I met a guy 3 weeks ago. His friend had asked me out, and I had gone out with the both of them. However, this guy and I got along better. He ended up approaching me during the night and we made out. We also spoke. I'm still a virgin because I'm scared, even after a long-term relationship. Anyway, it was a weird night. We made out, he tried to go down on me but I wouldn't let him. We spoke about emotions. He just got out of a long-term relationship and is trying the dating scene. Anyway, he drops me off at my apartment.
Two days later he calls me and we talk for awhile. Then 2 days after that I talk to him on campus. He texts me 3 hours after that and asks to hang out. We go to a party 2 days after that. He goes to my apartment after the party and sleeps over. (No sex though.) He looks through my closet and asks me questions about my sex life, which is non-existent.
He talks to my friend about me, saying that he had met a "cool girl" (meaning me), and that I challenge him, but he
2006-10-11 18:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by yawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does not trust me.
Anyway, my friend tells me this, and I end up calling this guy 4 days after we had hung out. He didn't pick up, and I did not leave a message
The next day I called again and left a message asking what he's been telling people. I don't want people to think I'm a slut, when I'm not. He told me he's not like that, and we talk for a little and then he says I'll speak to you later okay.
He said that we have a mental connection. He asked about my guy friends and what they look like/if I like them. He thinks that we both have emotional issues, which may be true.
The last time I spoke to him was a week ago. We aren't technically dating (I'm dating other people..) And we aren't in a relatinoship, but I enjoy talking to him. I feel like he's deep, unlike most guys. Will I ever speak to him again?
2006-10-11 18:03:12 · update #1
He told me to call him whenever I wanted to talk about my emotions, and he asked me once if I would ever purposely hurt him. However, he hasn't called me in a week. We aren't dating nor are we in a relationship, but I want to connect with this guy on a deeper level. What's going to happen?
2006-10-11 18:04:39 · update #2
What are you talking about? I gave him nothing, not even sex. He thinks I have herpes so he won't touch me on my genitalia...
read the entire question please.
2006-10-11 18:06:32 · update #3
Oh, also, his ex had STDs..so that might factor into him not trusting me.
He thinks I screw with people's minds, and asked me if I would screw with his head? Or if I thought I could?
2006-10-11 18:07:47 · update #4
He tells me weird stuff too. Basically he and his long-term ex met because she said "hey let's have sex" and they did. So I guess she didn't care about it....and then they had a threesome with her friend. He's in his early 20s and a senior in college.
Anyway, what the hell?
2006-10-11 18:13:32 · update #5
yes, you'll talk to him again. When he thinks he can get a piece again. Sounds a little too sneaky. He'll dump you after you give it up....believe me
2006-10-11 18:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, but your right to keep dating. I mean I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for this guy to call you nor would I keep calling him. Just back off and see what happends. If he really wants to see you again, then he will call or find you somehow to go kick it again. Also be careful with him cause he's saying your a challenge which could me he's just trying to get in your pants and once he get's it, the challenge is over, he gets what he wanted and bounces.
2006-10-11 18:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Simmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's more than deep, he's a bit strange. Please dont get too involved with him. If ya wanna talk with him, do it from a distance.
Like text, or email.......that sorta thing.
2006-10-11 18:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋