no reason rush in to things. This is not a game to see if you can get the girl. If that is all that you are after then she will surly find out and hate you forever. Be nice to her. Open doors, maybe carry some of her books. ask her if she would like you to walk her to class or maybe even home but if you are to walk her home that doesn't mean you have made it any where yet and do not ask to come in, let her offer. My advice to you is let things play out and in due time you will see were it goes. Just be honest to yourself first and with her after that. Good luck man. Hope it works out.
Cathy
2006-10-11 18:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried about making a move? Why can't you just let things happen and when the feeling is right with the both of you, you will know. Don't be so pushy, that tends to turn a girl off. (well that's how i feel any way) But yeah usually if you can get that close then little things will happen in the future just go with the flow and see where it goes!
2006-10-11 18:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by LAshlea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just waiting for you to get that close... Or is she an open-minded person, nowadays girls are so open-minded, just sitting with boys wouldn't mean much...(maybe?) Other than allowing you to sit close and into her personal space, does she make any more moves? But for my case, i have no objection to sitting with whoever... Might be just your thoughts bah... Dun worry so much, just follow your heart bah, if you think she is waiting for you, just go ahead and make a move... Either she is an open-minded person or a daring person who is waiting for your move! Dun be shy! Observe her attitude towards you and other people, whether there is a difference of not. Haha, jkjk =)
2006-10-11 18:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Personal Space"...wow. Thats like so fifth grade. Haha..just kidding. But seriously, who even thinks about personal space anymore?! It doesnt' mean anything! She's just being normal! Unless you're some wierdo then you two are probably just friends...I mean, no offense. I really dont' think she's waiting for you to make a move. Sorry!
2006-10-11 18:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She feels comfortable enough, to sit that close. She's not neccisarilly looking for you to make the next move, but a little flirting to spice things us wouldnt hurt.
2006-10-11 18:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either likes sitting that close to you or is too shy to get up and move over. If she isn't shy, then you know she likes you. I wouldn't let a guy get that close to me if I didn't like him.
2006-10-11 18:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slide your knee so it's touching hers. If she doesn't pull away, the field is open to make a move.
2006-10-11 18:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just being normal friends....sharing space isn't always about sexual attraction.
she will let you know if she wants to play....by touching you or teasing you to get a reaction.
2006-10-11 18:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful. It's called a desk. Don't touch anything unless she permits you to!!
2006-10-11 18:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋